Just curious for ideas. I'm always looking for new ways to keep things spiced up and alive.
2007-12-25 12:31:03 · 5 answers · asked by Phillip 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I've been married for nearly 18 years. Hopefully I'm doing something right. Thanks to all for the ideas.
2007-12-25 12:50:42 · update #1
I applaud you for thinking about your wife and marriage like this. It is so nice to see there are men in this world that think like you do. That wasn't the case in my marriage.....and when I tried to put the spark there on numerous occasions over the years, he "had to work late" or "had to work overtime" or said "so and so is so beautiful"......the spark dwindled to once every 6 weeks or so and fizzled out over a year ago....go figure......it's so wonderful to see there's hope still for me out there and not all men behave as mine did. You're a sweet man and your wife is very lucky!
2007-12-25 12:47:23 · answer #1 · answered by justlilme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married 9 years. We have 4 wonderful kids, run a business from home and home educate....it's crazy and ALWAYS busy!
Be spontaneous.....ask for a quick dance for no reason.....text message him in the middle of the day to say you were thinking of him...initiate sex once in a while and keep it regular.....
Be silly and fun......go out to eat ALONE at least once a month.
2007-12-25 12:36:35 · answer #2 · answered by Amy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say do something she dont expect. That can be cook supper, or a card or flowers, or even soemthing in the bedroom. Keep it fresh.
2007-12-25 12:38:42 · answer #3 · answered by primalclaws1974 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two are still "in love"? WOW that is a bigger discovery than finding bigfoot. You should start a reality show about it. I have never seen a married couple that is still "in love" and they aren't lying about it. COOL.
2007-12-25 13:04:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We don't do sparks, because there always a Hot Fire Burning!
2007-12-25 13:25:52 · answer #5 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋