Family & Relationships - 25 December 2007

My best friend has been acting very strange lately and everybody is starting to convince me that he's gay. He shows everyone his penis all the time, he even ,made a hole in his sweatpants so evrybody can see it and always shows when he has an erection When we are playing like basketball or baseball, he'll flash his pubes in like everyones face and he purpousle tries to get people to see him naked. For example when I was at his house for a sleepover with a couple other guys he had just come out of the shower and came back into the room completely naked without a towel and he knew we were there and the he's like "oopseys". He is 13 years old just like me and me and all my frineds think he is gay. He always says comments to all of us i bet you i have more pubes than you i bet you my penis is 10x bigger than yours But who makes a hole in his sweatpants so evryone can see his dick and why does he flash his pubes all the time. The bottom line is he loves ****

2007-12-25 13:16:41 · 18 answers · asked by Regina Thunderpants 2 in Singles & Dating

I like 3 guys right now: one I think Im in love with but dont talk to, one I really like and asked out, and one who is a total wh*re and pretty much all of my friends's ex boyfriend. He's dated 6 of my friends so far, and we went out too. (you know who you are..)
The first guy Ive been thinking about for 2 years now and I practically never see him but I can't let go and I dont know why

The second guy I think about constantly. I asked him out and he said he'd think about it, but he didn't say anything yet. Does that mean he said no? And all my friends hate him, but they all pressured me for weeks to ask him out. They all think he's a womanizer and stuff. It really bugs me
And the third guy *glares at him* 2 of his other ex's still like him too and he and his current girlfriend are never going to last (sorry to say it, please dont kill me). But I'm sure that once they break up he'll go back to one or the other but not me.
None of my friends will listen to this anymore. I'm confused

2007-12-25 13:16:31 · 1 answers · asked by OMG Lizard In A Can! :D 4 in Singles & Dating

I called my husband to see his daughter today for visitations because we are not divorced so we verbally agree. He was at his families when i called he said call me back to my brothers cell i will have it all day. I'm eating now call me in half an hour. So i call him he never answers it is christmas and he doesn't act to interested in seeing his daughter. Well my plans got all messed up and i was late getting home,so he didn't get to see her today should i call him now and say cabn you see her tommorrow or let it go?

2007-12-25 13:15:35 · 11 answers · asked by poo~poo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you like it better when a girl wears a mini skirt with a little tank top;
or when a girl wears jeans and a sweat shirt?
J/W

2007-12-25 13:12:31 · 15 answers · asked by Manda--Bye? 2 in Singles & Dating

well, my bff (or not) likes to brag in my face. i wan't her to stop, but i'm terribly shy, so i don't know what to do. i don't like 2 b a snich, or a tattle-tale. and i don't wan't 2 b remembered by that.
what do i do?

2007-12-25 13:12:10 · 6 answers · asked by stephziviski 2 in Friends

your husbands back? Do you like to have men fantasy about you?

2007-12-25 13:12:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-25 13:11:51 · 10 answers · asked by cc 1 in Singles & Dating

When she is drunk? I know everything about her disease so i don't need advice about that. Ive been going through this for years and still don't know how to react when she is drunk. I hate saying this but she is hopeless in getting better. She has even been in the klink two times in the past two years. Served a hard 3-4 months. And has been in treatment too many times to count and some other halfway house thing and still no luck. Anway im 16 so i have to spend two more years here until i am outta here. What ami supposed to do for two more years! Its practically tearing me apart and my home isnt a home anymore its HELLL! would appreciate alot of answers! thank you

2007-12-25 13:11:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ons?

thanks.

2007-12-25 13:09:30 · 4 answers · asked by Aloneee 1 in Singles & Dating

we have been paying this house for 5 years and both of their names were on it up until a year ago to get a better rate he recently passed away without a will what happens now?

2007-12-25 13:06:36 · 3 answers · asked by trackmaster23us 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-25 13:06:20 · 6 answers · asked by cipan 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-25 13:03:58 · 14 answers · asked by justanotheruser 5 in Family

for cheating would it make you more likely to cheat if the opportunity arose?

2007-12-25 13:03:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Did your new spouse take your child/children in as their own or do they let the ex act as the parent only?

2007-12-25 13:02:01 · 14 answers · asked by Ari's Mom 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-25 13:00:14 · 11 answers · asked by GEO 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I got married in February in the courthouse...the witnesses were two friends of my husband's whom I did not know at the time (but since have become good friends with). We had a small reception afterwards, no honeymoon.

Is it selfish of me to want to do a real wedding? I know we can't afford it; we're tight on money just trying to get a better car. He's in Iraq right now (since October), but he said when he gets back we can have a 'wedding' (renewal of vows) ceremony, but he told me to plan all the details and I am trying to save money for it, but he keeps spending money in ridiculous amounts on things he has absolutely no need for, nor do I, and isn't sticking to the financial plan we had agreed on. I don't think he really meant it when he said we would have a ceremony.

I feel cheated out of a wedding and honeymoon...should I just get over it, or are these feelings reasonable?

2007-12-25 12:59:36 · 22 answers · asked by Jewel 4 in Weddings

My fiancee and I have looked at a dozen wedding sites and finally found one we loved. Throughout the ordeal my mother and her father were putting in there two cents non stop about where they wanted it. The place we chose is phenomenal and my finacee's parents loved it too. The place does not compare to any other. Keep in mind my girls parents are paying for most of it.

My mother who is agoraphobic doesnt like the place we picked because of a few reasons. Basically she is phobic and does not think she can handle the place. She complains about everyhwere we picked more or less so we didnt think there was any serious issue until now. My fiancee is in tears almost every night with this predicament. She wants this place badly, and I dont want to pick between her and my mothers hapiness but i would definitely pick my future wife. Either way one will resent the other. My feeling is my mom will have to figure it out. take some valium or something to calm her. Its mostly t What to do?

2007-12-25 12:59:27 · 6 answers · asked by slumlordo 1 in Weddings

2007-12-25 12:58:47 · 9 answers · asked by whew 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, so we went to camp together from the time we were 4 to 14...It was a big camp and we kind of knew each other, but weren't necessarily best friends or anything. After 3 years, I have found her on facebook and now we're facebook friends. I've always had a crush on her and now I feel like I might be ready enough to ask her out or something. Yet, I haven't said a word to her in 3 years. I can send her a message, but it would probably seem really random. What should I say? She's way, way out of my league, but according to her profile she's single. Can I just randomly ask her to hang out even if we were never really friends? What if she doesn't remember me? How should I play this and what should I say? I'm obsessing...

2007-12-25 12:57:29 · 4 answers · asked by Mick J 1 in Singles & Dating

My father married with and old woman calle susan, she had a Daughter when met him, now susan died and my father married again with his step-daughter, she is pregnant, my question is, what are we going to be with the coming baby, are we going to be brothers or my nephew?

2007-12-25 12:55:03 · 10 answers · asked by Ezekiel 1 in Marriage & Divorce

how old were you when u had first sex? how did it feel how long did u have it and did it work the way u planned

2007-12-25 12:54:57 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What would you do if your boyfriend was always on the phone talking to a female that he was supposed to hook up with before you but did not get the chance and even though you express that it bothers you he still does it and always insisted that you were wrong for feeling so. What would you do?

2007-12-25 12:52:36 · 22 answers · asked by evelesse2000 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm ready to move to the next stages of my life or at least I think I'm ready. What scares me is that I don't know how good I would be in a relationship and whether someone would love me for who I am. I've changed so much since last year and learned to be myself. My problem is that I'm ready to move on and start dating but I'm still in love with my first love. She's one of the reason I've changed so much. I've learned to like myself and come out of my shell. I'm not sure what to do with that because I never want to intentionally hurt her in anyway and I think that she deserves better. I do know that I'm always going to care and love them. There's no doubt in my mind about that one.

2007-12-25 12:52:25 · 17 answers · asked by Whatever 2 in Singles & Dating

I dontl love my husband anymore. we have been married 3 years and probs that i have been unhappy with are:
He lied about credit card debts etc and still takes his mail to work and keeps it there so i still dont know what is goin on.
He does nothing in the house. i feel like his housekeeper, he cant even work a washing machine at 47 yrsold.
He wont talk to me; if i have aprob he either walks out or just ignores me.
He never tries to resolve things or say sorry. He just goes in a huff and it lasts for days until i try to get him out of it. For example 22nd we had a row as he was very drunk and woke me 4am in morning etc. usual stuff. next day we had presents to deliver and food to buy but he refused to go out. so i did and came back and he had gone out and done some shopping for himself - magazines etc. huff continued and wouldnt speak
24th i asked him if he was happy with silence and he said he didnt see a problem. he said he had nothing to say. is it over?

2007-12-25 12:52:16 · 17 answers · asked by cottontail 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-25 12:51:45 · 8 answers · asked by Bluestorm 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-25 12:50:37 · 12 answers · asked by jeff b 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Why do you like it so much?

2007-12-25 12:49:06 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi all,

I can't believe I'm writing this on Christmas Day.. but I'm at my wits end. I just found out that my (former?) best friend and her b/f of 4 years just got engaged about 2 wks ago through an email. I was really hurt b/c she has been pretty much my best pal for the last 10 yrs and I knew something was wrong if she did not call me to share the great news.

Earlier this fall, I told my friend that I am going for a MBA degree next year - and to my shock - out of all of my friends, she was the only unsupportative one.. criticizing my decision and saying it was unneccessary. But I am not making enough to get by - I"m a graphic designer, she's a social worker, and she has dual incomes with her b/f. I'm still single and we all live in CA. So I don't know why she's behaving this way, the last time we talked, was on her birthday in Sept., when I sent her a giftcard. Since then she has never called me, I tried to talk to her but this last bit really hurt me.

2007-12-25 12:47:41 · 22 answers · asked by two_design_kitties 3 in Singles & Dating

i have a lover, we are both married and not too happy, we email and text regularly as well as meet fairly regularly. he is very insecure due to a very sad background where he ended uo in foster care after his mum died, he is now 51. but if i don't get chance to text for a while, he constantly thinks i don't want him anymore, he is so scared of losing me, and wants me to live with him, but he is so hung up on me, it's a little stifling. i'm in love with him, but i'm a bit of a free spirit, and i feel he may be a bit obsessed, what are your thoughts please

2007-12-25 12:45:20 · 15 answers · asked by chakra girl 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a very shy person and tend to run out of things to talk about, and as soon as I run out of things to talk about, things tend to get awkward... What do I do in situations like these without sounding stupid or making myself look like an idiot?

2007-12-25 12:44:36 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating