2007-12-25 12:51:45 · 8 answers · asked by Bluestorm 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes you have every right to be upset with him
2007-12-25 12:55:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anna 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes dads cant work things out with moms. I am a dad and my wife at that time cheated on me many times, lied about that and acted like she was justified. She was controlling, wouldnt let me see my mom and dad, and was lazy-- didn't find work when we needed money, and I worked full time. She pleaded to the kids that she was totally innocent, but it turned out that the kids saw she lied about alot of stuff. I couldn't get over her cheating, it hurt too much, so she divorced me and then tried to come back, but I couldn't do it.
I love my kids but my ex wife is trying to keep me away from them with lies. I had to move on to the woman I am with now for 3 years, and I couldnt be happier. I know that people change very little, so if I took my ex back it would be the same problems all over again.
The big thing now should be that neither parent should be trying to alienate you from the other one, that is just cruel. Keep that in mind and good luck.
2007-12-25 21:57:41 · answer #2 · answered by Le Nuez Vert` 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm assuming your dad cheated on your mom with second wife if so yes it's okay to be upset with him. Discuss this with him and tell him why it upsets you. But in the end it is between your parents and he will always be your dad. We all have to learn to forgive and forget.
2007-12-25 21:15:17 · answer #3 · answered by sue 2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have the right to be angry. But what is the point? A relationship between two persons are very difficult for a third person to understand.
You can say that he is running away from his responsibility to the family, etc etc. But this is going to happen, so understand that you may need to support your family more without your father.
2007-12-25 21:00:26 · answer #4 · answered by Shawn W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can be upset but he is still your dad. just try and understand him for who he is. Even if you do not like things he does and you do not have to just realize how he is and accept him that way.
2007-12-25 21:11:23 · answer #5 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ah no..it's not your problem...if your Dad is ignoring you, then be mad, but it's your Mom's life, not yours.
2007-12-25 21:02:08 · answer #6 · answered by Chrys 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can feel upset because of what he did to your mother.
I certainly would.
2007-12-25 21:04:35 · answer #7 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be
2007-12-25 20:56:26 · answer #8 · answered by lmspencr 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋