Is my best friend gay? 10 POINTS FOR BEST ANSWER!?

Question

My best friend has been acting very strange lately and everybody is starting to convince me that he's gay. He shows everyone his penis all the time, he even ,made a hole in his sweatpants so evrybody can see it and always shows when he has an erection When we are playing like basketball or baseball, he'll flash his pubes in like everyones face and he purpousle tries to get people to see him naked. For example when I was at his house for a sleepover with a couple other guys he had just come out of the shower and came back into the room completely naked without a towel and he knew we were there and the he's like "oopseys". He is 13 years old just like me and me and all my frineds think he is gay. He always says comments to all of us i bet you i have more pubes than you i bet you my penis is 10x bigger than yours But who makes a hole in his sweatpants so evryone can see his dick and why does he flash his pubes all the time. The bottom line is he loves ****

and i bet you he'll suck one if u ask him to, but he was never like this b4, so me and my frinds don't know what to say to him,because we are all straight, so how do we tell him and who wants to have a gay friend (we are not homophobic, we just think he's been acting strane lately and i miss the old mikey) and he is constantly flashing his pubes at eveyrone and also saying "here, i'll donate one"

Answer 1

I seriously doubt he is gay. He is probably just expierincing new things and is going crazy. He probably just is not comfortable talking so he acts.

If he is gay, then just accept it.

Since it bothers you so much that he does that then just tell him "dude, save the show for the shower" or something like that, and tell him you find it offensive when he does that. He should stop it. Besides, most 13 year old boys do that, just not to that extent.

Answer 2

He's not necessarily gay. He's a 13 year old boy and chances are he's proud of his equipment, and when you're 13 and proud of your equipment, chances are you're going to show it off.
Even if he is gay, it doesn't matter. He's still the same old guy (even if he's changed for now, inside he's still the same guy) so don't abandon him just because he's gay.
If you consider him a close enough friend to be able to, then talk to him about it. Ask him why he's acting the way he is and if he tells you he's gay then it's your duty to keep it a secret for him and not treat him differently. He always has been and always will be be your friend, gay or not.
I know talking to him may not be easy, but it's probably the best thing to do if you want a straight answer (no pun intended.)
So just have a chat with him. Bring it up casually, try and be a bit sly; not blatantly outright.
Good luck and I hope no matter what happens you'll stay friend with him (Y)

Answer 3

Hey stop been so hard on the guy, whom by the way just realized that his weenie is bigger than most and that he is developing faster that some and with more hair at that. I think he is just like you a teenager with a lot of hormones that need an etiquette lesson. Just come out at tell him he is looking very stupid this days and give him a chance to vindicate him self, ,,,after all you are 13 only once and at least he is having fun about it. Good luck ,,,,,,and nooooooooooo he is not gay. It takes a lot more to be that.lolololol Trust me I am 50 years old, a grandmother and had a gay brother whom I love to death.lolol

Answer 4

At 13 he may not know his sexual orientation yet...but if you are his best friend, talk to him about this. Ask him why he does those things and if he notices that other guys don't.

Something is going on with him, but I'm not sure it's homosexuality...do hetero guys flash their penis at girls all the time? That behavior in itself doesn't mean he's gay, but he's got some kind of penis/genital fixation going on.

Perhaps talk to your coach at school about this, because him cutting a hole in his pants to show his penis is very unkewl anyway...it might be a good idea for an adult to talk to him about why he's doing these things and what's going through his head.

Answer 5

I have a gay friend and i will tell you this honesty is the key. never go to him in front of people but ask him in a private area and say: " hey mikey i want to talk to you about something that has been bothering me. tell him that as his friend you have his back and that you would never do anything to hurt him, but tell him the way he's been acting is strange and you wanted to know if he was interested in people other than girls, don't just come out and say "are you gay" even if that is what you mean, you have to tell him that as his friend you want to help him not judge him and that you take your friendship very serious and you want mikey to trust yoiu. so tell him if he is that being "that way" does not change the way you look at him as a friend but it let's you know that mikey values your friendship enough to tell you before he tells anyone else, and if he's not "that way" tell him that you did not mean to hurt his feelings you were just making sure because he was acting different. but make sure you tell him he is your friend and that will never change.

and in the end your friend can take the conversation 2 ways.

1: he can say that he is not gay, but at least you cared enough to see if he was, and if he was you were willing to still be his friend. (he is going to love you for that)

2: he might say " this idiot actually thinks i'm gay" but then he'll say that " thanks for caring enough to ask me instead of talk about me behind my back " and might tell you that he guffs off alot but don't worry because he loves women and that is never going to change.

Good luck

Answer 6

This doesn't make him gay at all. It sounds more like he has a flashing fetish, and enjoys showing off to people to shock them. (Or, get a sick thrill off doing it). Talk to him and tell him its inappropriate, or tell a teacher/his parents. You dont want him still doing this when hes 45. Sickkkkkkkk

Answer 7

he may or many not be gay, but he does need help, some
type of therapy.
maybe as a friend in a carefully worded way you could
tell him that.

Answer 8

i think he's testing your reactions and wants to show off what he thinks he has!!!
he's a 13 yr old boy, they are very sexually oriented and still young enough that they dont know yet what actually constitutes sexy!!!

Answer 9

It either hes gay or he is proud of his ****. If he flirts with the guys you'll get an answer.

Answer 10

perhaps he is just very open with his privates.
I had a friend who used to show me when he had erections and he is still straight.