I called my husband to see his daughter today for visitations because we are not divorced so we verbally agree. He was at his families when i called he said call me back to my brothers cell i will have it all day. I'm eating now call me in half an hour. So i call him he never answers it is christmas and he doesn't act to interested in seeing his daughter. Well my plans got all messed up and i was late getting home,so he didn't get to see her today should i call him now and say cabn you see her tommorrow or let it go?
2007-12-25 13:15:35 · 11 answers · asked by poo~poo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If i don't is this rude why didn't he call me?
2007-12-25 13:17:38 · update #1
Did he leave you a message on the machine about not getting to see his daughter? If he didn't make the effort just drop it. It's his loss.
2007-12-25 13:25:07 · answer #1 · answered by trixxi_fan 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well you could let it go. Or you could have your daughter call him and leave a message if she wants to see her dad if she doesn't then forget about it and always don't make plans wrap0 around his time. Be prepared next time have something planned so your plans won't get mess up!
2007-12-25 13:24:43 · answer #2 · answered by special 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am divorced and going through something like this, I would not call him at all, you can not make him spend time with his daughter, she is your responsibility, and if he wants to come around let him and if not forget it,just give your daughter all the love you can.
2007-12-25 13:23:22 · answer #3 · answered by Marcilla M 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Why do you maintain dropping your money calling him if he in simple terms hangs up on you? circulate ask your self that. And to artwork in the direction of a decision, you will want a courtroom order concerning visitation. A decide will a minimum of order written progression comments made out to you touching directly to baby, and if he would not do it he would nicely be present in contempt.
2016-11-25 00:19:18 · answer #4 · answered by schebel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LET IT GO...... He was busy with someone else and you don't want your daughter to see you struggling to get her with her father... She might think that you don't want her either..Think, kids are not dumb...Make her important...So what your plans were ruined... She was dealing with an absent tee father...Just let it go...Its not worth it and in the future make sure you just make plans with her and then if maybe he calls then find sometime... When she grows up she will see who was important to her father and who was important to you... Good luck...
2007-12-25 13:27:03 · answer #5 · answered by sweetgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget it, he's being a jerk, don't buy into this, just ignore him.
Unfortunately a lot of dad's are like this. Talk to him sometime alone, when his daughter is not around and let him know how this can hurt her. There's no reason to ignore your child.
2007-12-25 13:27:20 · answer #6 · answered by sandy t 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like a jerk. i don't care if he was eating, he could have put the feed bag down for five minutes and settled visitation arrangements! don't call him, it's his loss. i feel bad for your daughter...it's always the kids that suffer. my ex called yesterday (Christmas eve) and was mad that i wouldn't let our (my!!) daughter go with him for the day. number one, the child has chicken-pox. number two, the poor kid hasn't seen or heard from him in two years and didn't want to even go!!! i swear...there is a special place in hell for such parents! good luck to you!!
2007-12-25 13:27:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would just call him at the regular phone and tell him to call to arrange to visit. It is possible the cell phone is turned off and he doesn't know it. I'm surprised he didn't call when he didn't hear from you, but hey, don't know your situation.
2007-12-25 13:21:09 · answer #8 · answered by CarbonDated 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave a message for him, on the home phone or cell...just tell him its up to him give u a call when he wants to arrange a vistit.
this way the ball is in his court and you have done all you need to.
2007-12-25 13:24:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
He knew you called the first time. If he did not make a cal when you did not get him then it was by his choice. learn you and the child come first. He will get with her later and try to make this up. she will learn in time how he is.
2007-12-25 13:28:56 · answer #10 · answered by ronnny 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋