for cheating would it make you more likely to cheat if the opportunity arose?
2007-12-25 13:03:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think something seriously would have to be wrong in a relationship before I cheated. Cheating normally starts out as something innocent, and that turns into something else. I dont think I would be more likely to cheat if my husband said he would forgive. I would have a hard time forgiving myself if I did. To hurt someone so deeply, it would almost be unforgivable to me. It is understandable to have fanatsy about people. That is completely normal, it is not normal to act on them.
2007-12-25 14:06:29 · answer #1 · answered by lumpy_6 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your cheating then why are you even a in relationship? Because if the opportunity arose again its most likely that you would cheat again.
2007-12-26 16:37:07 · answer #2 · answered by school girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. My husband told me he would forgive me if I cheated as he loves me too much to just give up and I've had many opportunities to cheat and have not done so. Cheating has nothing to do with future forgiveness; it is just a stupid momentary lapse of sanity.
2007-12-25 23:51:28 · answer #3 · answered by pussycat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No - if the person who cheated was truly sorry and was serious about remaining faithful, and their spouse gave them that chance, honestly, there's no chance another affair would happen.
However - if the cheater never meant to change in the first place, then yes, they will take every opportunity "get their jollies" no matter what the cost.
Me - no, I wouldn't do that to my husband. I know the pain of having someone you love cheat on you - multiple times - and I couldn't do that to him.
Blessings.
2007-12-25 21:26:57 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Ariana 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have to first feel remorse for hurting your partner. Then forgive yourself... He/She forgiving you does nothing for the relationship if you don't take the first 2 steps first!
2007-12-25 21:08:04 · answer #5 · answered by T. 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Could not see that a partner would say that unless you had some kind of problems in the house.
2007-12-25 21:22:40 · answer #6 · answered by ronnny 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
to tell you the truth i have already been forgiven...and i have had to work extra hard to gain the trust back from him...my advice would be to just not cheat....
2007-12-25 23:59:39 · answer #7 · answered by 1 UnIqUe InDiViDuAl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's a trap....they'll say that to see if that's what you're about...if you do it, it shows beyond a doubt that you cannot be trusted. If you still refuse, you've passed a test. Such a situation shows they have no trust in you whatsoever, and is a massive red flag of epic proportions....get away from them and don't go back, they're a train wreck waiting to happen.
2007-12-25 21:10:37 · answer #8 · answered by lmspencr 4 · 2⤊ 3⤋
no - absolutley not. cheating is crossing a very distinct line - you can't take it back. it is not fun to live with. don't do it ever.
2007-12-25 23:09:35 · answer #9 · answered by Kay G 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hate to be so honest but I'm afraid it might. If I knew that I would be forgiven if I stole a million dollars, as opposed to going to jail, I would probably be more likely to steal. Damn, I thought i was a good person.
2007-12-25 21:25:29 · answer #10 · answered by jeff b 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋