What would you do if your boyfriend was always on the phone talking to a female that he was supposed to hook up with before you but did not get the chance and even though you express that it bothers you he still does it and always insisted that you were wrong for feeling so. What would you do?
2007-12-25 12:52:36 · 22 answers · asked by evelesse2000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would set him free.
2007-12-25 12:56:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anna 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
It's always more exciting before you actually hook up with the person, so he is sort of infatuated with her. Men always want what they haven't had yet, so let him have her and take comfort in knowing that in a few weeks he'll be bored with her too and on to a different one. Good Luck, and don't EVER let a man make you feel unimportant!
2007-12-25 15:05:32 · answer #2 · answered by begood1977 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really cares for you then he would have already put her in the wind, especially after you telling him it bothers you. So look out for yourself and put this donkey out of your life. While you are wasting your time with this joker there is a lonely man out there waiting for you to come along who will appreciate you for all you are.
2007-12-25 13:08:25 · answer #3 · answered by PJ Solutions 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you've told him straight up you don't like it, after that it's pure disrespect for you.
I would tell him this is your time and it's on YOUR dime so he gets off the phone with her NOW or you see him around like NEVER....
Honestly, he will continue as long as you allow him too..
Kick him to the curb and tell him to lose your number.
you will be so much better off down the road and will wonder what you ever saw in him.....
2007-12-25 13:13:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend is constantly talking to someone that he was "supposed" to hook up with, you don't need to be with him. Not only is that disrespectful, I know it would be extremely hard for you to be able to trust him.
2007-12-25 13:14:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put yourself way above this guy honey and give him the right royal flick.Those two belong together.There are better times ahead for you,and make sure he is not part of that !!!
2007-12-25 12:59:12 · answer #6 · answered by Ruby Jane 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't want to be with a guy that is thinking of someone else. It would bring my self esteem down so I think I'd let him go. Funny thing is that she doesn't want him because if she did, he'd be gone.
2007-12-25 13:06:53 · answer #7 · answered by trixxi_fan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump his azz. No such thing as girls and guys being friends. Somebody always have stronger feelings for the other.
2007-12-25 13:07:09 · answer #8 · answered by nobody you know 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either get through to him or let him talk with her 24/7.
Any decision you make, stick with it, don't be wishy washy.
Good Luck!
2007-12-25 13:16:52 · answer #9 · answered by Queenie` 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not tolerate. It's obvious he still likes her. I think it is very rude of him to do that. It is just not right if you ask me. I would really considering leaving him. You deserve better sweetie.
2007-12-25 12:58:09 · answer #10 · answered by conny 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he should of hooked up with her and to quit wasting your time
2007-12-25 13:26:10 · answer #11 · answered by oorah_83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋