2007-12-25 13:00:14 · 11 answers · asked by GEO 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This is a question from my friend, and he meant Christmas. Thanks.
2007-12-25 13:03:47 · update #1
First is your "friend" paying child support? When youa re going through these type of situations you need to do a bit of legal research. In some states unless there is a custody agreement you can get your child whenever and it is not kidnapping. Also this is ridiculous. It is time for people to put there own feelings to the side and let these children be surrounded by people "who love them" notice i didnt say parents because they arent the only ones who get hurt in these situations. Raise a child so you do not have to HEAL an adult!
2007-12-25 14:02:33 · answer #1 · answered by Sexy PR Mom 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This is not a simple question. Why will see not let the ex see the child? Unfortunately most people are unable to divorce and act like humans. Without knowing the reasons it would be hard to give a good answer. If she's just using the child as a pawn (as so many parents do at a time like this) then she is definitely being a bad parent and I would contact a lawyer asap for immediate visitation rights. I hope this helps somewhat. Good luck to your friend. Most of all good luck to this child.
2007-12-25 13:10:01 · answer #2 · answered by sue 2 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Wow ,she would not let him see his child for the holiday ....that is so not fair the least she could have done was have him over on Christmas Eve for an hour ! The holidays are all about family ! Hopefully he got to talk to the child over the phone. I'm guessing that as he is a friend of yours he is an OK guy.
2007-12-26 01:53:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to get to see your child on another day - maybe New Year's weekend, while the mother is going to a party. You can have a christmas celebration then, and give your child a 2nd christmas.
The date isn't important - it's the time you get to spend together.
2007-12-25 13:07:57 · answer #4 · answered by Ralfcoder 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
For Xmas? If you're just now going thru the divorce, try to be as amicable as possible. You had a child together, so you'll forever be intertwined in each other's lives. Make it as easy on yourself as possible. Try to get custody and visitation arrangements in writing and stick to your end of the bargain so your exwife has no ammo should you need to go to court again. Above all else, do what is best for your child....don't fight in front of them or they may begin to feel like it is their fault. Your exwife may not realize she is harming your child to have some control over you. Good luck to you
2007-12-25 13:07:00 · answer #5 · answered by justlilme 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear you are going through a divorce. If the children live with her then yes, she should claim them. If they will equally split their time between both of your homes then she should claim one and you the other (assuming you have two). My daughter lives with her father and the moment she went to live with him he started to claim her. I went from receiving a return to paying taxes at the end of the year. The first year I was shocked, but the second was easier. Just make sure to make adjustments to your W2 forms at work. Have more taxes taken out (I went from 4 exemptions to 1). This may alleviate how much you have to pay back. (First year I paid 2k, next 600. Just be sure to modify your tax forms) Good luck
2016-05-26 05:45:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very difficult! It's up to the Court to decided what rights the
Father or Mother has in terms of visitation. Your Friend should discuss this with his Lawyer .
2007-12-25 15:13:32 · answer #7 · answered by Alfie333 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off, tell your 'friend'
(I never did trust it when people asked questions for 'friends')
That he needs to grow some fricken balls. Unless there has been some type of court order placed, he has as much of a right to those kids as the mother (check with your local laws to verify - I aint being held accountable for JACK! - hope that's not your friend's name by the way)
Then, all he needs to do is to CALMLY address the issue with the mother IN FRONT OF OTHERS, and then when she acts crazy, he can use it against her in court.
Whatever he does - make sure to advise him NOT to fight in front of the kids - they don't need to see that.
2007-12-25 14:10:37 · answer #8 · answered by Mister 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
for X? wtf is that?
Well I have a child too and the mother will NOT let me see him, she wants to go through the courts N what not so I can see my son again some day, which makes her a BAD parent. All that can be done in a situation like this is take it to court and wait...
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2007-12-25 13:05:15 · answer #9 · answered by ID 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are sappoused to hae your child ethier christmas day or christmas eve. trust me iv ben through it 4 years
2007-12-25 13:09:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋