I am seriously confused...?

Question

I like 3 guys right now: one I think Im in love with but dont talk to, one I really like and asked out, and one who is a total wh*re and pretty much all of my friends's ex boyfriend. He's dated 6 of my friends so far, and we went out too. (you know who you are..)
The first guy Ive been thinking about for 2 years now and I practically never see him but I can't let go and I dont know why

The second guy I think about constantly. I asked him out and he said he'd think about it, but he didn't say anything yet. Does that mean he said no? And all my friends hate him, but they all pressured me for weeks to ask him out. They all think he's a womanizer and stuff. It really bugs me
And the third guy *glares at him* 2 of his other ex's still like him too and he and his current girlfriend are never going to last (sorry to say it, please dont kill me). But I'm sure that once they break up he'll go back to one or the other but not me.
None of my friends will listen to this anymore. I'm confused

Answer 1

No wonder! Its shallow bs with no real purpose, just you I guess trying to get some pride points from the group by screwing guys they already did. I had alot more respect for myself so can't say I understand how it would feel to be the last one on the list, nor the lady who gets pushed aside. But I think I'd get the message that the guys I'm dealing with are just slut-puppies and the only thing I'd get is a one-night stand, but some people need to burn themselves before they know the fires hot. So it doesn't matter, keep continueing to understand how relationships work and eventually your lack of judgement well hopfully teach you better whats worth lusting for and whats not. If not, its your heck, not mind. Stop being so shallow and look deeper in people, are deal with these stupid shallow choices that all led to heart-breck. 3 guys? hahahha I bet you think its because of your great compassidy to love, little do you know its quality versus qauntity, were you have plenty of love, you give out in small bits. Also, yoru friends suck, there pushing someone they don't like on you? Who they think is a womanizer? Let me guess, you guys just do drugs and screw right?