Family & Relationships - 21 December 2007

Recently i have met this lady for almost 6 month and we have been seeing each other several time. Actually i have a crush on her but i did not show it and until now i am not sure if she really like me. Last 2 weeks, i received a sms at 11.30 pm and she sms me- hey, just thinking of you :) . I was surprised and did you think she have a feeling on me too?

2007-12-21 23:58:49 · 5 answers · asked by roslee7 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-21 23:49:06 · 13 answers · asked by wantingmore 1 in Singles & Dating

She is 5'2'', has long, dirty blonde hair, wears band t-shirts(Led Zeppelin, AC/DC), jean jackets and bright colored skirts, loves music more than anything, plays guitar, is average weight, has been called hot by numorous guys, has also been called strange or weird by most people she knows

2007-12-21 23:46:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 29 years old and temporarily living in Louisiana. I plan on moving to Houston to be closer to my kids after i graduate college in about a year. I do go out but do you think i should avoid any 'serious' relationships?

2007-12-21 23:26:14 · 14 answers · asked by Danny S 3 in Marriage & Divorce

It never occured to me until one day at my doctors office. I have BPD, so I talk well with my doctor, he asked "How did you lose weight? Did you find love?".I replied "No, infact we broke it off." I cried a little and explained why I ended it.He replied "He sounds Narcisstic/Sociapathic to me, with you condition stay FAR away from him".
It jumped me. So i researched it. Few things hit it on the nose. Majority are "fatherless" and have a parent that acts the same or not worse. Constantly lieing. Lack of remorse or empathy. History of school violence or very checkered past. Also very charming and social.
All my friends and his friends tell me he's "off" or kept him around for his "stories". He's very sweet and loving until you "catch" him in an obvious lie,or point out that he has made me upset. Then its almost he does a complete change. He's hostile. Angry. Low and careless. Doesn't care or want me. Blames others.
How can I GET AWAY? We have the same friends. work same area..Scared.

2007-12-21 22:29:50 · 7 answers · asked by rainbowsandhell 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-21 22:26:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hi,
I am an Indian married for 6 years and I have a 1 year old daughter. I am looking for a divorce from my wife due to her parents utmost interference in our lives and my wife does not mind it, infact she supports it. I am not able to lead a normal life because of all this. I am currently in Australia and need a divorce as soon as possible. Could anyone suggest me how to go for it?

Regards

Aditya

2007-12-21 22:03:15 · 7 answers · asked by Addy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm sorry to ask such question here but i am just a bit confused about my situation. I have been with my boyfriend for 1 year n 4 months. We have had lots of adventures in our relationship that have made us stronger together each time... or so i thought... I'm confused about the fact that i am pregnant for the 3rd time this year with my bf's baby. I am only 2 months along. My whole family knows n he knows. My mom is ok with me but my father isnt. My mother says no matter what decisions i make she will stick by me as a mother. But my father wants us to get married no matter what cuz this is already our 3rd pregnancy. Unfortunately, i lost my first 2 before i hit 2 months, so this is real exciting for us. He has told me he is going to find a better job, find an apartment for us to live together and says he will maintain me and our baby so i dont have to work. I like everything he says he will do. I spoke to him about marriage n he said he's not ready, should i leave him for that?

2007-12-21 21:52:38 · 15 answers · asked by Señorita21 1 in Weddings

find my girl...
A unique girl..
who believes in herself...
Confident..
Rich in creativity
Bold, courageous, yet soft at heart
Adventurous
Roman while in Rome
Secular
Courteous
Able to differentiate between comfort and luxury

will i ever find her...

2007-12-21 20:53:54 · 3 answers · asked by Franc 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-21 20:46:48 · 5 answers · asked by Darnell B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

when a woman has a good man and children what maks them cheat knowing there children look down on her. for betraying there vows in a marrage and them as well where she.s to set a role model for her children .and knowing most end up in a divorce over her lust is that worth it.

2007-12-21 20:40:14 · 8 answers · asked by matthew v 3 in Marriage & Divorce

a friend has a problem, his girlfreind is demanding a huge sum of money for the perform of the marriage rite,the man is in his middle fortys and needs a family. the lady insists the man pays the huge amount or calls the the relationsip a quit, what should i tell my friend,he is in love

2007-12-21 20:28:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i mean at what age

2007-12-21 20:25:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i was with this man a yr and half so i trusted him and got a loan out for him(which he is paying and he couldnt get one) he has now left me and is now back with his wife!(they was separated when we got together) anyway now his wife is saying he is not aloud to have contact with me, which i cant blame her but i have a 7 year loan with this man and i think i have already been used and i would like contact so he doesnt forget what i done for him and his wife cause they would have nothing if wasnt for me cause he would have lost everything what should i do???

2007-12-21 20:25:16 · 24 answers · asked by purdy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

its been bothering me all weekend.
i cant remember it.

2007-12-21 20:22:05 · 24 answers · asked by Amanda 2 in Singles & Dating

I like a girl, and her family and mine share the same friends. And one night after we were talking, she sent a text saying she was starting to like me too. However, the next night she sent another text saying that she cant put up with all the crap her parents and the other mutual adult friends were giving her. Tonight I went to a party her parents were throwing, and she would get close to me every once in a while, but then move farther away. When I was sitting on a couch in her room alone, she sat next to me. Eventually she got closer and laid her head on my shoulder. After about 5 minutes of her laying there though, we heard someone in the hall outside of her room, so she hopped up and got onto her bed. She would also poke me or push me playfully a lot, and we made a looot of eye contact. It seems to me that she likes me, but is afraid of the comments everyone is making, so she avoids being seen showing she likes me by the adults . What can I do to make her more comfortable?

2007-12-21 20:19:46 · 9 answers · asked by Zach D 2 in Singles & Dating

i was in a long distance for a yr. we met up each other but not too often. i met his WHOLE family and was at his sisters wedding. we talked, e-mailed daily, multiple times. Intially he wanted to make long distance work and i trusted him; was optimistic about making it work. He also wanted to move in together although i had some reservations about it. Finally i was moving closer to him..my college was 6 hrs from him and i was planning to met up with him soon. He tells me he met someone Mon at the gym and by Wed wants to end what we have. How can he end it so quick? Also, now that i am much closer he wants to end it? So he texts me and that was that. he didn't want to talk to me anymore or "drag" it out anymore. He just wants to have fun. How can someone just end it without even talking to person he were in a relationship with? it is heartbreaking. Why feed me with all his BS?? and i fell for it too.

2007-12-21 20:10:55 · 8 answers · asked by Betsy Boop 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-21 20:09:02 · 20 answers · asked by HiramD. 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex and I divorced because she cheated on me 2x. We had 2 kids in which she gave them to me so she can go out and play. After 3 years of not being a mom to my children, she is now living with bf that has money and a house. Now she is coaxing my kids to move in with her. She got my daughter to move in with her and is now working on my son. My ex and I argued because my kids went with me to go visit my mom and I wanted them to stay the night with me. She said no and sent her bf to the front door to get the kids. He then proceeded to argue with me. Then threatened me and called me a f***in sissy in front of my son. I am furious right now because I feel like my ex is getting away with it. Is it fair that she screwed up our marriage and abandoned my kids and now they are siding with her? And now trying to get them back? What can I do to get them off my case and send them a message not to mess with me? (Legally of course) Only serious answers please thanks. In L.A. Ca.

2007-12-21 20:06:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So there is this girl at my work who i knew liked me and i kind of liked her too but i never brought myself to ask her out. I was thinking about asking her today when i found out she just started dating this guy. Now i really do want her and im not sure if its because i cant have her or if its because her dating someone just made me more aware of it. she still flirts with me though, what should i do?

2007-12-21 20:05:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and please state how old you are.

I am 40 and still believe I am in true love with a woman who over the past 2 years has broke my heart 3 times and yet through all this we are still best friends and I still love her with every fiber of my being.

Call me crazy

2007-12-21 20:04:09 · 11 answers · asked by Mickeytopdog 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-21 20:03:51 · 18 answers · asked by Ishika 2 in Singles & Dating

I have not been dating anyone since September. At first, I would rather go on and prepare myself for college in the coming month, but lately old urges have been creeping up on me. I have..."access" I'll say, to an acquaintance who has no problem having sex with someone and not attaching any strings. I know that if I were to do this, I'd have no problem continuing other things...but I wonder if I should just wait for that next person to come into my life or go on and have a little fun?

2007-12-21 20:00:51 · 12 answers · asked by C.o.l.d 2 in Singles & Dating

There are 2 women in my life who mean the world to me. Seems like an edition of the bachelor, huh? Well here it goes...I have replaced the names to protect their true identities.
On one side I have Allison who is by far the most beautiful physically of the two, but Amanda is very very cute. Allison and Amanda are both amazingly intelligent, tanacious in pursuing their goals, and would make wonderful mothers; although Amanda is the mother of 2 wonderful kids, Allison is not a mother yet but has the strong desire to have children as I do. Both women are sweeter than any women I have ever met to this date, and they have huge hearts. I personally would give my life to protect either of them readily. I laugh and am happy with either woman, conversations are deap and thoughtful. Seriously I could see myself spending the rest of my life with either one....I am totally stumped. I am Allison's first and Amanda has one previous relationship. Help!!!

2007-12-21 19:58:07 · 5 answers · asked by joe 2 in Singles & Dating

Guys.. do ya like having sex with fat "or not so skinny" girls? or those with like fat legs and abdomen?
i just wanna know cuz i'm 160 cm tall and 59 kgs, and my first time will be with some1 who expects me to be "supersexy", but i have a fat abdomen and fat legs.
if ya were in his place, would ya get disappointed? from my shape? or from my "not very good" experience in sex:$????

2007-12-21 19:33:30 · 13 answers · asked by Vivid Pink 6 in Singles & Dating

So I have some friends who are white and I've been friends with them for years since I was like 11( im 18 now) and we always joke around with each other races you know but sometimes when my friends use the n word it bothers me and I don't know what to say without going off on them. I know we've joked for years but Im just sick of it. So how do I explain to them that it bothers me instead of me snapping and making things worse.

2007-12-21 19:29:25 · 18 answers · asked by 78%sarcastic♥ 5 in Friends

ive been seeing my guy for almost 5 months. doesn't sound like a long time but in short, it's been a real whirlwind. he admitted when things began to escalate that he was having a kid with a friend (short-lived encounter). they were never together, just good friends that got some alcohol into them and obviously, this is what ended up happening. he's a responsible man, working day and night to save up for his baby girl that comes in february. i really care for him and i wanna keep pursuing this but we both decided to hold off on getting serious and just see where things go and how much time he will have for me when his baby comes. idk what to do. its like i know i care about him in ways i never felt about any other man. but at the same time, this is a hard situation to deal with. the girl doesn't like me that much b/c she claims she loves him. i respect her but she's a nut and i dont know what her next plans are. uggggh i dont wanna leave but idk what to do. any suggestions...?

2007-12-21 19:22:24 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

beautiful baby together. We were so in love or so i thought. We'd been together 7 years so it's not like we rushed anything. I had been receiving letters and cards in the post which indicated that he was having an affair but he denied it and i believed him altho it really knocked my confidence. there was also a girl he works with that was mentioned in these letters. After being broke up 9 months he revealed that he thought he was gay and that;s why he had to leave and therefore couldn't come back to me. It's now been 2 years and i've finally met someone wonderful who i wanna spend the rest of my life with but have just found out that my ex has become very close friends with this girl from the letters. I've been so good to him over the 2 years and very understanding and heartbroken at the same time. I feel like he's lied to me about being gay but he swears blind he's told me the truth. I can't accept it if he gets with this girl, what's wrong with me, i know i'm not in love with him?

2007-12-21 19:20:51 · 5 answers · asked by veedubbya 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Here is my situation. There's a an apparent old friend of my husband's e-mailing my husband every 3 days or so. He says they are only friends and have not talked in 10 years until now. I have never heard a mention of her in the 6 years we have been together. He has visited her recently and will not show me anything they e-mail eachother in an apparent attempt to protect me from taking things the wrong way. She's apparently a very "friendly" person he states. He is hell bent on keeping her as his friend. He has told her I feel threatened by her, which I do. I have voiced how I feel to this woman about the situation and how it makes me feel uncomfortable. Her answer to me is too bad I'm gonna continue being friends with him. How should I react to this situation? What should I do. It creates many arguements between my husband and I. I should add that they dated for a short period of time, and broke up due to her cheating on him and getting pregnant. I feel like I'm losing my marriage. :(

2007-12-21 19:20:33 · 13 answers · asked by disco_duckie2000 1 in Marriage & Divorce

girls please help my ex dumped me she said she see me walking down the road with this woman who i know and she did not like her the thing is it never happened so why would she lie like that ?

2007-12-21 19:19:22 · 7 answers · asked by dustbin31 2 in Singles & Dating