2007-12-21 23:49:06 · 13 answers · asked by wantingmore 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe he feels like he couldn't live up to the fantasies portrayed in the porn.....
2007-12-21 23:53:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-19 05:38:19 · answer #2 · answered by Brandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then you are refusing to express your needs and desires in a way that he can relate to. It's always easier to get satisfaction from porn because there's no work involved and the guy doesn't have to put up with crazy questions women think up in bed.
The solution to your problem is probably more than you're willing to do, but since you say it's been a year and you're wanting more, then I'll give it to you.
You need to be pro-active and devote yourself unselfishly & completely to his satisfaction for a period of time. Unfortunately, what you have is a competition. So you need to be better, hotter, available, and ready to please him. My suggestion is to replace yourself with whatever porn he is reading and make yourself the provider of pleasure rather than the porn.
Next time he begins to look at porn, YOU take the initiative without discussion, demand, or even conversation. Go down on him. Continue this every time he looks at porn; insert yourself as the giver of pleasure. Eventually you will detect a pattern of when he looks at porn. That's the time you begin to take the lead, continuing to pleasure him BEFORE he gets to the porn. Again, this may require more patience than you're willing to give. But if you continue this unselfish and dedicated devotion, he will quickly begin to become the aggressor towards you. And, of course, you will praise his masculinity and manhood and tell him what his masterful libido has done for you.
Good Luck
2007-12-22 00:09:47 · answer #3 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you asked him? Does he get excited watching the porn? Maybe he has some health problems and is hoping the porn will get him fired up. Or maybe he has completely lost interest in what is real, you being real. If it can' t be fixed, then you need to work on the next step. A year seems like a long time to me to.
2007-12-22 00:07:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is crazy!
Dont get me wrong, I like my share of porn too, but I would much rather have good sex with my wife.
Sounds like he isnt interested in sex with you, I suggest that you leave him. He obviously does not have a lack of sex drive, i.e. the porn. A year is just not healthy for a committed relationship.
2007-12-22 00:02:15 · answer #5 · answered by JD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's more interested in porn than you.
Sorry.
Find a new man.
2007-12-21 23:52:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's getting off on porn. Try and jump him... see if he wants to.
2007-12-22 00:04:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO AWAY!!!
That's not a MAN, it's a vegetable who has tasted artificial fertilizers and cannot drink water back anymore...
Sorry but Have a break, Have a d*ck in your pussycat...
2007-12-22 00:09:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i love porn to but i love making love even more hmm i think there is more to this then we are hearing
2007-12-22 07:47:48 · answer #9 · answered by wb12264 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with above post there is probably more to this then youre telling... does your partner know he's your partner??
No seriously, tell him how you feel.
Good luck x
2007-12-23 04:00:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋