Family & Relationships - 20 December 2007

I am here to lend a hand (or 2)
in the interests of medical science
not a smutty attempt near a global h0oliday
to weed out the more lonely & horny
females amoungst you.







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coughs .....

2007-12-20 23:54:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met this wonderful guy 2 weeks ago. He got my number and we went out and had a wonderful time. I don'tthink I have ever gone out with anyone I liked better. He is from Germany, in the process of moving here; he has a great job he can take any time. Right now, he does 3 months in Germany; 3 months here. Anyways, he told me finally he had a girlfriend at home--of 9 years--but the situation had become complicated. She does not want to move here, but he does, and he has not missed her since he came. He said he would probably be interested in me if he were free, but he did not want to tell me he wasn't right off because we would not have been able to know each other. He is obviously a good guy, has never cheated, very thoughtful, worried about what he is thinking. I offered to be friends but no more unless he is single. We went out the night before he was going back to (to return in 3 months). As of current date, we have exchanged 3 emails. They are getting very friendly. What do u think?

2007-12-20 23:46:53 · 11 answers · asked by Christina V 1 in Singles & Dating

Well it was my birthday yesterday, we had a family party that my mom threw and it was great and everyone had fun! I got some nice stuff and really appreciated all the nice things people gave to me. Eery birthday for my younger cousin I get here something she mentions, or I think she'd really like. She has a summer birthday; ver the summer I bought her this rhinstone olive green hat from this chic boutique called "A Different Twist" ( she mentioned she loved it earlier). I also got her a pound of her fav fudge. Her friends got her some really nice stuff as well and they thanked me. For this birthday my cousin gave me two random books that she already had lying around her room, she said her and her mom just found them and wrapped them (she told me this too). The thing is, for her friends birthdays, her family talks about and always gets them something nice like an arts and crafts thing. But for my birthday, she wraps a book from her room. Is it wrong to be annoyed? Should I let it go?

2007-12-20 23:43:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

They call each other bi(ches and are more critical/judgemental of each other. When the guy cheats, the woman automatically blames the other woman. What if the women didnt know? If you didnt notice, guys like to lie to get sex.
Many women dress don't even dress for men, they dress to compete with each other. You know who you are.

If women dont respect each other then how can we expect respect from men? If women don't respect each other can they be leaders of nations?

2007-12-20 23:42:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am having medication from last two years.now i am absolutly alright.but when i think about marrige some questions come in to my mind like ,my partner will accept me or do he think i am mad.second thought is do i need to stop medication when i ll expect baby.n my stoping medication ll affect my baby or not?
i am 28 year old.

2007-12-20 23:32:26 · 3 answers · asked by pallavi s 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Why is it that I am feeling like this?? Ok Yesterday at 5:00 pm I got a phone call from a friend of mine in Tx telling me that my ex-boyfriend died like 1 day ago. I was with him my freshman year, and well we went out as friends one time in my junior year before I moved to Florida. But anyways when she was telling me I couldnt say anything I was speachless. Then when I hung up with her I was crying practicaly all day! I dont even know why? I mean I have a fiance and a son. Why am I feeling like this? Someone please help. :'(

2007-12-20 23:14:34 · 6 answers · asked by Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ♥ஜღMRS.STARღஜ♥Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ 5 in Singles & Dating

Long story made short: I like this guy but he likes another girl and the girl he likes is my friend, and she knew I liked him but she started flirting with him. I know I cant make him like me but I think she enjoys making me suffer instead of just going out with him? What do you think? Does she like him or is she just being a 13itch ?

PS I hate drama.

2007-12-20 23:09:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how much did it hurt?

2007-12-20 22:58:04 · 8 answers · asked by Nicole W 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-20 22:55:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

What should i do? I love my fiance but he beats me when we argue. Is there any solution?
I need some advice. I have been with my boyfriend now for about 2 years. We are engaged to be married but there are some major problems. Each time we have an argument he will beat me or threaten to beat me. I know he is a good person deep down but I can't keep putting up with the physical abuse. I love him very much and it hurts to leave. What should i do or say to try and make things better with my fiance? Or is it a better idea to leave him or be alone for a while? Please help

2007-12-20 22:42:14 · 26 answers · asked by vanell 1 in Singles & Dating

I feel like I slept for ever, I had tha wildest dreams. Tell me about one of your dreams.

2007-12-20 22:37:19 · 7 answers · asked by nomorecapri 5 in Singles & Dating

Is it normal for a woman not to need intimacy after having all the children we want? I would still do this every night, if she would. Is this normal?We are in our mid 30's, and have been married 3 years. After getting pregnant, Her sex drive just left....Can I get it back? How?

2007-12-20 22:33:30 · 17 answers · asked by drb042205 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been trying to get custody of my teenage daughter for 5 years. She has become a bit of a problem to my ex. and now she has agreed to let her come and live with me. I'm very excited but yet worried that I can raise her in the right way. She has been skipping school, showing a bad attitude, low grades,cutting herself...etc. Yet when she was with me for 6 weeks during the summer we had no issues at all. I kind of think she has been acting out because she has wanted to live with me for several years now and maybe she's doing all this to get that wish. I can't wait to have her with me but also concerned about doing everything right. She is 14 years old.

2007-12-20 22:24:45 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-20 22:23:06 · 21 answers · asked by lou777 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My first boyfriend never wanted to be close to me and it made me feel unattractive and unwanted. I later found out he was gay. Boyfriend #2 was a virgin and he was like dating my brother. He would kiss me but that was it. I’m 25 and I still attract guys who have very little relationship experience. They seem to really like me and want to be in a relationship but are afraid to touch me. What is the point of asking for a relationship if you only want to have a friendship? Maybe guys like that just want to take it slow but it just seems cold to me. I am hurt by the lack of affection and I desire a more intimate relationship. I feel bad about this a lot. I feel very unattractive because my boyfriends wouldn’t touch me. Sometimes it ruins my confidence when I do meet new people. How can I overcome the feeling of failure with these non-relationships that I've had?

No offense to virgin guys, this is about wanting to feel special. I want someone to really care and be attracted to me.

2007-12-20 22:18:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I fell for my ex-coworker and had been out with him just once. We kissed but nothing else happened. (even though he asked me to stay overnight, i rejected) Realised cant be like this and already told him just wanted to be friends. He sometimes texted me and so did i. But since last month, i stopped any connection with him. Just hope that i can forget him and back to my husband. However, have been trying so hard for the past few months but still doesnt work. Just cant forget him and cant love my husband 100%. Lately, cant control myself and sent him an email and also a text - just say hi and asking how's he doing but he didnt reply me. I am so confused and embarrassed. Am i very stupid? What should i do to forget him? Did I miss something or he just looked for fun? On the other hand, I feel so guilty for my husband......I started to question what is love and who do I really love??

2007-12-20 22:09:56 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I wrote a love letter for her, but I wrote it so you have to look at a mirror to read it. Do you think she'll like it?

2007-12-20 22:08:51 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been with my firlfriend for 3 years and we have been talking about marriage when I graduate nursing school in the Spring. She has 2 children(boy 10 girl 3) and never married, I have no children and never been married. She lives with her mother, who I can't stand so I won't go over her house,except for the kids b-days or other special occasions. So, between her living situation and my school and work schedule we don't see each other too much. The kids see their father every other weekend, but they call her the entire time they're there to come home. My main concern about getting married is that I don't want to feel like a second class citizen in my own home. I feel like if I am the one providing for the kids most of the time, I should have a say in the way they are raised and disciplined in our home. My girl thinks I should b a spectator and have no say. My response: then from daycare 2 college will b paid 4 by u and thier father. Not a good way 2 start a marriage??????????????????

2007-12-20 22:07:04 · 11 answers · asked by sru056 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't know how other people would react if they found out that I like this guy, or if he likes me back.

2007-12-20 22:06:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i dont have any problem with my hubby bit i like another guy also. my friend is not married and he knows bout me infact he advices me lot of time which makes my marital life improved and always make me positive in all ups and downs in my life. He cares for me. i also care for him and we dont have any intentions to live togrther and he doesnt want ot disturb my marital life eithrt. We enjoy each others company and max we intreract only by phone and hardly meet.

2007-12-20 21:58:28 · 36 answers · asked by toffy2203 2 in Marriage & Divorce

and its been 8yrs since you had a passionate kiss and dont even kiss during sex i love my wife but dont know what to do

2007-12-20 21:46:48 · 23 answers · asked by ooswordfishoo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Every year my husband gives his dad a birthday present and christmas present. My father in law never gives one back. We thought it was weird but we just figured he was being tight.

We got married last year and he didnt even get us a card to wish us well, even though we get on really well. Again we were a bit insulted, but didnt say anything.

This year my son was born, again, nothing. Its my sons first Christmas and his grandad didn't get him a card or a present (i know this for sure.) I dont expect him to spend lots of money but a small gesture would have been nice. He is quite well off so money isn't the problem.

I'm not usually materialistic, but i just feel insulted and a little worried about how i'm going to explain to my son when he is older why my parents make the effort and his other grandad doesn't even bother with him.

2007-12-20 21:19:20 · 18 answers · asked by aceventura 1 in Family

2007-12-20 21:13:20 · 9 answers · asked by skiguy 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-20 21:13:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband loves me very much and been a very wonderful father to our kids. But he often cheated on me (goes out with a hooker), maybe more than a dozen times in our 12 years together. I even got STD bec of this. He told me he does it when we have arguments specially about my son w/ my 1st marriage, when he's angry w/ me and this time because i went abroad to work, but i think that he's too hot for sex which he cannot control.
Everytime he always beg for forgiveness and becomes very good afterwards. But after a while he goes back to his old habit. But I always take him back because i was thinking of our kids. I don't want my other kids w/ him to have the same life with my eldest child who grew up with no father and doesn't even feel the love of a father.
I know and feel how much he loves me, but i he always cheated on me. This time he's asking for a last chance. But now i am asking myself, if this kind of person will ever change? Is there still hope? What am I gonna do to help him?

2007-12-20 21:12:16 · 21 answers · asked by Liza 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Let me start off by saying that this is going to be long, I just want you to see the WHOLE situation..

Im a guy (im 17), my bestfriend whos a girl (shes 16) thinks theres 2 sides to me.. We have been close friends for 4 months now.. When she first met me (judging by my appearance) she thought I was a player,sleaze,violent towards girls,violent in general, etc.. But she said she thought i was attractive.. When she got to know me she said her opinion changed completey towards me, and that my I look nothing like who i really am inside.. But she would always snap every noe and then and say to me she thinks im a fake, and that theres 2 sides of me, and that im not showing her the real me, and that im just putting on an act.. But REALLY I aint..

I see her VERY rarley but we talk over the phone everyday for hours.. we talk about everything, shes told me alot of personal things about her which she doesnt really tell anyone.. (e.g the depression she went through)..

2007-12-20 21:11:36 · 2 answers · asked by rejiogrejiog89u43ut83w 1 in Singles & Dating

we had a miserable 8 years togheter. It was mostly his fault. He didnt want to have sex after the first 6 months. he always told me i wouldnt be able to survive w/ out him and that im such a losr. He also hoarded all his money and hid it from me. he woudlnt talk to me or go on a date w/ me. we lived in separate parts of the house, it was the loniliest time of my whole life. and it finally ended when he came home and gave me 2 days to move out because he met someone at a bar. He tried to screw me in the divorce settlement. Now the bar slut girl lives there at our old house w/ him. I now have baby by a different guy and am a single mom. the divorce was 1 1/2 years ago . i didnt care at first, i felt relieved (completely!) but lately when i think of what he put me through & all the sacrifices and time wasted, i get REALLY ANGRY !!! i guess im just asking for supportve words . thanks

2007-12-20 21:06:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Thanks to all of you who answered in support, it means alot to me, means that i'm not imagining how bad it is or how much i'm doing for little in return....

What is the best way for me to package the fact I can't handle it anymore, I'm not a fan of full-blown confrontation but I'm up for it this time. Before, I've always asked her to do things to help, like giving the floor a sweep, the table a wipe, putting her dirty hankies in the bin, and have either been accused of nagging or just been refused help.

Should I wait for the straw that breaks the camels back (i.e. cat peeing on the leather couch) and tell her that I cannot live like that and that I'm going to move out? Or should I just get in from work and tell her that I've been having a big think about things and that she has to get her act together or else I'm going to move out? Best way to do it?

Truth be told, I would have left by now if she hadn't come back pregnant at the beginning of the month....

2007-12-20 21:05:05 · 18 answers · asked by Derek J Kered 2 in Marriage & Divorce

OK..so, as the title says, i'm having a dinner in a few hours with 4 girls! OMG! just me and 4 girls..im 15..they are all good friends.but i feel very nervous and intimidated! please help! what do i do??

2007-12-20 21:01:36 · 16 answers · asked by Mike 1 in Singles & Dating

her name is kirsi rytkonen.lived in munterinkatu,turku.helsinki.around 1986........

2007-12-20 21:00:55 · 3 answers · asked by sajad 1 in Friends