Family & Relationships - 20 December 2007

Were In my room tonight just laying down watching movies on my bed. We weren't doing anything just cuddling and kissing We had the door wide opened and it was only early. And My mom walks in and starts freaking Like screaming at me. I'm 15 grade 9. My boyfriend is the same age. We dated for 2 years and 3 months. Did I do anything wrong? I just don't get it? Can anyone explain. I just cant belive she doesnt trust me.

2007-12-20 18:49:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Most of my husbands family doesn't like me, and my husband has made sure over the years that I know it. My father in law doesn't speak to me, and because he doesn't want to see me he doesn't see our child anymore. I have been called some nasty names and labeled as someone that I don't even know by these very judgemental people. I wish I had enough room to write the things that his family has done!
I was expected to fit a mould, just like his first wife, but in being true to myself I never changed enough to fit in, and neither did she. I have done alot for my husband (drug & gambling problems) and his father (failing business), but everything has gone unappreciated. There's no give and take here! My husband has never stuck up for me in front of them, even when he should have. If anything, he becomes childlike around them. In any case, we've been invited to family xmas functions, and just the thought of being around his family gives me major anxiety. Am I obligated to go?

2007-12-20 18:39:15 · 10 answers · asked by ­Das  2 in Family

why does a married woman cheat with younger men knowing nothing can become of it and rish there marrage knowing we fellows are only using thm for sex and only that like that trailer park trash in.w.va . she was sorry in fact i mean very sorry. in all aspect.s those streach marks was sicking to me as well my friend we both took turn.s on her while hr man was gone very sicking to us both. no wonder he divorced her i can see why

2007-12-20 18:36:48 · 9 answers · asked by matthew v 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex husband is now remarried to a woman with six kids..Ever since they began dating there has been problems between her and my kids..This has been going on for almost 4yrs.My kids are now 15 and 14 and HATE going to visit because that woman is there and so very mean to them.But there dad doesnt see this.She tells him that what the kids say are lies and that she wouldnt do that..He doesnt pay his child support and moved 4 hrs away..so we have to meet half way..The kids get madder and madder everytimte I tell them they need to go.When is it ok not to make them go anymore?

2007-12-20 18:33:54 · 17 answers · asked by spldharleymom 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Even if both partners are close to the same age? I've always been into this fantasy, but seems most women aren't into it? Email me if you'd like to share ideas. Thanks much ;)!

2007-12-20 18:23:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Question Details: to investigate me and my husband. My Probation Officer told me I'm a wonderful mother 99% of the time, but the other 1% worries her greatly. So they're coming, and bringing the cops because they don't expect us to be cooperative, and may expect us to be combative. I am torn between wanting to show I'm a good parent by cooperating, and being furiously protective of my family and its privacy. I feel like I'm going to burst. Any advice? I don't even know what category to place this question in.

2007-12-20 18:22:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

its hard cause i dont wanna spend the night at my dads house. how do i deal?

2007-12-20 18:22:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This friend that I am referring to is my officemate. I love to be with him because he is so simple, kind, always makes me laugh even in a very small thing. He always go with me wherever I go specially when I am alone, he's always by my side talking about anything that we can think of. I love to be with him and to be his friend.

How can I control this feelings not to fall into a deeper one and love him not only as his friend? We're both married, and both have our own happy family. I don't want to lose him because I want him as my friend.

Please help.

2007-12-20 18:21:34 · 8 answers · asked by dainasana 1 in Friends

I am a 31 year old married Mother of 2. I have always tried to be an adult but do to a major illness I have been unable to work for about 3 years and my husband and I ran into some financial difficulty and we were helped by my parents.We were very greatful. But now my Mother reminds me on a daily basis about how they bailed us out. We have offered to make payments as often as we can but she "won't hear of it" My mom used to be a wonderful Grandmother but now she is always short with my children, never seems happy to see them,and dotes on there cousin right in front of them. My mom has some problems seperating them from me. I can handle her being mad at me though i am still not sure what I dd so wrong. I have tried to talk to her about it but, it didnt seem to work.

2007-12-20 18:10:03 · 6 answers · asked by Sandra K 4 in Family

and i don't want to get myself involved in drugs, and i don't want to be known as someone that went out with someone that did drugs and have people think that i do drugs too, i really don't know what to do, can anyone please help me?

2007-12-20 18:09:32 · 19 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

Recently, my ex-husband and I went beack to court and worked out a temp. visitation schedule. If you want to know about him..read some of the other questions I post. The man is a nightmare. We share a 6 yr old daughter together and we are both remarried. He has two step children and his wife is due to have a c-section on the 31rst of this month. At our recent court hearing, it was said that I would have her until the 26th of this month and on that day, he would come and get her between 11 and 4 and bring her home on the first of Jan. This is his Christmas visitation. My question is, due to his wife's impending c-section and the fact that he plans to have our daughter at the hospital while all this is going on, being watched by God only knows who in the waiting room, do you think I should say that I don't agree to these dates? Not to mention that if the wife is getting cut open on the 31rst, and he's supposed to have her back on the 1rst that might be impossible?

2007-12-20 18:06:54 · 13 answers · asked by Cha togar m'fhearg gun diola 4 in Marriage & Divorce

for the last two years i have been helping my boyfriend with his children. he has joint custody of the kids with his ex-wife. i help pay all the bills for the kids, and basically play the role of a step-mother to them. the kids love me, but every holiday my boyfriend helps the kids make presents for his ex-wife. mothers day, birthday, Christmas...everything. the gifts are always just making art/craft projects, but they never make anything for me. i know it is just a simple gift, but i feel left out. i am doing the role of a parent, but not getting recognized at all for it. should i be upset about this and tell my boyfriend how i feel, or just forget it and get over it.

2007-12-20 18:00:47 · 14 answers · asked by Paige 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-20 18:00:18 · 13 answers · asked by david p 2 in Friends

I'm in the process of a divorce, haven't actually started the paperwork OR talked to lawyer yet, but me and my exwife have been separated for months already. I really want to get custody of my daughter - not for child support (I could honestly say I wouldn't even ask for it) I really am looking in the best interest of my daughter.

After we first separated, my exwife for weeks ignored her daughter instead to lead the single life and party. After several weeks, she finally came around and started to see her daughter and take her out a few times. Currently, we are both living with our own parents, but I have my daughter most of the time (she is 3). She goes to daycare until 5 when I pick her up after work, spends hours with me until around 11 at night when I go to drop her off with my exwife so she can take her to daycare the next morning, but she's asleep already, and all she does is drop her off with HER mother and leave to go party or with her boyfriend.

So - I want to know...

2007-12-20 17:57:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-20 17:48:20 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a friend that i met through my ex and today she messages me on yahoo just to see how i'm doing. She procedes to ask if its ok if she vents to me. I'm a good listener and shes listened to me in the past so i said yeah. She goes on to tell me that her husband of 12 years is divorcing her. Now, I haven't been close with this woman for a while now. We were never the best of friends but we were still somewhat close. Why do you think she's chosen me as the shoulder? Shes called a few times today and emailed after our initial conversation? I do want to be there for her, so leaving all the time we've not been close out of it, what can I do for her? She's made her life around her husband and doesn't have many friends outside their "couples" group. I've never been in her position and have no idea what i can do for her. She has a son with him and I want to be there for him too. what can i do?

I'm sure the answer is a "duh" but I don't want to make her feel any worse than she does now.

2007-12-20 17:46:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

when he finds out his wife of 11 years (together 13) with two children finds out his wife has been cheating on him for two months. he asks her if they could start over. she says yes, and then he finds out a week later, she's still cheating. then she moves out within a month and files for divorce. he's sort of macho and is really angry toward her - hates her, now. is that b/c he's in a lot of pain?

2007-12-20 17:45:19 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

if my x is awarded full custody for our son can it be modified at a later time? or is it once they award full custody you cant change it?

2007-12-20 17:42:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-20 17:34:42 · 9 answers · asked by Kasha 2 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i just exchanged gifts he got me an 200 dollars necklace from zales.. how do i show him how much i love it?

2007-12-20 17:29:41 · 16 answers · asked by mk 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my sister inlaw is 6 years younger then myself.

2007-12-20 17:26:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Last Sunday I texted my confession of feelings towards a guy and he did not response. So yesterday I left a message on his voicemail saying a good luck and goodbye. For a while a friend of mine kept hinting the guy was interested in me, but it never came out of him to say anything. However, I decided to come forward myself after a few months (almost a year). I wonder if I wasted my ten cents text? lol! Was it the right thing to do? Should I leave another voicemail to take back what I said? What impression does my message leave?

2007-12-20 17:21:10 · 14 answers · asked by Hello K 2 in Singles & Dating

do u want to start some relationship with them?
any thoughts?

2007-12-20 17:21:05 · 16 answers · asked by Kasha 2 in Singles & Dating

e sep. my male cousin who has probs is 36 he moved in when my aunt died for a short period of time, we all helped him find another place to live..now he is going around saying my hus messed with my girl, social services even checked it out my girl was embarrased..my cus won't stop, even with all this so i wont let him around, however he keeps telling people lies, how can i get him to shut up or what can he be charged with. i think i need a lawyer, but can't afford one. i think hes jealous of her, but shes12 and she just wants to see her friends, not him not even my ex. somebody help..isn't this slander for her too?

2007-12-20 17:19:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am 24, single, haven't had a bf, or a decent date that actually likes me. I am bad at verbalizing things..I try to be funny but I just sound like a dumb a**. I am honest about my interests and goals. I don't expect too much. But I want a decent guy that likes me for me. I am decent looking, but all this dating and wondering and looking for guys is getting me nowhere I am soo stressed out by all this. I work all the t ime, I have no friends because people that I meet nowadays aren't interested in getting to know me or are just plain shallow and have no depth. What am I doing wrong?

2007-12-20 17:18:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met this girl last night who is taller than I am (I'm 5'7" she's probably 5'9" or 5'10"), and older as well (I'm 22, she's 30) We hit it of great, and I've been talking to her all day today. She wants to hang out again, but I'm intimidated...A mutual friend told me that she "wants me." I'm just intimidated at what she will think if we do have sex...what if she thinks my penis is too small or something...she is probably also more experienced than I am, what if she think's I'm not "good" enough?

2007-12-20 17:15:02 · 9 answers · asked by puffer fish 5 in Singles & Dating

Do you think you will fall in the same path or have they been the example for you not to touch that crap?

2007-12-20 17:14:58 · 3 answers · asked by LA High Rise 5 in Family

A friend of mine is 17 but she has a boy friend who is 26, i was told that she thinks that he's 23 and i found out he's 26 and i think i should tell her???

2007-12-20 17:10:39 · 29 answers · asked by FUnkjunKie 2 in Friends

his dad says it's a bad reputation/influence on his 11 yr. old sister!-then he goes; "if you can use it, then so can she!-& the internet has too much "graffiti" on it!!!" what's funny is the co-worker is 18 yrs. old-(What would you do if you had a father like his?-or what would you comment on this?)

2007-12-20 17:05:59 · 5 answers · asked by strange-artist 7 in Family

well let me start when all of this happened.ok well when i was in 6th grade i got picked on alot so my mom toke me out of public school and home schooled me. but that was bad. all my friends stopped talking to me, no calls no emails no nothing. well after a half of a year of home schooling my mom put me into private school. now i have friends there and stuff like that. but everyday im there all the girls are always saying i will call you tonight k? or like we should so do that. But not once has any of my friends ever called me,invited me over,nothing at all. and it makes me so sad cause im nice to everyone and no one cant even invite me over!!!!!!! i just dont get it!!!!!!! SOMEONE PLEASE TELL ME WHAT IM DOING WRONG!!!!!! I just want some nice friends. oh and im a girl and 13.

2007-12-20 17:05:19 · 22 answers · asked by Cha Cha! 4 in Friends