Family & Relationships - 20 December 2007

I just would like to know what other people think because me and my boyfriend are planning on getting married in June of next year, but I will only be 18, and a lot of people that I knwo feel that I am too young.

2007-12-20 00:58:29 · 30 answers · asked by redbone 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-20 00:55:25 · 5 answers · asked by bhaybie 1 in Singles & Dating

y do married men have affairs with many women at once and think they wont get caught?does his wife really not have a clue what he is doing?

2007-12-20 00:54:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

hurt him. Not to mention the Hurt & Pain.
My husband had an affair
BLAH BLAH BLAH.
Long story short I agreed to try & work things out but it seems almost impossible to get past the hurt, pain and anger!
A part of me wants to do something to hurt him as much as he's hurt me.
All things aside I Love This Man with all my heart that and the fact that we have 2.5 kids is the only reason I want to work things out. (I'm 8 months pregnant by the way)
1.But how do I get past the ANGER of him lying, cheating, and stepping outside of our marriage?
2. How to I get past the hurt & pain he's caused me?
3. How do I get past this desire to hurt him BAD!!
4. How if at all possible do I start to trust him again?
I Love Him Dearly But I haven't been In Love With Him for about a year and a half.
PLEASE RESPOND WITH CONSIDERATE ANSWERS My hormones & Anger are raging out of control and all I keep thinking about is putting him and her 6 feet under.
Thanks in Advance!
from:DANGEROUSLY UPSET!!

2007-12-20 00:51:58 · 17 answers · asked by THIC007 3 in Marriage & Divorce

what is that quality you have that makes you feel proud of you?

well.....if you have multiple qualities then you're most welcome to write them>>>>>>>>

2007-12-20 00:51:39 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I mean we have ours done, but I know of some that don't and have a house and children. I keep trying to tell them, you need to get it done. But, I really don't know what happens if you don't have anything in writting. Does it have to be legalized?
What happens?

2007-12-20 00:50:11 · 5 answers · asked by Mom of 2 great boys 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

their words lead to, in the listeer's mind & self-esteem? Or is this a habit they formed growing up, out of the need for self-defense? Depending on that answer....how do we deal with the people who don't accept this in themseleves and honestly seek help?

2007-12-20 00:47:17 · 10 answers · asked by lookin4ansrs 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok firstly i am a 17 year old male gd looking and im very fit with muscles. theres this girl that ive met and been out with ehr friends 2 times. i really like her and she likes me to i think. im going out with them 2 morrow. theres about 50% chance i can get together with her 2 morrow. but the thing im not sure about is the fact that shes 14 and im 17.lol i feel like a pedophile.btw i look like im 15 years old lol .do u think this is right?

2007-12-20 00:44:49 · 16 answers · asked by chuck norris 1 in Singles & Dating

i had worked for my my mom for a year when she fired me.she has 2 companys. two years ago mom and stepdad divored. everytime she was in a bad mood she would find a reason to blame me from the wheather to the reason for her divorce. i told her for the past year if she keeps fighting with me that i would walk away and never turn back.when she fired everyone at her bar including me for no reason i left and havent looked back.she has picked fights with my 2 adut daughters. i miss her and dont know how to get back in her life .i will not go back to being her target
help robin

2007-12-20 00:43:52 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Do you have a will?
Do you have a funeral plan?

If you have no assets, then please don't answer this.

2007-12-20 00:42:04 · 9 answers · asked by Mom of 2 great boys 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok so I will try to re-write this question.
Im dating this guy and Im taking a different guy to homecoming. I asked the other guy to go to homecoming before we were dating. What would you say if your gf told you that?

2007-12-20 00:39:38 · 22 answers · asked by ashley (: 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend who I've been with for six months first met me when he was with another girl. We'd met before a year before briefly at a party and had really got on, so recognised each other when we met again and the chemistry was still there. We spent the night together (no sex, just on a sofa each and sat up together talking) and met up regularly after that and spent more and more time together.
I knew he had a girlfriend, so we remained friends, but it became harder and harder to fight and we ended up sleeping together. We both knew it was wrong for her sake, but for us it felt so right. That weekend he broke up with his girlfriend and we are now together.
However, the issue is that my friend are neurotic that he will cheat on me. I am proof that he has done it before, and as we're very honest with each other, he has admitted that he has cheated in most, if not all of his relationships. Am I wrong to not worry he will cheat on me? Am I setting myself up for a fall?

2007-12-20 00:35:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and this guy were dating for 5months and i got pregnat to a multi million aire gangster i was young at the time my son developed a illness and was in hospital for thirteen months he has not had nothing to do with me or my son for five years my son is five i saw him three months ago and he approched me he is a very serious man and the words he spoke to me was you have done the hard bit every things gonna be ok i will sort every thing at the end of this year or the begginig of next what do you think

2007-12-20 00:35:21 · 3 answers · asked by Surayah 1 in Singles & Dating

He talks to me and touches me (pushes, tugs hair) not all the time. Sometimes he asks me to sit with him. He does that to other girls in my class. My friend said he doesnt do that with girls in her class.
I was walking to school one time, and he caught up with me and walked with me. This week he almost asked me to go with him somewhere and said "we're gunna pick up chicks" but his friend didnt want to feel like a 3rd wheel. Was he trying to get me jelous?
I told him I have a boyfriend (lie) 3 months ago, and I was crying in class, and next day he asked me If i broke up with my boyfriend. Now he started saying he has a g/f.
Last year, he saw me somewhere away from school with a friend, and I came to class late and he said "I could've gaven you a ride to school"
Im not sure if he likes me or not, I dont see him a lot cause hes not at school everyday. Because he could be just flirting. What do you guys think?

2007-12-20 00:34:24 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Caught my wife having phone sex wiht a 19 yr old...she is 33....it was in my bed with my daughter laying next to her..I have it an audio from me cell phone. Can I use this in court?

2007-12-20 00:31:46 · 14 answers · asked by Javi 5 in Marriage & Divorce

A group of friends meet on a regular basis, but one unpopular guy wont take the hint and leave the group? What should we do - move?

2007-12-20 00:30:31 · 26 answers · asked by IanQuigley 1 in Friends

I popped on my myspace this morning and there was a message from a cyber friend saying she was deleting her myspace and going to kill herself.
A cry for help, sure ... but really, what do you say to a person who's that far away and in such a state?
Sure, the usual, god loves you and things are not that bad, but that doesnt help .. have you ever been in this situation?

I think back to some kids who killed themselves when we were younger and imagine, if I only knew I would do this or that ... now, in the situation, i cant remember a darn thing!

2007-12-20 00:30:09 · 9 answers · asked by newenglandseers.com 4 in Marriage & Divorce

If a couple gets divorced are they still covered under the same health insurance?

2007-12-20 00:28:12 · 14 answers · asked by E-net User 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have 2 boys 13 + 7 and twin girls 11. im a single parent with no family support and my kids run rings round me. over the years ive done the behaviour charts, ive taken their favourite things away, grounded them etc i really have tried it all. they are not naughty as such they just have a lack of respect and wont stick to any rules. ive shouted and ive sat them down quietly and explained in detail why we have rules and how much easier life is if we stick to them.i feel im fighting a losing battle and im making myself ill, i dont eat or sleep and im stressed all the time.please help before i really lose the plot. i dont want my kids to have a distant relationship with me when they are older like i have with my parents.i love my kids so much and only want whats best for them.to them im nagging but i just want them to have a better life than ive had.why does that come across as being so wrong ??

2007-12-20 00:27:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm America but moved here in the Philippines years ago when I retired from being an airline pilot. I moved here because I liked how families are raised here and the good moral conduct of its people. I didn't want my kids to grow up back in the States.

I have a friend here who's a psychiatrist and I'm surprised that he's saved almost 100 marriages in his career. Although there's no divorce here, there is annulment and separation however. And he's managed to save that much marriages. And a lot of those cases are so "extreme" that if it happened in the states it's sure to lead to a divorce in just minutes.

He told me that he believes that any marriage can be fixed with proper education and will. And after seeing all those cases he's fixed, I'm starting to think about all those marriages back in america that end up in divorce is a waste because it could've been prevented and fixed.

What do you think?

2007-12-20 00:20:57 · 22 answers · asked by michlayfield 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have known to a lady over mobile by friendship zone. From last year we are quite familiar to each other. Till today we haven't met. We have exchange of greetings almost every morning. We shared each other's happiness and woes. She is a working lady with good husband and 2 kids, but sexually not satisfied. Me also not that much of happy with my wife in sex. But it is somehow going on looking to the family and society bindings. Now we both are mutually agreed to satis fy each other sexually.

2007-12-20 00:14:35 · 18 answers · asked by amalendranath 1 in Singles & Dating

why do we stil go out together and sleep together if there is no love there i wonder if he does love me He says we just don't get along except on the bed I think that is an excuse. I don't know what to do i love him but want the divorce because he does is there any hope and is it wrong to sleep with him giving our situation i feel weird about it but like sex with him.

2007-12-20 00:00:16 · 26 answers · asked by poo~poo 1 in Marriage & Divorce