Family & Relationships - 20 December 2007

last week i went on a date with a long time friend that i known for 3 years that i really liked for the first time....i gave her a good night kiss, but i didnt feel anything...is it because im in denial that i kissed them after all these years, or is it something else..i wanted to feel head over heels but nothing, just acted normal...

2007-12-20 06:51:09 · 1 answers · asked by laxitivepo 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-20 06:51:00 · 16 answers · asked by boo 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-20 06:45:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Married in georgia 6 years
Husband currently deployed
Husband decided he wants out of the marriage.
Says he fell out of love with me.

I am stay at home mother to 1 1/2 year old child.
I have always worked before and during our marriage.
I only quit to care for our baby.
I also quit another job to follow him on deployment.

He currently reenlisted for 6 years without telling me.
He gets back in 3 months.

What are my options?
What can I ask for from him?
What might I be able to get?

He just received a $12,000 reenlistment bonus...
am I entitled to any of that -- seeing how its currently in our account and we are technically not divorced yet?

What wouldbe the result in your best guess?

I want to go to computer school, and I dont mind getting a job
Ive always worked.
DOES HE HAVE TO HELP ME GET BACK ON MY FEET

or is it once the divorce is final, Im completely tossed aside?

2007-12-20 06:44:16 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

It's like we still have feelings for each other because whenever I ask him to do something for me he does it or when he ask me to do something for him I do.
Then our bestfriends keep telling us we need to get back together because we made a good couple.
So should I ask him whether or not we should get back together or should I just wait for him to ask me?
I just don't know what to do
I'm just so confused because I straight have feelings for him

2007-12-20 06:44:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-20 06:44:09 · 26 answers · asked by Mariachi123 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-20 06:43:04 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend came by last night and said she needed to talk to someone. When she was 18 (she's 27 now) she drank with some childhood friends of ours..that we GREW UP WITH!! We all hung out at school and practically like brother and sisters! Anyway, She said she went to sleep or passed out and she woke up with her pants down. She said she freaked out and started crying. The messed up part.....she was alone with her now husband alone then! She had a dream that her husband was raping her!! I am shocked!! I don't know what to say to her?? They have 3 kids now. She never told me this and I am very PISSED!! These guys were like family!! What should I telll her?? PLEASE help!!!

2007-12-20 06:41:37 · 11 answers · asked by Angel 1 in Friends

2007-12-20 06:41:37 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-20 06:40:50 · 12 answers · asked by mister? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I just became a widow on Oct.11,2007. I lost my husband to cancer. We were married for 19 years and have 3 children.

2007-12-20 06:40:26 · 24 answers · asked by swamprat71263 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He wants me to come down and do it with him but seriouslly that is so stupid I can't even believe it. He knows I don't want a divorce so I refuse to go anywhere iwth him and thinks he just needs to do it on his own- I will sign paperwork but will not go anywhere in public with him for this.

2007-12-20 06:39:57 · 22 answers · asked by laura m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is watching and copying an adult film with your spouse a sin when you consider that Christ says that looking lustfully at someone other than your spouse is adultery?

2007-12-20 06:39:14 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I confronted my mother in law about the trash talking and name calling she and her daughters have done to me now and over the years.. I finally stood up for myself and spoke my mind and now they are MAD and NOT speaking to me or my husband and son.. THEY are the ones that called me names. I got tired of it one day.. I took care of father in law while my mother in law was ill in hospital, I did errands for sister in laws.. I was always there when THEY needed me. no ma tter if iw anted to do it or not.. I always knew they was name calling me but I ignored it.. WELL not this last time I confronted them and NOW im the bad guy? They are suppposley.. good christein chuch going people.. why in the world would they trash talk me? I did everythin for them and they treat me like crape. any suggestions of what i can do? we are not speaking at all now?

HELP

2007-12-20 06:37:49 · 13 answers · asked by Rhonda G 2 in Family

I'm 20 and have never dated. I dont have many friends at all really. I do well in school and everyone tells me I'm doing great, but school is my whole life. The future makes me nervous? Am I always going to be this way? I'm very focused on my career (becoming a lawyer) but I'm worried that all life has for me is work, and then I'll die. Help?

2007-12-20 06:37:09 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i love this guy. i told him how i felt today and he told me he didn't feel that way yet, but he could give me a chance. but the thing is, we are always saying "i love you" to each other, and he told me on the phone last night that he likes the sound of my voice. then i asked him what was on his mind that minute and he said i was. two problems: he has a girlfriend, and this girl that likess him also said that she would punch me if i went out with him before she got to. tell me if he likes me or not and what i should do.

2007-12-20 06:35:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How did it get set up? Was it hot? Would you do it again?

2007-12-20 06:35:51 · 5 answers · asked by davimich1975 1 in Singles & Dating

ok im a male, and i know many boys dont want or need kids at this age.

my girlfriend who is 15 also i havn't asked her yet.

but i asked her if she wants to marry with me in future and she said yes so im really happy about that.

but now i want children with her really badly at the moment =\

its werid cos just a year ago i never wanted children maby its just a mood swing i dont know.

but everytime i look at a family in real life or on tv i get really jealloius :( and i want that =\ i dunno how long i should wait

so please help im in bad position :(

i dont want to ask my girlfriend this question because i think it would be too early for her and i dont wanna cause any havok

2007-12-20 06:34:49 · 40 answers · asked by Daniel F 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm having trouble riding my boyfriend....i'm 5'1 and he's 6'1 and wider than my legs are what should i do? I want to be able to ride him cuz that's what we want but it's difficult

2007-12-20 06:33:14 · 7 answers · asked by Shirret C 2 in Singles & Dating

How do you divorce from an unhealthy relationship when you are still so in love with your husband. He cheated on me a year ago and we worked through that but he has this cyber sex addiction and i consider that cheating as well. He wont stop he even did it while i was in labor with out daughter...do i just reserve myself to live with this or do i leave? the problem is i feel like he is looking to cheat again...But he is such a good husband in every other way and an amazing father to our 4month old....i don't know what to do. I just told him i was done with him but i don't think i want to go through with it. I don't know if i can....i don't know what to do, i wish he would just stop, and fight for me and our daughter...but i can't make him change...any advise would be great

2007-12-20 06:32:44 · 14 answers · asked by cynical girl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i just don't know if i'm so over-protected w/my 16yr old daughter.i become hysterical each time she comes home late from school.i get jealous w/ her bestfriend. i shout & i cry & almost hit her if she answers back. i get nervous that she might have an accident when she's not home. we had a fight just awhile ago and she wants to leave the house &i was very much hurt because i've seen in her face that she was decided to leave.i don't want to say sorry, thinking that she might abuse. the worst thing is that i get jealous because i don,t want her to love her father.i want her to love just only me.she's my only daughter.i feel so insecure. is this because i had my menopause but this was 2 yrs ago.pls help me.

2007-12-20 06:32:06 · 2 answers · asked by Beng P 1 in Family

putting fingers up me doesnt work, and ive tried vibraters, but nothing comes. What else can I do?

2007-12-20 06:31:20 · 22 answers · asked by Amanda B 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

This Saturday, I agreed to babysit two kids and I have no idea what activities I can do with them to keep them entertained for at least 4hrs.
One of them is a boy about 10yrs old and the other one is a girl in kindergarten....

Any ideas?
Just any basic tips would be great.

2007-12-20 06:30:19 · 5 answers · asked by whatever21 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ever since I can remember, my parents were too old to keep up with me . Their attitude was always "Why go out and have fun when we can stay home ?" . They griped and complained every time I wanted to go to the movies, or to another town . I didn't like that, and I swore I'd never put my children through that . NOW -- if your parents are older than most, what kind of an experience was that for you ? Did your parents push themselves to keep up with you, or did you have to have to sacrifice so your parents could take it slow and easy ? Did your parents gripe and complain whenever you wanted to have fun ? Was having older parents a good or a bad experience for you ? Do you think it's okay for parents to be old ? Are there any difficulties with having older parents that I didn't mention ?

2007-12-20 06:29:50 · 6 answers · asked by I_hate_being_single 3 in Family

my friend keeps getting beat up by her 15 year old daughter,where can she get help?

2007-12-20 06:29:46 · 7 answers · asked by marty w 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm with this guy.. He's cute, sweet, and talented..

everyone of my friends hate him.. [for no reason.. they say its just a vibe]

oh and he's a sloppy kisser..

WHAT DO I DO ?

2007-12-20 06:28:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So how do I do that?

Why does everyone say to move on and be successful and that is the sweetest revenge? To me, that seems like an opportunity for him to stop thinking about what he did.

He lied and is still lying and thought I broke up with him, he really really really hurt me. I NEVER want him to forget what he lost and how he screwed up.

how do I make him live in misery? He deserves it.

2007-12-20 06:28:36 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm Middle Eastern and my bf is Mexican. We have been together for 4 years and my family still doesn't even know he exists. I not only know his family, but i've even been introduced to his extended family. he's 27 and I'm 24 and we want to get married in a couple years. My family is very traditional and it will kill my folks. My mom has had 2 strokes to the head and my news will probably give her a third one. My mom is a VERY closed minded traditional person so I'm really torn. My bf is educated, treats my great, and has always been there for me. He's such an amazing person and I know that I will have a wonderful future with him. My family is important to me, but I want to be happy too. Any advise?

2007-12-20 06:26:16 · 28 answers · asked by Good Girl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My mom has this bf... he is 10 years younger than her and he fell for her a long time ago... she spends like every night with him and everyday he comes over to give her coffee and doughnuts after i leave for school... we live with my grandparents and she sneaks him in the back everday... he had a 12 year old daughter who hates him and acts like my mom is her mom... I've told her how i felt about him but she wont do anything about it!! what the hell am i supposed to do... am i just supposed to live with it and bottle up my energy and emotions???

2007-12-20 06:24:10 · 25 answers · asked by Mal 1 in Family

Even if you are married, taken, or still single please take the time to answer this question.

For married and taken women, Imagine you were still single at your age and you've never been married before. Would you or would you not be desprite to get married? Would you be in a rush to get married and what would be going through your mind?

For Single womens, how does it feel being single at your age? Are you thinking about getting married soon? Assuming you've never been married before right, and you haven't found the right guy yet, and age is just coming towards you. Would you be in a rush to get married and what would be going through your mind?

2007-12-20 06:23:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating