Family & Relationships - 20 December 2007

2007-12-20 07:06:54 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I haven't had sex in a month. I have a high sex drive and I am getting frustrated that he is never in the mood. He told me he thinks it is because he is so stressed out. Is that normal or common? Is he cheating on me?

2007-12-20 07:05:01 · 31 answers · asked by Steph 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If you broke up with him and he wanted you back...

2007-12-20 07:04:53 · 11 answers · asked by nite_cap 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, so this woman is married, has 2 kids in their late teens, and a husband she's been married to for around 18 years or so.

According to her, there is nothing left of the marriage. They don't fight, they don't have sex for the past ten years or so, they have ended up more like brother and sister, or just good friends. They run the house together, they take care of the kids together, the home seems to be stable and caring, and the kids are turning out really great as far as I can see (and everyone who knows them says that too).

But, there is no "in love" going on with each other, and they are planning on ending the marriage when the kids are grown. They both agree.

The wife became involved with a man online five years ago and they spend hours every day together online or on the phone when the husband and kids aren't home. They plan to marry even though they have never been together in person, after her kids are grown.

Do you think this woman is wrong, and is cheating?

2007-12-20 07:04:17 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my heart is breaking because i would like my family to get along

2007-12-20 07:03:20 · 9 answers · asked by lanek 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Hello how are you???? Well you guys probobly think im a retard for asking all these silly questioins, but i need help. Ok so well i found this small round pill at school today.......it is small, round has no lines or writings on it, its just plain and smooth! Please tell me what it might be, post pictures give me detail, anything. Thanks


DQ Layla!

2007-12-20 07:02:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

alot of my friends said that majority of teenage girls will never know what they want in a relationship. is this true? and when will they know what they want?

2007-12-20 07:02:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We were together for 1 year and 8 months he told me he doesnt love me no more, and that he wants to be free cos he doesnt want a serious relationship atm
i went out the next day with a friend we met up with others, and i bumped into my ex that night he saw me with this guy who apparently wants me ( me n the guy didnt do anything at all )
and then the next day my ex said he is completly over me, and im so confused i want him back i love him so much, i have cried everynight cos i want him back, and the fact im IN love with him, he keeps saying move on and crap but i dont get i how can you just get over someone you have been with for nearly two years and not even feel hurt, to be honest i think he needs to think about what he wants and he was getting stressted about driving not having a job and trying to fit me in with seeing friends and college etc...i still love him and ive told him i do and i will wait for him now im respectin his space and his dad sed he is dissapointed wiv him?

2007-12-20 07:02:26 · 1 answers · asked by St*r 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I want to leave my wife becasue she is verbally abuse sometimes like callign me stupid and talking to me is like talking to a person who is metally disabled. Since then step son has calle dme stupid when i made him breakfast and he didnt like it. I stay at home with the 3 kids all day. When she gets home she sits down on the computer usually for a while and then starts complaining that this isnt done and that isnt done. In the past 6 months i think she has gotten off her but to bath the kids once. I have to put them to bed everynight as one of our boys needs someone to lay down with him for a while. I make dinner about half of the time. When it comes to the weekend she sleeps till noon jsut in time to get up before kids go to nap time. Two of our boys are in diapers and she has changed one diaper in liek the past 2 months. I have talked to her and nothing changes. I am lost and i really want to mov closer to my dad who is getting older and sicker. I dont know what to do?

2007-12-20 07:02:04 · 75 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My father is increasingly getting mad when told "no" or if he wants something done and I can't do it right then. He is not frail or homebound or anything like that. My latest is that he asked me if he could put something in my garage that I just had built and the inside is not done. MY stuff is not in there yet and I explained this to him and he has not spoken to me in 3 weeks and when I asked if he is coming for Christmas was told he has other plans. He acts more and more like a spoiled brat if he doesn't get his own way. My grandmother was like this too but not to this extent. Any advice or websites that would help would be greatly appreciated.

2007-12-20 07:01:53 · 8 answers · asked by luveyinpa 3 in Family

My father is increasingly getting mad when told "no" or if he wants something done and I can't do it right then. He is not frail or homebound or anything like that. My latest is that he asked me if he could put something in my garage that I just had built and the inside is not done. MY stuff is not in there yet and I explained this to him and he has not spoken to me in 3 weeks and when I asked if he is coming for Christmas was told he has other plans. He acts more and more like a spoiled brat if he doesn't get his own way. My grandmother was like this too but not to this extent. Any advice or websites that would help would be greatly appreciated.

2007-12-20 07:01:21 · 1 answers · asked by luveyinpa 3 in Family

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2 pop up tarts
3 musley

2007-12-20 06:58:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

and both parties then marry another it will last more yrs. It is strange in some kind of way. The 1st time around it seams if they make it more than 10 yrs it is remarkable let alone 30 or even lord be with them 40yrs. Young couples just don't stay hitched more than say 10 yrs the 1st time out yet they remarry and it last for the most part a life time why is that. They still have kids and all, they have to deal with the X's , Why if the 2nd time can work couldn't the 1st time around?

2007-12-20 06:57:46 · 25 answers · asked by Yogi 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been hit on lately by married men alot and it's so frustrating. I was at a restaurant and this man was staring me down and then I look and he has a ring on his finger! What's the deal? Are they just not getting any at home?!

2007-12-20 06:57:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she only eat's because she knows she has to, but sometimes she barely eats anything for 2 or 3 days, feeling a little weak later and she admits.....i just don't understand how can this be possible...
why doesn't she like to eat? she's not anorexic...yet

WHAT CAN I DO?

2007-12-20 06:57:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-12-20 06:56:20 · 9 answers · asked by Seed Plower 5 in Singles & Dating

I have been wanting to just tear off my wifes clothing and make her scream but her sex drive has all but disappeared over the last year.....Should I just go for it and be agressive or try and ease into it with some foreplay and romance???

I have posted a question regarding this subject awhile back and some of the answers that i got helped out alot....Looking for serious answers and good mature feedback...Happy Hoildays to ALL!!!

2007-12-20 06:56:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've notice this a lot. Why do people tend to wanna give you a vote of confidence when it comes to finding love and relationships?

Even in this tremendously-screwed up! enviornement we live today-when it come to both of those things. From the excessive amounts of cheating. Broken vows and the corruption of relationship and personal integrity. Peopel always wanna give you a chin up, you'll find that someone. . . why? In particular when your young, I'm 21.

Especially if you know what other people are doing when it comes to shady-just wrong behavior.

Why do people always like giving relationship and love confidence? Especially when things are so screwed up?

Just curious. . .

2007-12-20 06:56:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

it just seems like its such a rapidly growing up and coming kink, i wonder if anyone else has noticed it.

some psychology student might have a better reason for it, but if you ask me, if its happening it has to do with changing times. women by nature have a certain amount of sexual freedom becuse they are the choosers, but have been reigned in with labels, threats, and practicality. In a world where women don't have to marry a man to feed herself or be independent of her parents, and she can prevent pregnancy and vd through safe practices, why shouldn't she do what comes naturally

i, for one, think some women are naturally a little (not alot) promiscuous (studies show this is true, particularly during ovulation, as women have evolved to want one type of man to pass on genes to their children, and another to support them - whether you beleive that mumbo jumbo), and i think a day is coming where not even marriage will stop women from enjoying what mother nature has given them.

2007-12-20 06:55:47 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-20 06:55:18 · 18 answers · asked by empty_shadow 1 in Singles & Dating

K. My ex and I broke up last summer. Ok. I usually talk to him on myspace and he never replies. But last night, he replied and was deep. We are both going through stuff. So. I called him once and we talked 4 a long time. So he had to call me back and I was like you swear you will? and he said yes. And i said ok.. and he did. He was practicing playing a song perfect for me. Then he had to call me back again and he did. We talked for a really long time. And so once i had to call him back and he said you promise you will? and i said yes. And I did. I am starting to like him a lot more now. And he is supposed to come over to my house this christmas break. he wants to also. soo does it sound like he still likes me? i really like him and I want him back. I will also include how long we went out and why we broke up. We went out for three months and broke up b/c we drifted apart. But I feel this bond is closer. and he is so sweet. cuz he told me he is trying to get the song perfect.

2007-12-20 06:55:13 · 9 answers · asked by Bowchickawowwoww 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-20 06:55:13 · 24 answers · asked by Mariachi123 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My little brother stays home alone with me after school while my mom is at work, but the sec my little brother steps into the house, he becomes a total spaz! He'll start throwing things at me for no reason at all! He's thrown forks and knives and I get really scared when we are home alone. What do I do about it!? 9i'm only 10, dont cus, please)

2007-12-20 06:54:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have a little brother that moved in with me after he graduated from High School. (We grew up in Nevada, I live in Texas) He decided that he wanted to live with me to go to college. When he got here he decided he was going to take a semester off of school and start in the winter. He moved back home in Sept., telling me that it was nothing that I did, he just couldn't handle being away from all of the family and his friends.

This week I decided to get a myspace page so that I could stay in touch with him easier. I was reading some of his posts, and he told all of his friends that he moved back home because I am and unreasonalble b****, and that I had told him he wouldn't have to pay a dime and then demanded he pay me 1000.00 a month to live in my house. I never told him it would be completely rent free, and I only asked him for 100 a month to help cover the cost of bills and groceries.

What I want to know is, should I say something to him about what he said about me?

2007-12-20 06:54:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

we been together for like 3 years and yeah we used to do it a lot before but then science i got into church and just trying to do good i just decided to stop for the good of both of us i mean i am not ready to have a kid we dont even live together i am 19 and hes 21 but lately all he asks for is sex and sex and sex it really makes me sick what should i do i just feel like an object a toy that he can use when he feels like it i mean when we go out all he wants to do is rent a hotel go to the driveins or just to a place to have sex he does not ever worry about my feelings anymore i have not gotten flowers in like a year and he has totally changed on me i just dont know what to do and he has no job to make it worst i wish crying would fix the problem but i just learned that it wont so what can i do i am scared of leaving him really scared i think he will hurt me or himself i dont know how i go tinvolved with him this way ?

2007-12-20 06:52:55 · 5 answers · asked by *********** 4 in Singles & Dating

In today's world it is almost a must!

2007-12-20 06:52:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what other stuff would you like her to do..(exp. massage, kiss??)

2007-12-20 06:52:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why is 90 % of women these days slutty??? they care about shopping , dancing ,money & cute guys??? & they deliver themselves to guys they just met... for sexual pleasure.. &old women cheat on their husbends who is out there working hard to bring money...& youth happy cause they lost virginity under age 20... where are all the great women of the past has gone???

2007-12-20 06:51:41 · 11 answers · asked by kilckas 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-20 06:51:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im very upset im getting married on april 12 and i ordered my dress 1st of december i jsut called to find out when will if get to the store and they told me by march the 1st should i even be panicing now? or is it ok for the dress to get there a month before my wedding?

2007-12-20 06:51:14 · 21 answers · asked by jessyka_g 2 in Weddings