Family & Relationships - 20 December 2007

2007-12-20 01:58:19 · 21 answers · asked by A 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am having a bit of a breakdown. She has been good to me for a few years now. We have no kids thru choice and we enjoy our home together.

Recently during our loving sessions she has become more frisky. different outfits and stuff like that. I smiled and accepted as I appreciated the change from the lights off & silence. But now she has begun to talk during it. I admit the first few times were very good for me. But now she says things that upset me. She keeps calling me a "big black buck". I am a normal white guy from Kent and i dont get why she is doing this.

She tells me to go faster or give her some medicine, like "go on you big black buck give me your medicine". I find it all very embarrassing. I cant ask her afterwards as i am too ashamed. She never mentions it. I thought maybe i should tell her sister or her friend to talk to her.

I am lost with what to do. Does anyone else have this experience? Thanks

2007-12-20 01:55:04 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Say, some people like from CA or TX tend to get a last minute urge to get married, make a run for the border and find a quicky marriage office in MX. Is it legal in USA?

2007-12-20 01:55:03 · 2 answers · asked by TexMex74 3 in Marriage & Divorce

my friend wants to fight me over something stupid. But iam a hard down fighter and she is skinny but iam also skinny. So should i fight her or wat.

2007-12-20 01:53:53 · 11 answers · asked by SONDRA232 1 in Friends

My husband and I discussed divorce last night.
This will be quite a shock to everyone we know; we put up such a good front at being happy.

I love my husband but ever since my business that I started went belly up; everything just seems to be going wrong. I have no zest for life anymore. I get aggravated easily and I'm so down on myself. No one sees this except my husband and kids. It seems as if we are just living as roommates. No oneis cheating as far as I know; we don't argue and fight; we just co-exist.

My question is how do I tell the kids? The husband says I need to decide which two I'm going to take with me. I don't want to seperate my kids. But I am so unhappy. Maybe I have mental issues i don't know.

I have been researching divorce all morning; I hate breaking up my family; my kids are going to be devestated. Damn.

2007-12-20 01:53:37 · 13 answers · asked by Indypendence 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-20 01:51:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

please advice me on what to do, she does not have regards for me any more, she tells me how she visited another guy who tried to rape her, and does not come to my place as often again, pls help

2007-12-20 01:51:28 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't understand it.

This is one of the "rules" of our society. But why?

Why is a man expected to pay for dates when he takes a young lady out?

Now, of course, if a man ASKS a woman out on a date, yes, I think he should pay for everything.

But I have been dating my Fiance now for a year. Most of the time, I pay for our dates. I think that it is indeed expected of me. But why is it expected?

It is not my Fiance's fault. Evidently, most people would agree with the idea that a man should pay. But WHY?

Please provide an elaborate and logical explanation for this.

2007-12-20 01:47:57 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was listening to the radio this morning and the radio host asked an interseting question. He wanted to know how you would react if your kids called their stepmother: Mom. Would that piss you off? He was talking about how Katie Holmes told a tv show host that she loved Tom's kid's with Nicole Kidman and that they even call her mom. I'm not married with kids but personally I would hit the roof it my kids called my husband's new wife mom. How about you?

2007-12-20 01:47:51 · 29 answers · asked by ALeoStar 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I find that I always picture a scene or another person in the room when i close my eyes. I suspect my wife does to.

She has 5 sisters in her family and the whole bunch wander through my mind when i lie back. I am very confused at to what else i should be thinking about. As soon as i get one of them to sniff around at the old back door "with a back stage pass" , well it's all over. I dont last very long after that.

Isnt this the point of fantasy. No one else is hurt, it's just a party in my head. Like a pig truffling. But i dont tell her that or my wife.

2007-12-20 01:46:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i cried myself to sleep over a crush because i thought of the mean things he's done to me before he started being nice.it Christmas break at school and when we come back i decided to tell him straight up that i like him and to tell me if he doesn't like me back. am i in love with this guy??

2007-12-20 01:45:11 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

it's become an increasing issue. If I bring it up we fight. He won't talk to me about it and just tells me I'm nuts.

2007-12-20 01:43:54 · 25 answers · asked by brarshsmom 1 in Marriage & Divorce

why girls shame when she talk to the man she love and when she see any actor in the street she is going to kiss him and do any thing to make him the best in her live!!! is there any reason ? it is realy strange

2007-12-20 01:43:36 · 13 answers · asked by mm m 1 in Singles & Dating

So I,m 24 and have been with my girlfriend for three years. Do you think a journey pendant is a good idea if I'm planning on spending a long time with her, or are those reserved for older/married couples?

2007-12-20 01:41:19 · 2 answers · asked by jfoste1 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend just found out that I let past boyfriends take nude pictures of me and he's flipping out. He got really upset and wants me to get them back because he doesn't want another guy having nude photos of me. The problem is I've done it with a few different guys and I don't know how I'd get them all to give them back and even if I did how would I ever know if they gave them all back? What can I do to get my boyfriend to just realize it's in the past and let it go?

2007-12-20 01:40:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My first gal was exactly wat i wanted in a lady, and i really loved her. all of it happened at high school. everything was just fine until a guy (my juniour) got involved. they were neigbour so she began giving him measages for me. i personally like the guy & i treated him nicely any time he came around.
but on that good day, she gave me measage she wasn't feeling too well. I said to tell her I'll be there the next day but fortunatelly i had a little spare time that day so rush down there only to find my so called juniour having sex with my girl friend.

I can tell you it wasn't easy, and ever since it has been so difficult to fall inlove until recently but it also turn ed out to be a bad idea.
is it just me or it that how women are if the know you really do love them??

2007-12-20 01:39:26 · 6 answers · asked by Saint West 4 in Singles & Dating

She call me a jerk and said she dont want to see me anymore, plus I got arrested.

2007-12-20 01:38:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

best. Why is it when you have a jerk and they treat you like dirt and you know the best option is to toss them on the road, you still miss them? You still only want that person? I'm not in love and was recently treated like sht. I hung up on em and every time I tell someone what happened, their response is the same. Leave him alone, he's a jerk you deserve better...yes, I do but why am I still thinking about him? Why am I hoping he'll call with an apology? Even though right now, I can't think of anything he could possibly say to make me feel better. I dont' think I want him, but...then I guess I do if he keeps popping up in my mind.
Do you think he could be popping in my head cause he's thinking about the situation too? Or is that just wishful thinking? I'm going insane...my mind is my worst enemy right now. Help! Words of wisdom please?

2007-12-20 01:33:14 · 5 answers · asked by karamell08 5 in Singles & Dating

beautiful.....................................I met my old girlfriend from high school again and she's more beautiful 18 years later!! I've seen some other girls I use to know...Very beautiful. Some guys like younger girls but not me....I like older women.

2007-12-20 01:31:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I hate my job. The other office manager I had just recently left after 8 1/2 years. Now the other woman I work with is office manager. She wants me to let her know every flippin fart I do. It's just ridiculous. A patient called because his family was getting life insurance on his mother and wanted her records for the past 2 years. I left a note in the doctor's box so he could give them the info that they needed and the patient wanted to know the fastest way to get the info. That's where I left it off. He had me copy the info they needed but that was it. Then apparently the patient's son showed up after I left. I got yelled at this morning and told I need to communicate more. I told her right out I did not know that anyone was going to be coming in. I mean aren't I right that since the doctor was the last to speak to them of how they would get the info he should have said something to her? I feel like crying...I'm tired of being put down.

2007-12-20 01:27:06 · 8 answers · asked by Brownie12866 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-20 01:23:14 · 4 answers · asked by arrinne 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I want a wedding in a venue by the sea, (west coast scotland) but not part of a hotel wedding package. I want a BBQ on the beach for the evening supper & a bonfire. Non of which are offered in a package.
Can I still book a hotel & have them do this? Or are most hotels strict - our way or no way?

2007-12-20 01:22:39 · 7 answers · asked by Carol x 5 in Weddings

Why do you live?

2007-12-20 01:22:21 · 18 answers · asked by Stevo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Do people know what the word friend is really about?

2007-12-20 01:18:52 · 8 answers · asked by nomorecapri 5 in Friends

Give me some ideas of the best gift I could give my wife? I am lacking of ideas.

2007-12-20 01:16:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i'M a VirGo Born On 28 AuguSt 1989.
WhICh HoRoScopE iS ThE beSt FoR mE??
I LikE a TauRus Guy(6 May 1984) But he Seems to Be lEss BothEred abouT me and iS alwAys With his Friends. TheRe's AnoTher VirGo Guy(26 aug 1987) Who SeeMs To bE inTerEsteD abOut Me buT i'M Taking iT SlowLy. And my CouSin Who's An AquAriuS(6 FeB 1986) Who Is WaiTing To GEt me.. I ReaLly Don't know WhiCh GuY is The RighT guy For me. I WanT To GeT a Guy Who wOuld ReaLly Be TheRe For mE, Who WoulD ReaLly LovE anD ChErisH mE.. I'm ConFusEd.. I nEed Help!!!

2007-12-20 01:14:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

are any of you sensible?
if so how long does it to for the average teen guy to become less immature.

just a question on my minde.

2007-12-20 01:08:48 · 12 answers · asked by mannequin.. 1 in Singles & Dating

after quarrel between u and ur wife ?
what is the best thing you do to make her happy and apologize
in few hours. with best reason?

2007-12-20 01:05:08 · 26 answers · asked by mm m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've always thought that if a man cheated on me I would want to know, but is it easier not knowing? Let's say you're in a happy relationship and temptation attacks him and u find out would you just up and leave?

2007-12-20 01:03:10 · 32 answers · asked by tc22 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have NO money for Christmas presents this year. I have been struggling to pay my bills (tax bill just went up $500 poof just like that). I don't know how to tell them, and I just cry when I think about this. And no, I don't have credit cards to just "put" the presents on. I don't even think I can get them a stocking this year (3 kids).

2007-12-20 00:59:00 · 80 answers · asked by Jill S 5 in Marriage & Divorce