Family & Relationships - 20 December 2007

me and my guy bestfriend were friends since 2nd year college,he was an ex-boyfriend of a friend of mine and then after a year of their break up,my best friend and I realized something that we begin to love each other unintentionally.as I about to say yes to him,something happend between us that makes his proposal got disaster. after months has passed by, I got a new boyfriend and as well as my best friend got his new girlfriend.. after a year when we were both free we've decided to continue our love that suppose to be started way back 2 years ago.and now the time has come,my best friend became my boyfriend,on the other hand he still kept on texting other girls who had a big crush on him.i was so jealous and mad because why he cannot stop texting those girls if he really loves me.and now i think i should break up with him just to survive our friendship.do you think i am on the right path?i am so confuse about what is happening to me right now.please help me.i need your opinions.thanks.

2007-12-20 06:00:24 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am 18. I have never been to school and have been in a mentally abusive home my entire life. I have no family and my father is non existant. I have always taken care of my mother. Cooking, cleaning, washing her clothes. She is helpless and a alcoholic. I met my boyfriend when I was 14. He did website work for my mom. We were friends but he drew a line I was forbidden to cross. When I turned 18 I told him my feelings. He conceided that he felt feelings for me but he wanted me to go to school. In the past 11 months I have felt more love and compassion from this man than anything I have ever felt. I have dated guys but they only want one thing. This man loves me. I know it in my deepest part of my soul. I feel the same for him. I cannot bear to think of a day without him. He wants me to go to school and is taking steps to get my GED and get me in college. I don't party, Drink, do drugs. I have seen their impact on my life from others. I want a life with no one but this man. I'm in Love

2007-12-20 05:58:36 · 29 answers · asked by jessphillips89 1 in Singles & Dating

I was engaged to this man who I thought was a wonderful man. Until I went to the doctors and we found out that I would never have kids. So he decided that he couldn't get married due to this so we parted ways and about 2 years later I met my now husband of 6 years who loved me despite of this and guess what out of the blue one day I thought I had the flu and the doctor said that my dream had come true. We were expecting and through a long and ruff road ahead of us we had a baby girl. I recently saw my ex and he asked who's baby was I holding and I replied this is my daughter. It seemed like his heart dropped and he said take care of her. What do you think he felt?

2007-12-20 05:56:42 · 15 answers · asked by Debbie 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-20 05:56:09 · 6 answers · asked by JB 1971 1 in Singles & Dating

He is very secretive with his phone, has it on silent when he is with me so I don't know when he gets text messages. I know he gets text messages off a woman but dont know what they say.
Never answers the phone when I ring him.
Has gone off sex.
Has taken the photo of me out of his wallet.

I really trusted him and never thought he would cheat on me until a few months ago.

2007-12-20 05:54:47 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is so unlike me, too. This guy friend of mine drives me crazy. He has mentioned interest before but hasn't done anything.Is there anything I can do to make this happen? and don't worry I do love this guy, but if he doesn't love me back I will understand...

2007-12-20 05:54:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Does anyone know where can I get a signature drink made for a wedding in Ottawa,On

2007-12-20 05:53:00 · 7 answers · asked by devine 2 in Weddings

It has been a few days and I am starting to feel alright again. How did you get through it?

2007-12-20 05:51:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-20 05:51:17 · 6 answers · asked by Words_Unspoken 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok so i can get the courage to start talking to a girl but can anyone give me some ideas of what to talk about or what to ask her thx.

2007-12-20 05:49:45 · 7 answers · asked by STAT1 3 in Singles & Dating

A couple of weeks ago, I found out my husband was cheating by way of seeing them have sex. I left the house with my 5 yr old son before he got home from work. He was totally ok with this and we are getting a divorce. I just found out that my husband had been cheating on me for 2 YEARS! And his “girl friend” just had their baby. I just had OUR baby on Dec 15th, AFTER I found out that he was cheating. What should I DO??? I am now the single mom of an infant and 5 year old. And his wife just had a healthy little boy name Terrell Owen, making it horrible, our kids have the SAME Last name!! Terrell Owen Rossman and Landon Joel Rossman, Mikaeyla Jade Rossman. Their baby took my husbands last name.

WHAT SHOULD I DO???

* I didn't even know she was pregnant!!!!*

2007-12-20 05:47:05 · 73 answers · asked by Mommy of Landon and Kaeyla 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-20 05:45:40 · 4 answers · asked by Jjjoooll 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-20 05:44:46 · 17 answers · asked by klorraine25 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so i have been dating my guy for two years now, we dont get along the way we used too, he treats me badly and gets mad if i ask him any questions about our relationship or wanna talk about anything relating to fights, changes, anything dealing with the relationship. he doesn't trust me going out with my girlfriends, who i dont even see much to begin with. he told me he will never trust me when i go out with them. and this is bc i lied to him a couple times about hanging out with my girls, he doesnt like me hanging out with other guys he doesn't know, he wouldn't let me go hang with my girl at her brothers house. he puts me down, is immature and childish when it comes to my chest. he is selfish.

now....my other friend, well both of our friends, lives in nj. he knows i deserve better and he said if i were with him he would treat me the way i deserve and would do anything for me. he has always been there for me when i get in fights with my guy. he doesn't like the fact that

2007-12-20 05:44:28 · 54 answers · asked by million$? 3 in Singles & Dating

when you get an engagment ring, and its time for the wedding, do you buy new rings or use the engagement rings?

2007-12-20 05:43:42 · 10 answers · asked by kim12482000 1 in Marriage & Divorce

okay today I just went to the craft store to buy my girl friend a gift and these 2 guys working on a light, were totally starring at me I felt so uncomfurtable.....cause hello I'm married, but In a way i felt attractive. do you women ever feel good when you get a stare once in awhile, cause now your older and you don't get that as much. Don't get my wrong my hubby is so sweet and is always complementing me. but wow it made my day. (kind of like that one episode in "King Of Queens" when Carrie was deppresed that she does not get gocked at anymore, so Doug payed these construction workers to holler at her. It made her feel attractive....I love that show.)

2007-12-20 05:42:50 · 25 answers · asked by Stephanie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend mentioned to me that when we get married he didn't expect me to take his last name because he felt that we were a modern couple and didn't need to follow those traditions of taking a last name. So I told him to take my last name--which he didn't like (so much for being modern!)

I just wanted people opinions and thoughts on taking your husbands last name (do you not care, are you for it, etc).

Thanks!

2007-12-20 05:42:49 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Do guys like taller girls or shorter?? or what?

2007-12-20 05:38:46 · 10 answers · asked by HayShae 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend of 5 years has went crazy, I know it sounds strange but he changed over the years. He thinks I'm cheating when I'm not. Its gotten so serious that the last time I was with him he attacked me in front of his mother and two sisters. I couldn't call the police or anyone to help because he had the phone in his pocket. I borke up with him immedately and now he's harrassing me. Constantly calling me, cussing out my mother and me and threating to kill me. I'm very afraid because he has a gun and can do anything at anytime. He says he just want us to be back together and he'll never hit me again and he's sorry. He also says he loves me and doesn't want to hurt me. I believe his bipolar but I'm not sure. What should I do??

2007-12-20 05:38:33 · 4 answers · asked by msktty7 2 in Singles & Dating

I don't ask for anything. All I ask is, IF my wife doesn't want to give me freedom to play around, that my wife keep me company and show me a little TLC while I satisfy myself watching porn once per week. Hell, if she did it once every couple of weeks or even once a month, that would satisfy me that she has any interest at all in pleasing me. As far as taking over the chores I have been doing for the past several years while she's been drunk or ripped or out of her head, I didn't ask her to do them. I am making her an offer; it's easy, it should be fun, and wouldn't even be necessary if she was even interested in sex.

2007-12-20 05:38:06 · 11 answers · asked by lillegman46 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have separated and he is living with his mistress he has had for awhile. Everyone is stressed and our daughter is experiencing the worst of it. I don't want her to be around the other woman, the other woman doesn't know how to act around our daughter, and my husband is uncomfortable with all of it. What can we do to make this easy for everyone? We are planning on getting a divorce soon, but I just want some advice. I'm stressed out and am afraid that it's affect her well being.

2007-12-20 05:37:14 · 6 answers · asked by blue eyes 2 in Marriage & Divorce

friends w/benefits? I've known this guy a couple months now. When we first started talking he said he wanted to be friends w/benefits. Now, I know the "true" meaning of that means no emotional attachment. But we talk everyday, he says he has feelings for me(which I thought was a no-no in these sort of things)& tells me he misses me & can't wait to see me & wants to spend more time w/me. He has also said before though, that he isn't looking for a serious relationship. So if he doesn't want to be serious right now & it seems that the rules of fwb have been broken what are we now? I know whatever our relationship is it doesn't have to be labeled as far as I'm concerned..I'm just wondering. I haven't been divorced real long & I'm back to being single, so just curious.

2007-12-20 05:36:50 · 5 answers · asked by thisgirl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Im a 28 year old dude and have lost nearly all my hair in the last 2 years! Im worried no woman will fancy me anymore, i havent had a relationship in 3 years! Its making me depressed i feel old and ugly, when i look in the mirror i think i look like an alien or someone whos ill! Its very noticeable now and i dont even want to see my friends anymore as they will stare i know it!

2007-12-20 05:36:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I couldn't help but notice those huge melons of hers, that she was holding in the produce section of the supermarket.

2007-12-20 05:35:48 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

no serious answers please.

2007-12-20 05:35:46 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why do married men cheat?

I mean what's the problem @ home?

2007-12-20 05:34:30 · 27 answers · asked by twdy412 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-20 05:30:53 · 9 answers · asked by Big Daddy Cool 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so my girlfriend is beautiful and I love her and all but shes never ever horny. I mean we have sex and all that fun stuff but I have to plan it out usually 2-7 days in advance and slowly turn her on. I kiss her in her non intimate parts, run my fingers down her hips and back and do all that foreplay stuff pretty good but she is never in the mood for sex! She knows this too which makes me feel better so she usually gives me a bj which is awesome.
My question is how do I turn on a girl that never gets horney? Shes too pure and pristine which always turns me on. She never looks at porn, never thinks of other guys, never masturbates. Is this all healthy?
Will her sex drive increase with age?
We have been together for almost 3 years. I'd like some good feed back please! Thanks!

2007-12-20 05:30:26 · 4 answers · asked by drfark 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Just curious. I'm only 24, but sometimes think I'll never marry because I just meet all the wrong guys. So where did you meet your spouse, and how long have you been married? Also, how long did you date before marrying?

2007-12-20 05:29:24 · 22 answers · asked by Who's That Girl? 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-20 05:28:53 · 12 answers · asked by sillydilly66 1 in Marriage & Divorce