My boyfriend of 5 years has went crazy, I know it sounds strange but he changed over the years. He thinks I'm cheating when I'm not. Its gotten so serious that the last time I was with him he attacked me in front of his mother and two sisters. I couldn't call the police or anyone to help because he had the phone in his pocket. I borke up with him immedately and now he's harrassing me. Constantly calling me, cussing out my mother and me and threating to kill me. I'm very afraid because he has a gun and can do anything at anytime. He says he just want us to be back together and he'll never hit me again and he's sorry. He also says he loves me and doesn't want to hurt me. I believe his bipolar but I'm not sure. What should I do??
2007-12-20 05:38:33 · 4 answers · asked by msktty7 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, be careful!!
If you really love him you could try to work it out but be very carefull, he might be bipolar... and he could very well be normal again just with meds... if you don't want anything to do with him dump him, and get a restraining order if he still bothers you.
Listen to your heart, and whatever you do be safe.
2007-12-20 05:47:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got a death wish? Call the police and have a restraining order on him. Dont answer is calls or if you do record it. Save threatening messages and call the law. Why would you not do that already? He's outta control...love him or not this man is crazy as hell. And threatening your family girl I woulda done had his as* arrested or something. You aint gotta take that sh*t from nobody.
2007-12-20 13:45:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from him. This is the behavior of an abuser. They always apologize, until the next time. If you are scared of him, file for an order of protection. I have found over the years, that the jealous one is the cheater. Their own behavior makes them paranoid and they blame their partner for their indiscretions.
2007-12-20 13:48:08 · answer #3 · answered by sensible_man 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Restraining order...
If that guy gets anywhere near you, call the cops. From your story, it sounds like he needs professional help, but you need to take care of yourself.
2007-12-20 14:03:17 · answer #4 · answered by xenoranger 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋