i am confuse if i will continue to love my best friend?

Question

me and my guy bestfriend were friends since 2nd year college,he was an ex-boyfriend of a friend of mine and then after a year of their break up,my best friend and I realized something that we begin to love each other unintentionally.as I about to say yes to him,something happend between us that makes his proposal got disaster. after months has passed by, I got a new boyfriend and as well as my best friend got his new girlfriend.. after a year when we were both free we've decided to continue our love that suppose to be started way back 2 years ago.and now the time has come,my best friend became my boyfriend,on the other hand he still kept on texting other girls who had a big crush on him.i was so jealous and mad because why he cannot stop texting those girls if he really loves me.and now i think i should break up with him just to survive our friendship.do you think i am on the right path?i am so confuse about what is happening to me right now.please help me.i need your opinions.thanks.

Answer 1

Right path, wrong person, Your inability to go a long time with out a relaitoship shows how little you like your own company. Couple that with the fact that you and him are emotionally distant people well you've got a relatioship set to fail. The fact was you were right to go with your best-friend, love is natural in that arena, the bad thing, is neither of you know how to do it right. Your still stuck on immature ideals of what love is, you guys can't even see that you were always in love, becuase you felt for each other, the only thing thats changed is the intensity of that love, unfornutly your communication with each other hasn't. Mostly because he definetly isn't mature enough to know exactly how to use a girl for what he needs, and something tells me because of your cronic dating pratice, you don't ether, so pain, heart-breck, is going to be your friends, unless you guys can communicate honestly.... such is the nature of love.... lets just say that you can do a romantic love relaitonship right now, but a true love relationship which is the only thing that could come out of that, is sort of out of your grasp, no offense... just work on yoru communication is all thats needed....