Ok so my girlfriend is beautiful and I love her and all but shes never ever horny. I mean we have sex and all that fun stuff but I have to plan it out usually 2-7 days in advance and slowly turn her on. I kiss her in her non intimate parts, run my fingers down her hips and back and do all that foreplay stuff pretty good but she is never in the mood for sex! She knows this too which makes me feel better so she usually gives me a bj which is awesome.
My question is how do I turn on a girl that never gets horney? Shes too pure and pristine which always turns me on. She never looks at porn, never thinks of other guys, never masturbates. Is this all healthy?
Will her sex drive increase with age?
We have been together for almost 3 years. I'd like some good feed back please! Thanks!
2007-12-20 05:30:26 · 4 answers · asked by drfark 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No no I mean she has masturbated prior to me and use to have porn as well. Ever since she has met me she has become so settled down and doesn't even look at other guys. Her friends are always like "Look at that dude he is hot!" and her response is "Ew, what the hell?" And we use to have sex all the time in the beginning of our relationship and it slowly stopped. =[
2007-12-20 05:46:04 · update #1
Iguess it will take little extra time for you get real sex response from her .She is yet to mature in this respect.She is clean at heart.Needs break and don't keep trying again and again . That puts her off.I am sure , her normal urge to have sex will grow very soon if you don't keep insisting on having a do with her every time. Wait on.The result will be fine for you both.
2007-12-20 05:53:48 · answer #1 · answered by bikashroy9 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow that must be frustrating. I find it very VERY hard to believe that your girlfriend has never masturbated or fantasized about a guy at one point in her life. Either she has a hormonal issue which needs medical attention OR she thinks that sex is dirty.
The way you describe her makes me think that she's a conservative girl whose views on sex are misguided. She probably thought of sex as dirty and wrong or not something that women enjoy. I'd talk to her about it. ALSO, because you say she is too pure and pristine, she probably doesn't want to "tarnish" this image that you have of her. She's probably too afraid to be her sexual self. Let her be loose, even if that means bringing alcohol into the picture. You don't want her to be drunk, but loosened up. You don't believe what I do and say, when I've had a few drinks in me.....
By the way, ALL girls masturbate, those who say they don't are either lying or have done it and never climaxed!
2007-12-20 05:40:35 · answer #2 · answered by Chrystal 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you dont give her age but it will change...unfortunally change for the worse. as you get older you sex drive slows down anyway, the older you get the less you need or want it and if shes like this now whats she going to be like in say 3-4 years from now? she will eventually stop having sex altogether, especially if she is the prim & proper type. what you need to ask yourself is this what you are willing to settle for? do you love her enough where not having sex will not be a problem down the road because this is how this will end up,not only for you but any man shes with so you need to make some decisions concerning your future,like a future with sex or without sex. plus when she does give in she will be doing it out of feeling that she has to instead of because she wants to. good luck on this one!
2007-12-20 06:22:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't take much to turn a woman on. If she was that uptight before you met her it's your fault because YOU KNEW...all I can tell you is either she's either messing around with someone else or you HAVE TO SAY 'BABY LET'S WATCH THIS PORN BECAUSE I LIKE IT WHEN YOU DO THIS...' If that doesn't do the trick then it's time to question where her mind is at...
2007-12-20 05:44:51 · answer #4 · answered by james_sims34 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋