Family & Relationships - 20 December 2007

and if so, how do you deal with it. leaving the relationship is not a option rite now.

2007-12-20 21:00:35 · 9 answers · asked by ms attitude 2 in Singles & Dating

i sometimes wish i wasnt so normal.
and that i could be somebody with alittle more....
umn something.

2007-12-20 21:00:09 · 6 answers · asked by jason D.C 4 in Singles & Dating

I sort of suspect that its a possibility my partner is having an affair. he's an absolutely fantastic liar - seriously, the best anyone has ever met, honestly.
I have never confronted him about this as it has only just occured to me, but last night he told me he didn't trust me at all.

Do men tell their aprtners they don't trust them when they are the ones having an affair?
And if so....why?
Are there any other tell tale signs, and no silly ones like lipstick on his collar, he really wouldnt be that stupid!! Thanks

2007-12-20 20:59:38 · 15 answers · asked by sweet_steph27 3 in Singles & Dating

Okay, so there are these two guys that i've liked for a long time. I think they like me too though. Today, (Thursday December 20) was the day that we get off of school for winter break. I didn't want to leave these two guys for three weeks without them knowing that I like them. (Note: these two guys are like really good friends) So after school, I each told them. They didn't seem that surprised, or maybe they were just realy shocked. So I give them a hug and everything, and I go home. The second I walk through my front door, I realized that I made a huge mistake. I shoudn't have told two guys, which I both like equally, who are friends, that I like them. I don't want to be like one of THOSE kind of girls that goes out with two guys at the same time. I'm kinda just hoping that one of them will stop liking me over break, so my desicion is easier. This sucks, please guys give me some advice. (Note: I have no way of communicating with these guys, no e-mails or phone numbers)

2007-12-20 20:55:07 · 11 answers · asked by Lisa 1 in Singles & Dating

I know I'm not being loyal to both of them, but I can't take it any more. I feel overwhelmed thinking about what to do. please give me an advise! I feel desperate. My life is a lie..

2007-12-20 20:53:39 · 10 answers · asked by Sol 1 in Marriage & Divorce

When I see my boyfriend this summer (I will not have seen him for 6 months) what are the little things that I should focus on? I want him to be absolutely blown away! Nails? Hair? What do I wear?! Help!

2007-12-20 20:38:18 · 12 answers · asked by *~*IllusiveButterfly*~* 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who I like, and he acts as if he likes me. Other people have commented on it too. He's a bit of a shy boy, so it would take a lot for him to say something. A few weeks ago he seemed to be avoiding me, so I emailed him about it. It took him ages to reply but eventually he said that he values my friendship but 'didn't want to give me any other impression'. I told him he shouldn't worry about it, and since then he's gone back to normal, acting like he likes me. What are the chances that he actually does like me? I think one of his friends likes me, so maybe he's not saying anything because of him. How crazy am I being?

2007-12-20 20:23:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we were just chatting about his mates,and he just said im his best friend,is that good?did he make it up,i dont think he would,can i be agirlfriend and bst mate at the same time?

2007-12-20 20:18:30 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiancee is a right royal pain in the ****, a stubborn opinioned ***** of a woman who duped me into getting engaged with her, then despite crap sexlife, she got pregnant.

She is lazy and never cleans the house, expecting me to do an 11 hour day then come in and live in squalor. I end up spending hours and hours cleaning every week, tidying up after her pets (dogs, cats, rabbits the works), she leaves stuff lying about everywhere,

I knew she was like this but was hopeful of her upping her game when i moved in with her, but no....

Feel like a frigging servant, and when i complain she tells me that she never asked me to do anything. Thing is I have to do tidying - cat footprints on the dinner table, mud and animal hair on the sofa, half-eaten dogs dinners all over the floors - its intolerable otherwise....

The thought of bringing a baby into such a mess leaves me cold, have tried so hard, at end of my tether, what should I do? She doesn't listen....

2007-12-20 20:13:56 · 25 answers · asked by Derek J Kered 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-20 20:11:47 · 34 answers · asked by Ashwani B 1 in Family

Im 15, living with my mum dad and sister. I know ive caused them a loto f aggrivation over the years, im seeing a theropist and have deression. YEsterday they rang me when i was with my boyfriend tellign me to come home, i said no. In the end they came and foundme, brought me home and told me i wasnt part of the family. My lose friends' parentsh ave offered to ttake me in for as long as i need to give me and my aprents both soem time to think. I think this will be a good way becausei t will solve problems. My mums telling me i cant go. I wnat to go. What do i do, i cant bare to stya here anymore

2007-12-20 20:09:31 · 13 answers · asked by Emily 2 in Family

why do guys ask me if i have a bf?

ive had like different guys ask me if im seeing anyone, but then have no intentions of going after me.... so whats the point in asking?
what are you silly boys thinking?

2007-12-20 19:55:32 · 7 answers · asked by daria 4 in Singles & Dating

i was a daddys girl and i never realized how much my daddy loved me till he was gone now my mom just talks to me when she needs me to babysit my sisters grandchildren i do not work i have never told my mom no in 43 years of my life i believe in respect for her i love her very much she will not even speak to my grown children

2007-12-20 19:53:11 · 7 answers · asked by ggmlls 1 in Family

It just seems as if lately, my boyfriend and I have been arguing about nothing. He seems to go out more and more every week. When I first met him, he only goes out once a week with his guy friend. That turns into 2 or 3 nights now. Sunday is usually our day and now he wants to spend that with his friends too. We argue about where to go or what to eat.

He's into the clubbing and bar scene and I'm into the dinner and movie thing. He finds my hobbies boring and I cannot relate to his.

My question is: Can this work out in the long run or am I setting myself up for more arguing?

2007-12-20 19:48:07 · 10 answers · asked by JuDyLicious 3 in Singles & Dating

yep umm what else do we do, what do we do on the Holidays.
We umm, we do what we always do, we rent a umm a private jet..
ya
and then we go up and we
and then we call up all our single friends say ahh, how does it feel to be alone at Christmas?
Right yeah, then we dump jet fuel into the ocean.
yep we fly and dump jet fuel into the ocean.
Yep but only where theres endangered species and stuff.

2007-12-20 19:42:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was out of town for couple of weeks but she still came to my place and stayed in night with my room-mate. She said they played cards and slept in different rooms. Should i beleive that? Or should i dump her right away?

2007-12-20 19:41:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend came drunk and connfessed his love for me than a few ours later he calls me and tells me more about htis, is he abeing good or bad?

2007-12-20 19:37:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-20 19:25:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I understand that Mormon marriages are sealed in the temple (married) for time and eternity. A marriage that is sealed will still exist in heaven after the husband and wife die. If your spouse dies before you, are you allowed to be married in the temple again? Do you have to go through some sort of unsealing procedure? In other words, are you allowed to have more than one wife in heaven? If remarriage is allowed for men, I assume it would not be for women.

If there is a ban on heavenly polygamy, I assume there would be a grandfather clause (the polygamists of the early church would still be allowed to be polygamists in heaven).
Thanks.

2007-12-20 19:09:25 · 7 answers · asked by d 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with this girl for 3 months now I really really like and she brought it up that she would like to try being in an open relationship with me.So do anybody think that it is a good idea to say yes or no?

2007-12-20 19:08:07 · 8 answers · asked by Jo-Jo 2 in Singles & Dating

My wife and I are going through a divorce. We have a 3 year old son. Her and my mother-in-law are both wanting me to live near by. Is that because they don't want to be inconvenced with having to travel or is it my wife wants to keep tabs on me. Remember that where we live traffic is really bad.

2007-12-20 19:07:55 · 8 answers · asked by sec8_cm 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My aunt and cousin are close, not just mom and lil girl close, but like best friends. They do to parties together, drink together, when my aunt and uncle fight, he is also fighting with his daughter, and when she fights with whoever she is with, her mom gets involved. My aunt attends raves with her and her friends, sleeps in her room with her, and lets her older male friends stay the night, even once telling one to sleep in her 16 year old daughters room, who woke up to a grown man on the floor next to her bed. My aunt flirts with her daughters friends, gives her the credit card, and then lies when her husband asks where the money went. She even lets her daughter have sex with guys in her and her husbands bed while he is at work, walking in and out while they are going at it. They seem proud f this behavior, and tell the whole family how close they are, and say me and my mother should bond more. My family acts like this is normal. Am I crazy, or is this just weird? The mom is in her ..

2007-12-20 19:04:31 · 9 answers · asked by Sammie Jo 3 in Family

2007-12-20 19:02:32 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met this guy online..and we've known each other for like more than a year now. It's almost as if we're crazy about each other, we fight a lot but we always get back together and it's kinda like no matter how hard we try to get away from each other, we can't. I always try to end it but I always end up missing him, almost as if i can't live without him. I don't even know if i want to get away.

But the thing is I haven't said any of this to my besfriend. I feel hella bad about it, cuz she tells me all there is to know about her love life...and I can tell her everything about mine too ( like crushes, this n that) except for HIM. Like I feel so stupid about it in the first place that we met online. He lives far away so it's not like we can jus meet up either. So i duno wat to do, I almost feel like im loosing a connection from my best friend cuz Im keeping this from her but at the same time, I think it's so stupid..i don't see the point of telling her. What do you guys think i should?

2007-12-20 19:02:09 · 14 answers · asked by Ash C 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-20 19:01:25 · 8 answers · asked by zentweety 2 in Marriage & Divorce

When I look back:
I look at my Father who worked hard everyday of his life to support his family.
I look at my Mother who stretched a buck until it broke.
Back when I was a kid we could not afford such a thing as a TV dinner,at that time 19 cents each,but to feed a family that was $1.00 that could be spent on 3 square meals for a family of four.
Now in the days where there is a TV in every room and at least one PC in the house, apparently this is the standard of living anymore.
Do we have a loving family, a job to support this family and a country that will support this freedom.
If yes then we don't have it so bad.
MERRY CHRISTMAS & GOD BLESS THE USA

2007-12-20 19:01:04 · 6 answers · asked by george b 2 in Family

My aunt is always borrowing my books. You should know I collect them, often rare and expensive ones, I like series and keep everything in good condition, basically I love my books. I am not close to this aunt, but she is always calling asking for this book or that, and when I try to get around letting her borrow them, she tells my grandma, who give me a guilt trip. I know it could be worse, but I hate feeling selfish. She doesn't return then in a decent amount of time, sometimes months later, and when they come back they have stains, are bent and creased, etc. Yes, they still "work", but they aren't in the same shape I gave them to her in. Now she wants a 5 book series of mine that cost close to $200, one is signed by the writer! How do I refuse with out causing family drama?

2007-12-20 18:59:54 · 10 answers · asked by Sammie Jo 3 in Family

it's been about a year and half since the whole thing happened.But I was dating my boyfriend for close to a year, we were very serious and we even lived together.We were having problems,so I broke it off with him,but we still loved each other and seen each other if ever possible. I decided I one day I wanted to end it completely.Not even 2 weeks later I heard rumors 1 of my very close friends was seeing him.I called her and asked her,& she lied straight to my face.She deleted me from her myspace friends the next day so she could post pictures of them.I was furious,because she was staying with him and sleeping with him..but the whole time for him he was getting drunk & having parties and she basically just through herself at him.Long story short..it lasted maybe 3 weeks.Then him and i got back together & now things couldn't be better.She and i have the same friends,so i see her alot,but i just can't get past what she did to me.I don't like to have such hate in my heart,what should i do?

2007-12-20 18:59:48 · 24 answers · asked by noturaveragegirl 1 in Singles & Dating

She always yells at them threatening that she's gonna slap them in their face.

She grabs them and carries them by one arm, she doesn't do much to help them learn, she didn't even toilet train them yet. She doesn't make them wear any top most of the time, even though my parents keep telling her she should.

Once a women saw her slap her daughter in the face for wondering off. The women told her it wasn't her daughters fault, but she yelled back about how it's her child and she can raise them how she wants to.

Her and her husband are lazy, he doesn't care if his children are being hurt. He blames the writers going on strike for not having any work, so he can't provide for his family. Get a job, there are even unemployed lawyers working at burger king. So they make an excuse, the kids are my parents weak spot. My sister comes here and steals our food and goes, when I said something about it. She got all pissed off like it was my fault.

Oh and once my other sister saw her ...

2007-12-20 18:55:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

other than the risk of getting an std and creating a baby with another person (those are obvious reasons). but other than that why do people get mad about it?

also why arent people supposed to have sex with people other than who they are married to?

or are std's and having children with other people the only two reasons? thanks in advance.

2007-12-20 18:52:04 · 29 answers · asked by this is my avatar 4 in Marriage & Divorce