Family & Relationships - 20 December 2007

After my boyfriend's class was over he was at my locker and he was waiting for me(I was coming down the hall but he didn't see me) and when this girl comes over to him and asks him if he is single. He says no and she says that he should be so he could be with her. He said whatever and then he saw me and totally ignored me why would he do this? any advice?

2007-12-20 11:41:42 · 10 answers · asked by ♥Šümmęrłãńd♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

I mean they are like "oh whats your name" and after 5 minutes they say "do you wanna kiss me" and stuff like that. lol
so why is that?

2007-12-20 11:40:45 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was usign facebook the otehr day when I noticed a girl I like has honesty box. I wrote in it and said taht she was cute. A day later she replied and aksed who I was. I told her who I was and asdked her how a party she had gone to went. It's been a week and no reply, I waited three days and then asked her what she thought of this ornamnet I made her (basically to celibrate xmas our school allows student to write w/e they want on a piece of paper and put it on a paper christmas tree, most people wrote about their bfs or gfs so I anonymously wrote that she was cute and put a heart underneath.) I've checked her facebook wall and know shes been on today, so I'm wondering why she hasn't replied to my messages?

2007-12-20 11:40:29 · 32 answers · asked by Rick F 3 in Singles & Dating

GUYS ONLY what would you do?
guys only if you were delivering pizza and you rang the bell and a NAKED woman opened the door what would you do

2007-12-20 11:40:21 · 29 answers · asked by Jessica M 1 in Singles & Dating

i just saw one of my ex's that i have not seen in alonnnnnnnng time bc he moved away and i really liked him but he cheated on me and i still like him ik that sounds bad but its true but i have a bf and now i have all these mixed feelings wat do i do?

2007-12-20 11:40:17 · 5 answers · asked by souljagurl 2 in Singles & Dating

im 13 and i do want a bf but i dont think im ready but here is the story...

i know this sounds weird for my age but i asked boy out online well he asked me after i told him i liked him but anyway i new what he looked like he had a myspace and we IMed each oth every day and called each other.i thought i really liked and i thought i wanted him to be my bf cuz i thought of him alot and i just wanted a bf. i told him i kinda liked him and then he asked me out he wanted me to put on my myspace "im in a realationship" so i did. then he took it toooooo serious he said he loved me the first time he asked me out i did not think that waz right.
the next day i broke up with him and i dont talk to him no more am i ready for a bf?
and do u think that waz right when he said i love you the minute he asked me out?

2007-12-20 11:39:04 · 31 answers · asked by prettylilpunk 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-20 11:38:35 · 20 answers · asked by . 6 in Friends

This Boy And I Were talking For Awhile And He Was Really Into me calling me twice a day and we were going to day out but he was grounded (hes 17) at the time. we talked about what we were going to do what movies we were going to go see and everything. then we got into an arguement that was actually a complete misunderstanding. He didnt want to hang out one night he wanted to go home and go to bed and i said go ahead no ones keeping you he seemed like he was in such a rush so i took it as I DONT WANT TO BE HERE!!!! then he started acting weird, then we finally talked about it and he told me what was wrong with him i apologized a million times i even wrote him a letter. he quit speaking to me. a month later we started talking again and few weeks into it i asked him where is this going and he said i dont want a girlfriend he basically just wanted someone to mess around with. Did that arguement change his mind about me???

2007-12-20 11:37:49 · 19 answers · asked by iloveit 1 in Singles & Dating

I am having issues with my ex-boyfriend. We broke up about 3 years ago,but he's still around because we have children together. We had a long term relationship lasting about 9 yrs.When we broke up he immediately started dating an much older women,who is unnatractive and old enough to be our mother! We were still messing around (off and on)while they were still together but I did'nt know he was still seeing her.He was at my house all the time and never mentioned her !Anyway,he say's go on with my life he does'nt love me.but he get's very jealous about other guys.He goes through my phone,(behind my back)ask me questions like,where are you going? who are you talking to?,etc.He has admitted to still having feelings for me before,but then he will act like it never happened.I know he is still physically attracted to me because gets upset if another guy looks at me.Do you think that he still has feelings for me ?

2007-12-20 11:37:29 · 2 answers · asked by mia s 1 in Singles & Dating

she got married .i was paying her 550 a month as alimony .actually it was like marrital debt but stated as alimony in divorce paper.she is lying about her wages too..she isnot working and have excuse to look after frandfather.but i pay for day care in child support..i have been so much suffered by her..i was back in child support but i already paid .and paid even her lawyer.now i think time to change giving her money..i hardly could have good food.if i can change it then where should i file it in tennesse or georgia. since she moved to GA.my child support system is changed to GA.but what about alimony.if i need to stop paying her where should i file it..i dont even have money to pay for lawyer.is it possible to do it by myself if so please tell me how.
thanks

2007-12-20 11:37:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-20 11:35:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-20 11:35:48 · 12 answers · asked by luvcaramel 4 in Singles & Dating

I have known my first love since 1985, i had just graduated from 8 grade, We didn't start dating until 1987, I went on his junior and senior prom, We were madly in loe then and we still love each other today. Although, He is married, we still have a close bond, I still get butterflies when I see him. Why is this after all these years?

2007-12-20 11:33:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am not a sex addict..so take note of that.
My problem is frustrating. I got married to the girl I love about 9 months ago. We have been apart ever since our honeymoon 9 months ago. This is because of certain financial issues and family obligations that have to be prioritized first. Once those things & responsibilities are finished, then she can leave her country and we can finally start our lives together. I'm basically working for my whole family and even some relatives. I have alot on my shoulders. I have a 2nd job just to be able to support my own very little necessities. I miss her. And that certain part of a marriage is missing, I can't touch her, hold her, or even sometimes look at her. Only through messenger can I see her and talk with her. Its killing me, I havent been satisfying my desires for a very long time....and I know some of you will say that I can satisfy myself....trust me I have....but its coming to a point where I almost hate it.

2007-12-20 11:31:09 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

In the old testament is speaks of wives. a man who takes on wives. So should it be allowed to have a marriage with many wives since in the bible it says wives? And since the 1st and 14 amendment is a protection for us to have these rights?

2007-12-20 11:31:04 · 12 answers · asked by sassylassy2876 4 in Marriage & Divorce

ok here's how........ u go to one of your friends house.. your friend calls the person who u want to know what they think of u.. and she says something like... isn't (your name) anoying? And then if they say anything like yeah I agree or something like yeah so anoying she sucks! Then u know what they think of u! I tried it and found out my best friend was my worst friend!!!!!!

2007-12-20 11:30:50 · 2 answers · asked by MaddieCole 2 in Friends

2007-12-20 11:29:57 · 11 answers · asked by Michael D 1 in Singles & Dating

Im dating a girl who is very pretty, and I wanna tell she is the prettiest girl I ever met, good or bad idea?

2007-12-20 11:29:15 · 15 answers · asked by birdy8899 1 in Singles & Dating

We have 1 child in the picture.

2007-12-20 11:27:36 · 31 answers · asked by love my baby 2 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my girlfriend have been together for 2.5 years. unfortunately, i will be going to washington for college and she will stay here in california for college next year. she says that she wants to make this work and i really want to make this work too. we both love each other very much. well, my question is, i dunno, what should i do to make it work?will it work?

2007-12-20 11:27:36 · 21 answers · asked by Json 2 in Singles & Dating

I mean holiday break. My last day is tomrrow and so is a lot of others. I just can't wait for the break of homework to start. Only if teachers give breaks. Middle/High School sucks!

2007-12-20 11:25:14 · 23 answers · asked by air 3 in Friends

A girl I really like have been talking over the phone and internet for a while, and I am very confused about her status when it comes to a bf. I don't want to ask directly, so would this be an appropriate thing to say?:

"Not to change the topic again, but I noticed on your online profile that you are listed as "In a Relationship". If you don't mind me asking, who is the lucky guy?"

Is the term "lucky guy" too cheezy or is that OK to use?

P.S. She's 16

2007-12-20 11:25:09 · 24 answers · asked by HT-5 2 in Singles & Dating

My wife is in consoling for sleeping pill addiction. She is seeing a great consular but they seam to be pining a lot of the problems on me. She has been clean for about two month but I did find pills on her floor a moth a go but she told me she was just throwing them out. She has had her addiction for about 12 years we are married just over a year now. As she work threw her problems with her consular she is finding that I am to controlling and need to let her live her own life more. She had defaulted on all her student loans auto loans and hospital bill went to collection. She also blew are saving during our first year of marriage. I watch her money all the time to make shore she is not blowing it and is paying her bills last month she just did not pay any and when I found out I got on her. Now hear is my question what is the process for a recovering addicts. I feel like I am the bad guy for making her accountable! Every time she build a relationship with a Medical professional it always turns to me being controlling and just need to back of this pore little girl. She has lied to me so many times I can’t even guess what she is telling them for stories. Is this an endless battle? Just a note I live my life as simply as possible I am by no means controlling

2007-12-20 11:24:48 · 5 answers · asked by irishfirefighter762 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If my husband and I have joint custody of our minor child will he still have to pay child support?

2007-12-20 11:23:44 · 8 answers · asked by rusefox 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i need a pro-bono lawyer quickely who would be willing to assist me in doing my own uncontested divorce. i have my own paperwork and can do my own foot work. i can't even afford the filing fee. help

2007-12-20 11:23:32 · 5 answers · asked by white_winged_dove21 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well theres this guy I really really like, and we flirt all the time, and he told me he wants to go out sometime, but everytime we try to get toghether something comes up. He also sometimes tells me about other girls he could have "hooked up" with and regrets that he didn't or whatever, but I really, really ,reallllllly like him!!! what do i do?

2007-12-20 11:21:32 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-20 11:21:24 · 5 answers · asked by simplyairforce 3 in Singles & Dating

If you're with a guy who is a great father, treats you will, and works hard to provide for you and your children, would you leave him if he cheated on you?

(I'm asking this for a friend)

2007-12-20 11:21:02 · 29 answers · asked by ~♥Angel Of Music♥~ 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a friend who I like, and he acts as if he likes me. Other people have commented on it too. He's a bit of a shy boy, so it would take a lot for him to say something. A few weeks ago he seemed to be avoiding me, so I emailed him about it. It took him ages to reply but eventually he said that he values my friendship but 'didn't want to give me any other impression'. I told him he shouldn't worry about it, and since then he's gone back to normal, acting like he likes me. What are the chances that he actually does like me? I think one of his friends likes me, so maybe he's not saying anything because of him. How crazy am I being?

2007-12-20 11:20:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A guy and a girl become friends first. After two months of friendship, the guy lies to the girl and says he is single when he's actually married for a year. Sleeping with the girl for months, then she figures out that he's married.

He says his marriage was a mistake and he's in love with her. (he was 27 when he got married, I think an early age). The girl stops seeing him, in the meantime he's getting divorce and still wants the girl.

Girls, would you try your chance with this guy (let's say you really love him)?

Guys, what do you think about this situation as a man?

2007-12-20 11:18:59 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating