I was usign facebook the otehr day when I noticed a girl I like has honesty box. I wrote in it and said taht she was cute. A day later she replied and aksed who I was. I told her who I was and asdked her how a party she had gone to went. It's been a week and no reply, I waited three days and then asked her what she thought of this ornamnet I made her (basically to celibrate xmas our school allows student to write w/e they want on a piece of paper and put it on a paper christmas tree, most people wrote about their bfs or gfs so I anonymously wrote that she was cute and put a heart underneath.) I've checked her facebook wall and know shes been on today, so I'm wondering why she hasn't replied to my messages?
2007-12-20 11:40:29 · 32 answers · asked by Rick F 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok well thank everyoen who answered I guess I now look like a f***king loser to you all but hey I must be already so who cares right. I'll give someone the best answer but when it comes doqn to it you all deserve the best answer. Its nice knowing the girl I like thinks I'm a creep.
2007-12-20 13:46:21 · update #1
Based on how she is acting, i would say stop trying so hard to talk to her. Obviously she is not really interested in talking maybe not even for a good reason. Some girls are just like that. Sometimes it could feel really suffocating if you keep doing these things for her. (which is really nice) but if she isnt interested she wont see that. Stop worrying about it and start focusing on someone else. its not worth it. So, forget her or at least stop trying so hard to talk to her because if she isnt interested, why care? You might never know why, but it shouldnt matter there are better girls out there than this one.
2007-12-20 11:49:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who starts these conversations? You or her? I'd say she sounds disinterested, or maybe she's just a boring person with nothing to add to a conversation. Ask questions, but open ones that can't be answered with just a simple yes/no. But if you run out things to talk about, try saying something simple and see if she contributes. If she doesn't try to maintain conversation, then not intrested.
2016-04-10 10:25:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to sound mean but uhh its kinda creepy for a girl that a guy writes something nice then it gets ruind cuz the heart maybe your trying to hard that scars girls so just calm down and talk dont like obses write her forget about her and maybe she will reply or she wont then oh well there are many more cute girls ok
2007-12-20 11:45:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It can be one of two things:
1) Sorry, but she may not like you...
OR
2) Shes playing hard to get and is testing you to see how far you will go for her.
Either way I would say you should look for a girl that doesn't play games and is honest and likes you for you.
Good Luck
2007-12-20 11:45:43 · answer #4 · answered by Emily 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well i got 2 sides to answers this
the bright side: mabey she's been really bust and dont got time to answer it... or mabey she likes u and cant figure out wus to say cuz she's nervous
the down side: u probley freakin her out.... cuz it seems like ur commin on a little fast if i wus her id just wanna slow things down and take a break
its probley the first 1 tho ....lol
well either way good luck!
<3
2007-12-20 11:51:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way to find out if she likes you is wait... dont keep on at her coz she will think ur a creep... jus give er a chance... she mite have only been on for a few mins today and might not have had time to write back ... if she dont get in contact again to you 1st i would just move on hunni!
xxxxxxx
2007-12-20 11:46:10 · answer #6 · answered by irishchick! 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hey, well it could be two things completely different. she might not like you and not want to reply, or she might not know what to say, and be nervous or whatever.
she also might have not seen it, or a friend went on hers.
keep trying, but subtely.
good luck!!
and dont listen to Mike B, what an A s s h o l e . he probably spends all his time on YahooAnswers trying to have a life.
2007-12-20 11:44:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
She probably doesn't like you and feels awkward around you now. Also, you told her about the anomymous ornament you put on the tree...YOU told her...It was anonymous...I don't think she likes you...
2007-12-20 11:49:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I'd give it a little more time, I think it's really sweet but some girls might not know how to respond to something like that, so just give it time and see what happens
2007-12-20 11:43:40 · answer #9 · answered by momma`````` 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
some girls don't really like it when some guy comes up and says their cute, so it shudn't really be a surprise and don't feel bad. she mite think ur a stalker. mayb that's why. try assuring her that ur a really great person.
2007-12-20 11:43:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋