This Boy And I Were talking For Awhile And He Was Really Into me calling me twice a day and we were going to day out but he was grounded (hes 17) at the time. we talked about what we were going to do what movies we were going to go see and everything. then we got into an arguement that was actually a complete misunderstanding. He didnt want to hang out one night he wanted to go home and go to bed and i said go ahead no ones keeping you he seemed like he was in such a rush so i took it as I DONT WANT TO BE HERE!!!! then he started acting weird, then we finally talked about it and he told me what was wrong with him i apologized a million times i even wrote him a letter. he quit speaking to me. a month later we started talking again and few weeks into it i asked him where is this going and he said i dont want a girlfriend he basically just wanted someone to mess around with. Did that arguement change his mind about me???
2007-12-20 11:37:49 · 19 answers · asked by iloveit 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and to think, he said he actually cares about me!!! what a joke!!
he was a jerk to me and i didnt know why. he would come into my job with friends and ignore me, he said to everyone else but me!!! it was more like a I KNOW THIS IS MAKING YOU MAD!! kindof thing. then i was like screw you ill leave you alone i know thats what you want and hes like WTF are you talking about?? i dont understand
IF HE DIDNT WANT ME HE COULD HAVE SAID SO!!!!
2007-12-20 11:38:36 · update #1
He's a jerk and you sound to young to be giving it up to some scumbag like him. Why get into a relationship like that if you know it's not going to go anywhere (as in marriage, or something good to effect your like)? He'll either give you an STD or get you pregnant and walk away leaving you to deal with it all. You deserve far better.
2007-12-20 11:43:54 · answer #1 · answered by C1-J2 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The argument didn't change his mind i don't think... something else probably went wrong. Hes dumb Girl good job for not having sex with him if you did then he probably wouldn't talk to you ever again. I think that it's all he was about was sex. And nothing more and now that he is talking to you again... And He may do the same thing again.
So Just don't talk to him anymore if he calls just tell him that your busy helping your mom or dad and that you'll call him back.. And then don't call him back. If he calls again don't answer :]]
Good Luck.
2007-12-20 19:45:11 · answer #2 · answered by `_LAYLUUH 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didnt do anything wrong. Even if you did, you apologized so you're in the clear. Sometimes people start arguments just to make it look like you're at fault when they are the one with some explaining to do. I'm so sorry that he hurt you but you can't take it personally. You're lucky that he doesn't talk to you so you don't have to get poop on your shoes while kicking his ***. Chin up!
2007-12-20 19:46:53 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is already showing that he doesn't have any respect for you. Having sex with him would have only added to that. It's a good thing you didn't! He would've dumped you faster than a hot potato after he got what he wanted. It's much harder on the female after a break up when you've had sex with that person....esp. if it's the person you lost your virginity to.
2007-12-20 19:43:08 · answer #4 · answered by First Lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't want you, he sounds like an immature dick anyway! big loss. and wait to have sex. You are too young. You'll regret it later and the guys you'll probably be doing it with won't know what the hell they are doing anyway. At least wait until you are in college and in a serious relationship. Not some cheesy hook up.
2007-12-20 19:44:47 · answer #5 · answered by Blowba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your virginity, not his, so it's your decision to whom you have sex with or when, not the other way around.... You need to find a boyfriend or guy who wants to love you for your mind, not for your body.... Do you really want to remember your first time with some guy who wants you as a booty call or do you want to remember it with someone who loved and cares about you? Move on from this jerk and seek true love with someone else.....
2007-12-20 19:44:13 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PLAYER ALERT!! He's playing games and messing with your head. If you'd had sex with him, you'd be a name on a list and still looking for someone special. He's an immature jerk trying to be a big player at a public trough so he can brag. You're lucky you noticed the weirdness. Back away and stay away. You did right, sweetie. Good luck at staying alert!
2007-12-20 19:44:39 · answer #7 · answered by rb29440 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You wrote way to much. All you young girls do this. If you want people to answer get to the point.
As far as your title question goes.
If you would have had sex with him, you wouldn't be a virgin and then you probably wont get married with the guy, then when you have sex with the guy you marry, you will have flash backs and compare him with others.
Dont do it!
2007-12-20 19:42:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well it sounds like he's definitely not worth losing your virginity to. if he's just looking to mess around, its so not worth losing something so important. all that will end up being is a big mess and you will get hurt.
you should establish a strong relationship before you jump to doing something like having sex.
good luck!
2007-12-20 19:42:54 · answer #9 · answered by jerseybabe 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he just wanted attention from you but he was going about it the wrong way. its called the "dick" way of getting attention, by ignoring you then making you feel sorry about him later, all guys pull this at some point.
2007-12-20 19:42:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋