Family & Relationships - 20 December 2007

ok so like i said. i'm just not intested in sex and this is starting to affect my marriage to say the least. any ideas/suggestions a bout how to get things hot and heavy again???? be as detailed as possible but please serious answers only.
thanks.

2007-12-20 13:01:41 · 40 answers · asked by crystala_14 2 in Marriage & Divorce

How many of you are in an Interracial Marriage, and what are some of the problems you face.

I'm in and interracial marriage myself and my husband and I haven't really come across anything really negative yet, when been married for a year and a half now, but we been together for four and a half. When we lived in his home town, a very small town, we would get looks but no one would come up to us and be rude, just the looks.

2007-12-20 13:01:05 · 15 answers · asked by sammy1on1 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-20 12:58:55 · 6 answers · asked by Rob 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

WHAT DO I DO?????????????(I specifically want Nick J,on yahoo answers, to help!) Crazy ah?

2007-12-20 12:56:43 · 18 answers · asked by cookiemonster1881 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiancee will sometimes drink a beer on his way home from work (about two times a week). He also drinks a few at night. He is not a heavy drinker really, but I am starting to worry. I have had a boyfriend in the past to die after drinking a few beers and driving home after watching Monday Night Football, so this worries me and makes me think of what could happen again. Any advice? He doesn't see anything wrong with this.

2007-12-20 12:55:55 · 5 answers · asked by Serenity 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

if a married man in the military going through a divorce legally seperated hooks up with a female who is in the same situation would that be considered adultery punishable by the ucmj. either way the answer and reference it would be great

2007-12-20 12:55:38 · 9 answers · asked by uniquename10 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This guy wud b like "Cassie I'm stealing ur seat" & sit in front of me, or when my science teacher gave us candy canes & said "dont get the wrappers all over, throw them away" so he threw it to me and laughed. Does these little things mean he likes me. Oya, we glance at each other alot.

2007-12-20 12:55:36 · 7 answers · asked by Haley 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-20 12:53:04 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok i like this guy he is being fallowed by an insane person , my friends said i should go out with him ,we are friends, i told him i liked him and he dosent care , we have not talked latley ,and i think my friends have been bothering him to . is it all worth it ,how do i get past the problems??

2007-12-20 12:51:55 · 23 answers · asked by arta95 1 in Singles & Dating

i have recently recovered from surgery on my heart, my wife never cared to visit me in the hospital or call, im not even sure what she was doing home (we dont have kids) well a friend of mine did visit me (female) and she would visit me almost everyday and spend about 2 hours with me, she would bring me many things, flowers, a laptop and ipod (so i wasn't bored) and we would talk often. the closest thing that came to a kiss was a kiss on a cheek, after i recovered i decided to file for divorce but my wife is saying i had an affair did i?

2007-12-20 12:51:08 · 18 answers · asked by Hi T 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok im 16 and i wanna find my sould mate
where is a good and safe site where i can find a guy*soulmate*

2007-12-20 12:50:39 · 18 answers · asked by RandiRockStar 1 in Singles & Dating

i have been married for 5 yrs and i'll start trusting my husband and then something happens and the trust issue pops back up, just recently i bought him a gold necklace and today we were out and he told me he had to get his necklace out of pawn and i flipped out and asked him what do you mean, he told me he gave it to his brother to pawn for drugs and his brother was supose to give the money back to him to get it out, the problem lies in the fact that my husband use to be a drug abuser and a alcholic. and why it hurts so damned much is i have been through this before with him and it really ****** hurts because it meant nothing to him and i mean nothing to him, his words to me were "i'm sure you had worse things done to you", what does that mean its ok for him to hurt me anytime, where does the love and the vows and the promises come into play or do they at all on his part. am i wrong for feeling this way, someone please tell me,tell me what you think, please give me some input.

2007-12-20 12:49:46 · 3 answers · asked by kathy m 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If you have a college degree would you date someone with just a high school diploma or nothing at all? If so why? if not why?
Or what about if they have some college but that was all?

And for people with just a high school diploma, would you feel bad dating someone with a college degree?

2007-12-20 12:47:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-20 12:47:29 · 9 answers · asked by goodgirlabout2gobad 6 in Singles & Dating

i like her everytime i turn around she is flirting hugging this guy but shes always looking at me. she always makes eye contact she blatently ignores me. instead of saying high she says my full name she always makes eye contact when i look at her

2007-12-20 12:46:16 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been off and on for the past few months. We have been together in total for about a year 1/2. We have been talking about getting back together for good, but I still have issues with trusting him. About a month ago I posted a personal ad. When we started talking about getting back together, I told him about the ad. He doesn't seem bothered by it, and is not asking me to delete it.. It seems strange to me that if he wants me back and wants the relationship to work that he doesn't care about the personal ad. I told him I would take it off the dating website if it bothers him, but he said it doesn't.. now I'm wondering if he really cares about being exclusive again even though he said he does.. shouldn't it bother him that I have it out there??

2007-12-20 12:40:05 · 5 answers · asked by Dee 2 in Singles & Dating

Last homcoming my best friend left her necklace from her grandmother at my house. Its been a year now, and i just found it all tangled up with one of my earing in the bathroom. Me and my sister untangled it and i remembered that it was a gift from her VERY RICH grandmother. Now me and my best friend are not friends anymore...at all. She was not a good friend, and she ended our friendship on a bad note. I got the necklace aprasied, and its worth $300. My family could really use that money right now, especialy at christmas time. If i sold it, i would give all of the money to my parents as a x-mas gift. But what would be the right thing to do?Should i give it back to her?

2007-12-20 12:40:04 · 7 answers · asked by Willow 2 in Friends

i cant find pictures of courtney bohn a 12 year old girl that died in texas and i was wantin 2 know if someone will find me some pictures of her somehow and send them 2 me plz

2007-12-20 12:38:55 · 2 answers · asked by ash2008! 1 in Friends

It all started near Halloween in October,we were maybe gonna go trick or treating,but then when I called her and asked if she was excited about Halloween and she said not really because she waz going to a festival at church because her mom won't let her go trick or treating,but she didn't even mention us trick or treating,like she had forgotten.Later she said her and her cousin went to a haunted castle for her birthday.And for awhile I was trying to plan a sleepover or get together and it'd never work out because she'd be busy.Finally she said mark your calender for next weekend and we'll plan a sleepover,I told her to keep saturday open she said she would and that she wouldn't have any plans and then I asked her what she was doing on the phone and she said packing and I said packing for what and she said that she was going to her grandma's house and I said so I guess we can't have a sleepover and she said she was sorry and that she forgot.

2007-12-20 12:37:27 · 4 answers · asked by Maggie 2 in Friends

The restaurant is for a steak restaurant, but my husband works for a very popular steak restaurant, and has no desire to go there, and I don't eat steak. We just bought a house, and a Home Depot card would have been a much better choice, but I'm pretty sure that my MIL's new husband, received the card as his xmas bonus and they regifted. I want to return it, with a nice note, explaining that it is just not a good fit for us, but thank you. Our other option is to try to sell it for less than it is worth. The kicker is she asked us what we wanted for x-mas and then we receive this! My husband keeps saying he's sorry, and I keep telling him it's not his fault, no need to apologize. Any ideas on what to do with this gift card?
TIA

2007-12-20 12:34:50 · 23 answers · asked by Ellcee 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok, my friend got into a fight that he didnt even really start and now he's in big trouble with his parents and our schools principals. how do I help him get out of this without him getting in more trouble.

2007-12-20 12:33:19 · 16 answers · asked by wallskeenan 1 in Friends

I just can't help but get so mad at my friend.
I've suffered from an eating disorder that always comes back...
Only my mother and my best friend knew.
One of my friends at school the other day was saying how fat she was and how she wasn't ever going to eat again, then she went and ate lunch...
I wanted to slap her, am I being to harsh?

2007-12-20 12:32:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i know this may seem like a dumb question but i was just wondering about it. the topic came up in school today for some random reason. Is it illegal to date someone who is 20 (im 16) and not have sex? he wears a purity ring so theres no way we're going to. its not like i have a problem with it. my parents are fine with it because they really like him. I was just wondering if it was illegal. thanks.

2007-12-20 12:31:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you believe they really work or are they just a set up for heart break?

2007-12-20 12:30:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have a friend who needs some talking to. So me, my boyfriend, and her boyfriend are thinking of places to get together so we can talk to her about everything. What r some good locations to talk that r somewhat private? We r 12 and 13 years old and it can't be too obvious to our parents.

2007-12-20 12:26:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I want to meet someone, but I generally just don't like to talk too much. I don't like small talk, or finding things to talk about. I'm okay with not talking and can be comfortable with someone and not have to talk.... but meeting people is obviously a problem if I don't really like to talk too much.
People think I'm bored, or disinterested, or just looking to get out of the conversation. Any suggestions? Do you think it's possible to meet someone and connect with them without talking too much about little unimportant stuff?

2007-12-20 12:26:15 · 1 answers · asked by Doubledown 2 in Singles & Dating

i had a friend in class who first talked to me by asking me for a date on the next assignment and i gave it to her. afterwards we would say hi to eachother and have mini talks after class. i started to realize she might like me so i started distancing myself from her. a couple of days later she asked me if i had a g/f and i said yes. she then also became more distant but we still talked. my girlfriend foung out about her when she saw some messages from her asking me for the notes she missed. i told her i would give her the notes after class one day and my girlfriend got mad. i never thought about cheating on her nor will i ever. i think she feels this way because i cheated in my past relationship, but i realized i was wrong for it and will not do it again. am i wrong for talking to my classmate?

2007-12-20 12:25:55 · 37 answers · asked by scam3689 1 in Singles & Dating

I used to smoke & love my coffee ~ and my teeth show it :(

I would love to whiten them for my wedding, but don't have dental insurance. What is the best product I can use at home? I'm not getting married until April, so I've got some time.

If you *do* or *do not* like a particular product, can you please say why? Thanks :)

2007-12-20 12:25:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Well I met my boyfriend for an year in that 10 grade and we are totally the opposite!!!!!! Well I am taller than my boyfriend by some inches!!! Everytime we go some where together everybody look at us like we crazy, but some people that we are the ages of 10 or 12 when they see each, but we do love each other dearly!!!!!!

2007-12-20 12:25:26 · 6 answers · asked by Pretty Queen 1 in Singles & Dating

i went to school with a boy and we were good friends then he moved and five years later we see each other i can stop thinking about him and we talk sometimes is it ment to.

2007-12-20 12:24:52 · 22 answers · asked by cassy0215 1 in Singles & Dating