marriage and trust?

Question

i have been married for 5 yrs and i'll start trusting my husband and then something happens and the trust issue pops back up, just recently i bought him a gold necklace and today we were out and he told me he had to get his necklace out of pawn and i flipped out and asked him what do you mean, he told me he gave it to his brother to pawn for drugs and his brother was supose to give the money back to him to get it out, the problem lies in the fact that my husband use to be a drug abuser and a alcholic. and why it hurts so damned much is i have been through this before with him and it really ****** hurts because it meant nothing to him and i mean nothing to him, his words to me were "i'm sure you had worse things done to you", what does that mean its ok for him to hurt me anytime, where does the love and the vows and the promises come into play or do they at all on his part. am i wrong for feeling this way, someone please tell me,tell me what you think, please give me some input.

Answer 1

Along with trust comes responsibility as your
husband has to take on the responsibility of
being honest with you in what he does as that
is where trust falls in. You need to sit and talk him
and let him know exactly how you feel so there
will be no doubt where you stand about the
situation that occur ed. Let him know and remind
him of what trust between a wife and husband
is all about and vice-verse, and that because
everyone should be given one chance in their
life, give him this once chance to be straight with
you and if you see that he is still not honest with
you then it could be that he still has the drug and
alcoholic problem and if that be the case then he
needs professional help.

Answer 2

first of all, you married too youthful. She would properly be attending college all day because you do not have her schedule. If she's beautiful, men will hit on her each of the time besides. If she's is naive , she will be in a position to no longer understand the position you're coming from . do not hassle about it until eventually some signs and warning signs of dishonest seem. in the experience that they do, have evidence and under no circumstances hypothesis earlier you attitude her. Get a pastime and promises up wallowing in suspicion.

Answer 3

You can't trust him that was just wrong and crazy. How in the Hell is he going to pawn something you gave him to supposed his brother drug problem. Girlfriend don't you buy his azz nothing else and sooner or later he will get the picture.