My fiancee will sometimes drink a beer on his way home from work (about two times a week). He also drinks a few at night. He is not a heavy drinker really, but I am starting to worry. I have had a boyfriend in the past to die after drinking a few beers and driving home after watching Monday Night Football, so this worries me and makes me think of what could happen again. Any advice? He doesn't see anything wrong with this.
2007-12-20 12:55:55 · 5 answers · asked by Serenity 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he has the early signs of being an alcoholic
if he continues your life will be hell
you can Ask him to stop, but chances are he wont
do you want to spend your life with a drunk?
seriously
2007-12-20 13:15:23 · answer #1 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sit down him down and function a heart-felt, yet common verbal substitute with him. tell him which you problem and tell him the way it makes you sense. It purely ought to be the way your asserting it. He may well be rejecting your enter because of the fact your already his "spouse" and husbands are taught that they are greater advantageous to the spouse and what he says is going. whilst the spouse says something he does not like he will reject it with rebelion. Now drawing close this occasion in a fashion that he isn't feeling attacked or like your attempting to alter him or tell him what he can and may be able to no longer do, could be a greater efficient plan of assault. once you tell him how this makes you sense, purely hear to what he has to declare and communicate it out. yet do no longer fail to show the Boyfriend and everyone else which you will think of of as examples why it is not solid to drink and stress. additionally remind him that it is likewise unlawful to drink alcohol and stress. right this is yet another factor to throw into his thinking that would make an impact. What happens to the survivors of DUI injuries? they must stay with it, they don't get the priviledge of dieing and not having to stay with the discomfort and suffering. in the event that they are people who led to it they (That Died) do no longer ought to stay with themselves for the remainder of their lifestyles, understanding that they killed somebody with their stupidity. recommend that he come abode and get a cab to and from the bar, Or get a chosen motive force. If it is something that has purely began happening, it quite is quite useful to ask your self whether there is something incorrect with him. Is he frightened or disillusioned approximately something and attempting to drink it away.
2016-11-04 04:26:04 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about it unless he is a redneck piling up beer cans in the living room or he drinks while driving.
2007-12-20 13:02:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
he needs to see how you feel from your perspective- explain everything to him and why you are worried- ask him to wait until he gets home to drink.
2007-12-20 13:01:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Call the cops on him. Let them deliver the message.
Everybody sharing the road with him thanks you.
2007-12-20 13:06:06 · answer #5 · answered by Stan W 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋