I just can't help but get so mad at my friend.
I've suffered from an eating disorder that always comes back...
Only my mother and my best friend knew.
One of my friends at school the other day was saying how fat she was and how she wasn't ever going to eat again, then she went and ate lunch...
I wanted to slap her, am I being to harsh?
2007-12-20 12:32:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I would very much understand if she was feeling bad about herself that day, it was just the way she sounded, like it wasn't and important thing.
2007-12-20 12:44:18 · update #1
I think you are being a little oversensitive because of your own issue...
Have you ever seen a therapist... I think it might help you.
2007-12-20 12:37:59 · answer #1 · answered by sunshine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can understand why you would be mad, and you friend sounds like she was being unsensitive. However, you need to cut her some SLACK! She is only human, and most teenage girls are self consioud about their weight, and comment on it often. She probably didn't even realize what she was saying was hurting your feelings.
You are being pretty harsh, because she doesn't even KNOW that you had (have) a disorder. You should just let it go.
I hope everything goes well!
2007-12-20 12:41:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People say a lot of things they don't mean. When she said she was fat, she was wanting someone to say she wasn't. If you have a eating disorder, I don't know why you would worry about someone else eating. I would think you would be happy that someone wasn't having the same horrible problems like you.
2007-12-20 12:44:04 · answer #3 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd want to slap her too. I've been in that position and friends can be really harsh when they think they're being funny. Let her know that that wasn't cool and move on.
2007-12-20 12:39:26 · answer #4 · answered by Katie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I SERIOUSLY THINK UR BECOMING ONE OF THOSE ANOREXIC WANNA BE MODEL TYPE GIRLS. IT MAKES NO SENSE. AND IF THE GIRL DOESN'T WANT TO STARVE HERSELF LIKE U, THERE'S NO REASON TO SLAP HER.(YA KNOW THERE'S OTHER WAYS TO LOSE WEIGHT...LIKE WORKING OUT) IF U KEEP IT UP, U CAN KILL URSELF...DO U WANNA DIE?? DIDN'T THINK SO!
well, anyway...have a nice life! :D
2007-12-20 12:59:39 · answer #5 · answered by Hooting and Howling. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you only feel that way because of your issue. dont take everything to heart.
2007-12-20 12:40:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋