Family & Relationships - 20 December 2007

My grandfather sent me to the hospital. not by what he did physically but bye the words he told me over and over. my grama is dieing snf she thinks that the whle thin was and is my fault. should i tell her it was my fault so she can die in peace? cuz she wont even talk to me or my dad which is her son. and i feel awful about it..what should i do?

2007-12-20 14:39:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

okay, please read. i need to know what to do.
i know this guy and im in love with him. every summer, we meet up and kind of have this love fling.
im broken hearted because he doesnt love me back.
he's in love with this other girl that is 10x prettier than me.
he lost his virginity to her and everything.

and whenever i see him.,. i get butterflies.
what should i do ?

should i pursue him ?
im crying, im in love, i need him.
he is what makes me smile... he is what makes me want to live.

hes everything ive ever needed in my life.

ADVICE, PLEASE ?

2007-12-20 14:34:13 · 25 answers · asked by riah. <3 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm 18 this year, and i know that i'm still young but to me right now i just need someone to care for me and be there for me besides my parents and God. I have problems talking to boys i just don't know why. Whenever i approach them i feel shy and sometimes even scared to be near them. So i need some advice about how to overcome this feelings.

2007-12-20 14:32:13 · 8 answers · asked by purpleLv 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm so happy..
He just dropped the "BIG" question 20mins ago.
But I'm a little nervous becuz I don't know how to plan a wedding.
What do you need?
Tell me about everything...

2007-12-20 14:30:16 · 21 answers · asked by ♥Lucky♥ 2 in Weddings

My parents did an excellent job raising me, and now I'm a freshman at college. Since I moved out my mom has been a hurricane of emotions. She smothers me with love when I visit, but is convinced the college life has turned me into a rageing alchaholic. I've always been honest with my parents because I thought I had earned their trust? I'm 19 years old and my mom is now watching me closer than ever, how can I get her off my back?!

2007-12-20 14:30:15 · 5 answers · asked by el_matto89 1 in Family

ok, If you get married at age 25... and you can expect to live till about 85 years old.... hummm.. lets see that means you will see each other everyday for the next 60 YEARS!!!! OMG... is that right???? and in all this time, you women really think that you will be the only girl your man will ever encounter??????????

LMAO... yeah,,, O K

2007-12-20 14:27:06 · 11 answers · asked by Latin G 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I told a boy who flirted with me, talked to me a lot outside and inside school I liked him (hes never had a girl tell him that or had a gf) and he seemed sort of weirded out by it(said it too and never responded really).

so now hes mean to me, or rude, and ignores me and I ignore him back. I give him looks when he asks me to move out of the way etc, or for things.

He obviously has no interest and wants me to see it right? How come if I'm ignoring him back why is he still rude, and ignoring me and just realize it's all over?

2007-12-20 14:25:27 · 7 answers · asked by slayer_gurl888 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-20 14:23:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

She is all about ok lets do this and get it over with.
She will not do anything new.
I have tried talking to her about it and she just get this look on her face like what the hell.
I just have been thinking about find somone on the side that is fun and not so blah..

I know I know dont do that I am just saying I am at that point..

Please help

Thanks

2007-12-20 14:20:20 · 34 answers · asked by bmwguy1488 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-20 14:19:52 · 15 answers · asked by answers 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Does he tell me that becuase he wants me to think sumthing......i donno, im pretty sure he use to like me but i dont no now. but since he is saying "MISCHA BARTON IS SOOO HOT" right in front of me, what des that mean?

2007-12-20 14:19:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Are you a boy or a girl, and how do you know???

2007-12-20 14:17:51 · 16 answers · asked by Cold cash and colder hearts 3 in Singles & Dating

I have been bestfriends with this guy for over ten years. We briefly dated when I graduated college but ending up breaking up because he lives in a different state and has a child. The flying back and forth was stressful and I have always wanted to marry someone who doesn't have any kids, not because I don't love children but becasue when it's time for me to have kids I want it to be special and a first for both of us. And his daugther's mom is a nightmare!!! However, he is so kind to me and really respects me as a person. Are these "roadblocks" things that I should ignore? Anyone had similar situations?

2007-12-20 14:15:57 · 12 answers · asked by grace 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I just became a granny again. 8 pound girl 1 day before my anniversary!!!!!

2007-12-20 14:15:50 · 8 answers · asked by Neescousin 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I got with my new bf whom i liked evan and it was the 2nd day we were going on, and when were leaving he hugged me and then asked for a goodbye kiss on lips, and i froze and looked the other way. He looked hurt and asked "why not?" and i said i wanted to save it for our date tommorow(friday) and said okay and left.

I felt soo bad and he told me that his friend in spanish class, (some senior girl) said that that was mean and ridiculious..... He said there was no presure and he would wait. But i was on the verge of tears when i told him i was sorry and i only did that cuz i was nervous and froze up plus i wanted it to be special but he said it was fine.... idk do u guys think that was stupid???? =( .... plz no mean answers thanks

2007-12-20 14:14:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really like my ex again. We talk on the phone all the time. When he told me to call him back , he said you promise you will. And he always calls me back when he says he will. He has been practicing playing a song on the guitar perfect for me. And when we went out, he used to come to my house. And we are both looking forward to when he can again (which it will hopefully be this christmas break). But he said he is gonna bring his guitar next time he comes over. Ughh. I like him sooo much. I think he likes me. What do you think? I want to ask him who he likes but my mom says it's a mistake. What should I DO!??
i'm talking to him on the phone with him right now

2007-12-20 14:12:48 · 8 answers · asked by Bowchickawowwoww 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-20 14:12:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have met several men via the internet and carried on cybersex relationships that I plan to break off as soon as my husband returns. Am I being unfaithful??

2007-12-20 14:09:03 · 28 answers · asked by kirlael 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i met this girl and she can open my heart even if i dnt want to i think that she may be the one when i think about im smiling and im happy and i do think about her alot wat u think? Im 18 she is 16 im 2 yrs n 16 older than her if age matter of something (we havnt date btu she love me and i love her we havnt go out cause she move with her dad when her mum died im asking this cause she is moving back after clases r over on may or june)

sry for the spelling i speak spanish

2007-12-20 14:08:59 · 6 answers · asked by Puertorican 3 in Singles & Dating

since i was 15 yo i was with this guy, we were together for 5 yrs engaged for 3 yrs we have 2 gorgous boys together, he was everything i ever wanted and he felt the same, until a week afer my 21st b'day. He told me doesnt love me, without a warning!
He started going out with a 15 yo who was like my sister, after a few days of us breaking up.
we have been broken up for 4 months, and we are still having sex, i say he shuldn't cheat on her but he doesnt care, so why is he cheating on her if he loves her. when he never cheated on me? everyone says he still loves me you can tell by the way he looks at me and talks to me.
I just hate that i try and move on but i cant. i hate that he has put me through so much pain, and yet i still love him more than ever and i dont want to, i just cant deal with anything, and i need to be happy for my kids sake and i dont know how to.
i just want to stop loving him, i tell people im over it, but im really not, i just put on an act...HELP ME PLEASE???

2007-12-20 14:08:01 · 18 answers · asked by angel 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I own a trailer that we rent out to my husbands cousin. He has lived there about 6 months and always pays rent on time and we never have any problems with him. We told him he can buy it from us whenever he comes up with the money. (We are still paying it off)

Today, my husbands aunt called us and asked us if she could buy our trailer and she has the money now. But if she did, our cousin would have to be out by the first of the month. We are close to him, but he is not finacially stable, and he says he can buy it with his tax money in February but he is notorious for not following through on his promises. And my husband and I are behind on our bills, with Chrismas and everything, and could really use the money now.

Sooo....do we hold out for the cousin to buy it (hopefully) in Feb., like we had agreed to OR take the money now and he would just have to deal?? We have no legal contract with him, by the way.

2007-12-20 14:07:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

1.shes IMing all my friends and crap
2. she COPIES me about what I wear&what I listen too.
shes getting a fall out boy cd when she dont even know who PETE WENTZ is or even 2 OF THEIR SONGS! [for christmas]
3. she IMed this guyy. saying she likes him [i know him] & she is in 6TH GRADE! hes in MY GRADE [8th]
SHE EVEN WANTS TO GO HURT HIS GF! she never even MET HIM. she also called him &told him she was my sister :[ she also wants to send a pic of herself to him because she thinks HE LIKES HER.
4. she called my bestfriends hot when his GF his my other best friend!
-am i wrong to think that she is ruining my life? I want her to be HER OWN PERSON. IM ME. SHE IS HER. Im sick of this. and then my brothers gf & her were talking [trying to whisper] but his gf said "make sure you still like him when you go to 7th grade" Im sick of this and about to run away and be more emo with my friend. am i wrong to feel this way?

2007-12-20 14:05:53 · 5 answers · asked by L 1 in Friends

When a guy sits behind you, his knees would touch the girls back. NOt like thrusting but like just against her back. Just because of being tall. Tell me what you think. Is it really annoying. Just against it

2007-12-20 14:05:37 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So I've had a crush on a co-worker now for a while and he knows this. He's single and we get along perfectly. Christmas break starts tomorrow so this was my last day with him, so I tell him Happy holidays and just as I was about to give him a hug I hear him say "Don't-" and move a bit but I managed to still give him a hug. He had a big smile when I let go (it was only for a few seconds), but unfortunately all the other co-workers were around him at the same time, though only one noticed and smiled while the others pretended to not see. Why did he do that, was it out of dis interest or because all the other workers were around?

2007-12-20 14:02:33 · 2 answers · asked by Chained 1 in Singles & Dating

He was truly in love with me and I freakd out. We were best friends for almost 5 years..he was the closest id ever been with a guy...he was so good to me... but as soon as he started wanting a serious relationship with me and wanting to get more intimate...i started freaking out and treating him like dirt...i pushed him away and ignored him for the longest time cuz i was scared...i really hurt him and now he says he moved on and doesnt want anything with me...do you think he'll ever come back?? is there anything i can do??? ive appoligized and came crying to him so many times since but he acts like he doesnt care....but inside i feel like he'll come back...i truly believe we belong together

2007-12-20 14:00:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i met this girl and she can open my heart even if i dnt want to i think that she may be the one when i think about im smiling and im happy and i do think about her alot wat u think? Im 18 she is 16 im 2 yrs n 16 older than her if age matter of something

2007-12-20 13:58:14 · 5 answers · asked by Puertorican 3 in Singles & Dating

Well my friend likes to make crazy bets, mainly because no one does them, or when people do, she makes a profit.

This would stretch from next Wednesday at noon to next Friday at 9:00 (2.5 days)

I would get to her house on Wednesday. I would be in my school uniform the whole time. At noon, she would handcuff my hands in front of me so I couldn't take my uniform off. I'd have a key for me, but if I use it, I lose the bet. I would be handcuffed the whole time, except for 30 minutes in the morning where I could change into a new uniform and shower. I'd spend the night at her house on Wed and Thurs night. I'd probably just do some homework and hang out.

But if I give up, I'd have to pay her $50 and I'd win nothing.

So should I do it?

2007-12-20 13:57:35 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

This guy I dated broke up with me a year and three months ago we only dated for six monthes, but he was my first. For the past few monthes we've been close(we've always remained close) He sends me mixed messages, says he loves me but can't date me and doesnt' know why. I love him and belive hes the one, but he causes me so much pain, even though he doesn't mean to. I've been hearbroken for a long time know and I need some help because although I love him this is ruining my life.

2007-12-20 13:51:58 · 6 answers · asked by Jessie 1 in Singles & Dating

When my mom is mean i ask her she says i am not she always want get mad at me I try to be nice to her but she doesn't care and makes me cry (i don't know what to do help

2007-12-20 13:51:57 · 7 answers · asked by none 2 in Family

okay, so about a week ago, there is this girl who i have known for 2 years and who made it sound like she was going to get me something. yesterday, i told her "im gonna get u something too" and she says to me "ooh.. acualy, i didn't get u anything, because i "didn't have any time".. sorry!, i'll get you something after winterbreak".. and i say "oh okay.. w/e"

but the next day, she brings in a HUGE gift for this popular girl named jackie, BUT LATER THAT DAY. i asked jakie if she liked the gift my friend gave her. jakie said "whos SHES?" JAKIE DOESNT EVEN KNOW MY FRIEND AND MY FRIEND GOT HER A GIFT. then my friend tells me "oh sorry sara, i didn't get you anything... i'll get u something after the break" WTF IS THAT??? i have known her for 2 years, and she didn't even get me anything!!! then she gets this girl who DOESN'T EVEN KNOW HER a really big gift!!
that shoes that shes a wanna be, only being nice to popular ppl
im really pissed at her, and im not giving her anything back.

2007-12-20 13:51:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends