This guy I dated broke up with me a year and three months ago we only dated for six monthes, but he was my first. For the past few monthes we've been close(we've always remained close) He sends me mixed messages, says he loves me but can't date me and doesnt' know why. I love him and belive hes the one, but he causes me so much pain, even though he doesn't mean to. I've been hearbroken for a long time know and I need some help because although I love him this is ruining my life.
2007-12-20 13:51:58 · 6 answers · asked by Jessie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm afraid to talk to him about this cause its so hard to get him to open up and talk about anything enless he starts it and i'm afraid of his reactions.
2007-12-20 13:57:09 · update #1
aww, I know how it feels! I was dating this guy for a week and half and he broke up with me because he thought that I like Mexican guys more than him, but I don't! and then we got back together again. 3 days later, he broke up with me because he likes someone else and he was cheating on me with someone else and just left me with a broken heart that I can't repair anymore! try to move on and this sickness will be gone!
-ConfusedGirlForever *(Diane N)*
2007-12-20 13:58:44 · answer #1 · answered by ♫Di [Pro-Love, Anti-Hate]♫ 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
This is not what you are going to want to hear but you have to draw a line under this relationship and move on. Believe me I do know how hard that is, because you keep hoping that he will change.He is seriously mes sing with your head.
Remember this: a person can only break your heart if you allow them to do so.Perhaps he's trying to let you down gently.O r maybe he's gay.
Either way you're wasting your life like this and you deserve something better.
If you can't be friends with him because it hurts too much, you need to break off all contact with him and stick to it. You can be honest with him and tell him why,but you need to get away from this toxic non-relationship.Good luck.
2007-12-20 14:07:26 · answer #2 · answered by freebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then honey, he is not the one...don't you want to feel like a man's everything?? The only thing he can't live without?? Find a man that you can be that for-because he clearly isn't..I know it hurts, but the pain will go away and you will thank yourself for makeing this choice..hope all goes well!
2007-12-20 13:57:14 · answer #3 · answered by Heather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i hate to say this.....but i think you need to get over that guy.....there are always lots of other fish in the sea. Get a new guy!
2007-12-20 13:57:20 · answer #4 · answered by Jenna 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i really dont want to soud corny or anything, but i think that you should do what your heart says to do. if you love him and he loves you back, talk to him about it. ask him why he cant be with you and e-mail me about how it turns out.
2007-12-20 13:56:42 · answer #5 · answered by Tippy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL!!! that'll probably open his eyes!
2007-12-20 13:55:13 · answer #6 · answered by ♥gσρρєя♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋