okay, so about a week ago, there is this girl who i have known for 2 years and who made it sound like she was going to get me something. yesterday, i told her "im gonna get u something too" and she says to me "ooh.. acualy, i didn't get u anything, because i "didn't have any time".. sorry!, i'll get you something after winterbreak".. and i say "oh okay.. w/e"
but the next day, she brings in a HUGE gift for this popular girl named jackie, BUT LATER THAT DAY. i asked jakie if she liked the gift my friend gave her. jakie said "whos SHES?" JAKIE DOESNT EVEN KNOW MY FRIEND AND MY FRIEND GOT HER A GIFT. then my friend tells me "oh sorry sara, i didn't get you anything... i'll get u something after the break" WTF IS THAT??? i have known her for 2 years, and she didn't even get me anything!!! then she gets this girl who DOESN'T EVEN KNOW HER a really big gift!!
that shoes that shes a wanna be, only being nice to popular ppl
im really pissed at her, and im not giving her anything back.
2007-12-20 13:51:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
how should i handel this? what should i say to her?
i need something witty to tell her!
2007-12-20 13:51:47 · update #1
to Curious : i don't really care what she gives me.. ITS THE THOUGHT THAT COUNTS. but she didn't even put thought into me. and that really tells me something. it tells me shes not a good friend.
there are alot of other things. she trys to be cool, but shes really not.
2007-12-20 14:01:27 · update #2
One of my friends said she might have to get me a souvenir over winter break instead of giving me a gift and I was iffy about giving her one but I gave it to her anyways and she surprised me by saying she bought a gift early in the day for me.
Point is: Don't be angry that your friend did not give you a gift and gave this popular girl a gift. If it hurts you so much then don't give your friend a gift. You feel like you should get a gift in return because you are giving her one and you're jealous that some other random girl got one and you didn't.
If your friend doesn't get you a gift after the break, then you don't have to be her friend, but are you going to let a little gift issue destroy a 2 year friendship?
2007-12-20 14:16:50 · answer #1 · answered by Fire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should handle this by maybe finding a new friend. This one sounds like she would throw you over if Jackie would have anything to do with her. She spent the money on Jackie that she should have used to by her friend (you) a nice gift. Stay pissed. She isn't really your friend. Dump her and let her chase after Jackie. Go find yourself a real best friend.
2007-12-20 21:58:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The person who said not to base your friendship on what they give you is completely right. You so-called "friend" apparently thinks that she can "buy" friendship and approval which is sad.
I also think that you are putting 'WAY too much energy into thinking about this little manipulating "so-and-so".
Clearly, she is not your friend. Wish her well but from a distance. She isn't worth all of this aggrevation.
Have a great holiday and don't let her spoil it for you.
2007-12-20 22:10:58 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First don't measure your friends by what they give you.
Second chose friends who value you for you. Who won't put popular people who don't know them ahead of you.
If you want to keep the friendship talk to your friend, and make sure she knows that she hurt you, but you value the friendship enough to want to continue it.
2007-12-20 22:00:02 · answer #4 · answered by Truth 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her you gave a donation to a charity in her name...
2007-12-20 22:02:29 · answer #5 · answered by Jo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
number 1 dont get her anything forget her!! maybe shez just trying to get u madd!!
2007-12-20 21:59:19 · answer #6 · answered by Soccer Girl ♥ 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋