I got with my new bf whom i liked evan and it was the 2nd day we were going on, and when were leaving he hugged me and then asked for a goodbye kiss on lips, and i froze and looked the other way. He looked hurt and asked "why not?" and i said i wanted to save it for our date tommorow(friday) and said okay and left.
I felt soo bad and he told me that his friend in spanish class, (some senior girl) said that that was mean and ridiculious..... He said there was no presure and he would wait. But i was on the verge of tears when i told him i was sorry and i only did that cuz i was nervous and froze up plus i wanted it to be special but he said it was fine.... idk do u guys think that was stupid???? =( .... plz no mean answers thanks
2007-12-20 14:14:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you horrible TERRIBLE lil girl... you gave the poor boy blue balls... lol, j/k... no, as the lady, you get to decide when the first kiss takes place, it's well within your right to say "not now" or "i dont kiss on the first date"... it's your body, your rules... guys are always going to ask "why not" and look hurt...
a senior is usually 17-19 years old and has probably kissed someone more times than she can remember... maybe even had sex more times than you can count... you're not that kind of girl
just take your time, and when it feels right, you'll know
2007-12-20 14:24:27 · answer #1 · answered by gammaraze 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you told him that you want to save your first kiss for a special occasion, he should understand, but as a guy, he probably thought that you don't want to kiss him for some reason because it is your 2nd day as a couple and he probably got a little hurt so tell him the truth about it. If you cried when you told him that, that means that you're really into this guy so explain to him and make sure he knows that you really like him. But then again, a kiss isn't that big of a deal so you should've at least let him give you a kiss on the cheek or something, but it wasn't mean or stupid, you probably just sounded mean but didn't mean it....
2007-12-20 14:26:45 · answer #2 · answered by Sergio 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It was neither mean nor stupid simply because you were nervous so don't worry about it. Just next time relax and give him a soft kiss on the lips.
2007-12-20 14:29:11 · answer #3 · answered by Firebird 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you wasnt mean, You got nervous it happens to everybody dont worry he should be a little more respectful. He defiantly shouldnt listen to the bimbo in his class. Just because she may be easy and apperantly doesnt feel anything. Doesnt mean everyone is that way. You had butterfly's its normal. Wait until your ready stand your ground, and dont let it get to you your fine!!
2007-12-20 14:20:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It wasn't mean or ridiculous. It doesn't matter what the girl said because she's not you. To her it may be ridiculous but you have an opinion. You wanted to wait and wanted it to be special so take your time.
2007-12-20 14:23:47 · answer #5 · answered by hannabanana 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is both, its mean and stupid.
You could have given him a peck, its not like he was asking you to french kiss him. What the hell is saving it for tomorrow, now that's stupid. If he was asking something that is obscene I would be on your side.
If you can't handle mean answers then you need to grow up.
Kissing is OK but don't have sex.
2007-12-20 14:32:03 · answer #6 · answered by T-Max 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
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2016-10-09 00:41:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's wrong with a kiss goodbye? Yes it was ridiculios of you not to give him a kiss. But anywayz just make it up for your date.
2007-12-20 14:19:05 · answer #8 · answered by ▀▄▀▄▀ кαяίs ▄▀▄▀▄ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
doesn't matter, as long as you honestly froze up i think its kinda cute
2007-12-20 14:21:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it wasn't mean or stupid it was nerves........and he is ok with it so don't worry about it
2007-12-20 14:19:26 · answer #10 · answered by barb 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋