2007-12-20 14:12:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have to say looks come first . . . and I say that because in order for me to want to get to know her, she'd have to get my attention. So I'd say
looks:40%
Personality: 60%
2007-12-20 14:19:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Weird i just answered a question like this via email...Ok yes looks matter...Who ever said they dont has to be blind...What attracts anyone to anything? Its how it looks, now you wouldn't eat dinner if it looked nasty would you? Humans are very visual, you see something you like, there's the first attraction and then you may lest say meet the person and the personality is great, but it always starts out with "how they look" There is no way around this unless like i said your blind. Beauty they say is in the eye of the beholder, its what your brain perceives look good. Every ones tastes are different and they find beauty in things some find ugly, its all on what you like.
2007-12-20 22:26:24 · answer #2 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not a guy but honestly looks matter but not to the same extent in all guys. Think about it from your perspective; would you really want to be with someone who you have zero physical attraction to? probably not. But remember, attraction can develop after getting to know a persons more attractive inner traits. I didnt think my boyfriend was all that good looking when i first met him but now I can't take my eyes off him. So dont worry if you arent the typical bombshell, theres definitely someone out there who thinks youre gorgeous. Besides, its not always a good thing to be extremely good looking. Not to sound egotistic, but for the sake of example Ive had boyfriends who lie and decieve me, trick me into believing they love me simply to satisfy their sex drives. the "im so horny and youre so hot" thing isnt what a real relationship is all about.
good luck.
2007-12-20 22:18:25 · answer #3 · answered by idbangrobertplant 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just like you, a woman, looks are the first thing you notice. Honestly, if you see an ugly guy walking down the street... what's the first thing that pops into your mind? "Wow, he looks like an extremely romantic novelist." N-O-W-A-Y. You notice his looks first, and that determines whether or not you're going to talk to him.
Brandon
2007-12-20 22:18:01 · answer #4 · answered by El BrandO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me looks come second, what good is having a 'hot' girlfriend when you have nothing in common? Unfortunately for alot of guys all they care is about looks.
2007-12-20 22:17:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that for me, a girl has to care what she looks like. she doesnt have to have magazine add perfect looks or anything, but she has to take care of herself. i dont mean paranoid about how she looks or use a whole lot of makeup, but its best if she tries. that is really what matters to me. if that makes any sense. but even that isnt the most important thing i look for.
2007-12-20 22:16:53 · answer #6 · answered by Evan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks 70%, personality 30%
2007-12-20 22:15:08 · answer #7 · answered by ryan 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
umm for ***** they are but for most nice guys even if your not that attractive, getting to know you and seeing that you are very nice will make them more atracted to you
2007-12-20 22:15:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
they come second to personality all the time --- have fun
2007-12-20 22:18:29 · answer #9 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋