Family & Relationships - 16 December 2007

Hi, my very close friend has had quite a sheltered life and because of this she is still a virgin at 26!, she's had many romantic encounters with men however nothing lasted and none were sexual, she has now met this guy who is not exactly her type (physically) and not very good-looking, however due to her age she complains 2 me that she's tired of being a virgin 4 so long and wants to have sex and is considering this new guy that she's met, she says the guy claims to love her and tells her all the time although they've known each other 4 only a week. its not as if she hasn't been told that men love her b4, its just that this time she's really fed up. How shld i advise her? she's very tired of waiting. Shd she go ahead?, or continue waiting!!!, after all she is 26. I'm scared at this rate she'll never lose her virginity! please help.

2007-12-16 23:59:50 · 10 answers · asked by Sarah Obie 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-16 23:58:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have been married for well over 10 years. My wife for what ever reason refuses to have sex any more. It has been going on 3 years now. We have talked about this 2 1/2 ...2... 1 1/2...1 ....6months ago. 2 weeks ago I had told her I have finally had enough. Told her I still love her but don`t under stand.I said to her the way I see it there can only be a few reasons for this...#1 You are seeing someone else #2 she has turned into a lezzy ...#3 I must not be the right man for her or #4 there is a medical problem( which is not the case) She said she was not seeing anyone and didn`t want to and no to the lezzy part as well. 2 days ago I met a really nice gal that I wouldn`t mind getting to know better. We met again yesturday for coffee. I have never cheated on my wife before but this time I`m not sure if I will or not...I still love my wife but think we both deserve more out of life. My question to you is what would you do in my shoes

2007-12-16 23:57:53 · 21 answers · asked by charlie s 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Thanking you in advance

2007-12-16 23:55:38 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just thought it'd be nice putting something different in her card...
Oh, and where are you from?
Thanks.

2007-12-16 23:49:27 · 17 answers · asked by MikeD2 4 in Family

I know it is weird, but I'm envious of my bf's grades... I think it is because before I was more concerned with school than he was but now he has started studying and caring and he gets very good grades, top of the class I would say. I know I should be happy for him, but 've noticed this strange feeling inside of me everytime I find out he has an A and I have a B... Can someone please tell me what is wrong with me? :(

2007-12-16 23:47:28 · 8 answers · asked by H! 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-16 23:43:40 · 3 answers · asked by jaybird 1 in Singles & Dating

a fear of being rejected,ridiculed or likewise.....

2007-12-16 23:38:14 · 6 answers · asked by wolfmettle 3 in Singles & Dating

I have no idea if I can use the word relationship at this time....

I have been on two dates with a lovely lady and things have gone very well so far. We have at least one more scheduled before Christmas. The dates and the phone conversations are going smoothly and it is obvious that both parties are very interested in continuing to see where this leads us. My question is what, if anything, should I get her for the holiday. Keep in mind that we have been acquaintances for years and have recently saw each other socially for the first time two weeks ago.

2007-12-16 23:34:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My grandfather is starting to become mentally unstable, but it is somewhat on and off. We do not want the state to step in and start making decisions on how and where he is taken care of and what happens to his financial assets.

2007-12-16 23:33:50 · 4 answers · asked by obeythefro 1 in Marriage & Divorce

1. If the girl is virgin, haven't even used any sex toys, can a guy understand (FEEL) she is a virgin when he enters her? I mean is there a difference between virgins's and non-virgin women's tightness? (let's say they are at the same age)

2. Is there such a "too tight" thing? And if there is, is being too tight a plus?

Serious answers please.

2007-12-16 23:30:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

And be honest...
Also i'm NOT talking about S&M

2007-12-16 23:28:33 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my best guy friend left the town just this morning without saying that he is leaving,he didnt tell anyone even his gf ! we both hate saying goodbyes :( so he took off to Syria,he called me just an hour ago saying that he was sorry for not telling me and bla..
god i miss him so much,its christmas soon,its going to be my first christmas without him :(
when i saw him this morning ( before he left ) he didnt seem alright,he tried to avoid me a bit,because we had a mid term exam and he knows if he would have told me that im going to keep thinking about it and fail the exam ! so he just left with no goodbyes !! im so mad at him but at the same time i miss him like hell !

2007-12-16 23:24:48 · 12 answers · asked by Dreamer 4 in Friends

2007-12-16 23:24:43 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I thought maybe some of me will rub off on her and eventually she could become a Christian.

2007-12-16 23:23:59 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend, all he does to me is kiss, we hang in different crowds, and his mom wont even let me be his friend, and I never get to talk to him, unless i figure out how to talk while kissing him. after school is the only time we talk, but we don't even talk, and the thing is he's not even cheating on me. it's secret because his mom even told me he can't have a girl friend til H.S. And it's teen love, so it shouldn't be as confusing as it is. Plz Help, wat should I do?????

2007-12-16 23:23:22 · 5 answers · asked by Patsy ♥♥♥ Rose 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-16 23:23:21 · 5 answers · asked by Asian Cutie 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I read it in the perfect female orgasm book fronted by Sex in the City's Katrell.... well i have tried it on 3 women in the last 2 years and it worked each time. It was like reading good reviews to a play in Time Out.

I felt very James Bond after i had been told how good it was. very warm inside for me too.

2007-12-16 23:23:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

YOU LIKE YOUR MAN BULKY, BUILT, RIPPED? AND I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW WHY, HOLLA ASAP

2007-12-16 23:19:21 · 10 answers · asked by MRDFS2010 1 in Singles & Dating

been dating for last 2 years but none seem right

2007-12-16 23:14:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and me would never be able to marry because im christian and hes Islam...what should i do??

2007-12-16 23:09:31 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

If No - Why? If Yes - What answer did you get?

2007-12-16 23:05:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have always been open with my past boyfriends and male friends about porn. I think it is healthy for a male to have some. I have watched it in mixed company. I don't mind it.

However, I understand that men don't like to talk about it. I asked a few close male friends of mine about women being comfortable with porn, they said that it was cool/refreshing to be openminded about it, but it scares them that a women is so comfortable about it, so much that sometimes they think its awkward to watch it together ot even discuss it with a girl. It is considered as a form of speechless male bonding.

I understand that in this day and age, many women are becoming the aggressor. We all like a little porn. But is this something that should be kept segregated?

I wonder in a relationship should the women just keep quiet or speak up about their point of view on porn?

Guys: SHOULD WOMEN express their views on porn or JUST keep quiet.

2007-12-16 22:59:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hi i'm 12 week pregnant with my 1st baby and my boyfriend still looks at women and when i ask him does he look he lies to me when i can see him doing it he never looks at me its hard makeing your self look good when you sick every day.

2007-12-16 22:56:14 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am a corse on ict whitch i'm on level 2 right , i got this thing for a girl on level 3 (as in i like her) but there's this girl on level 1 who likes me and i dont no what to do

2007-12-16 22:54:57 · 11 answers · asked by tommy 2 in Singles & Dating

she had to marry because of the situational compulsion.her husband loves her alot and he is asofthearted.the problem is her ex-love haunts her like any thing.he mails her and calls her using all bad words.she is fighting hard to adjust with the new life.she loves him so much so she cant even back answer him.she asks me what to do?what should i reply .i know both of them personally both loved eachother truely.i think he wanted to get set so he is doing this but what should i tell to her .is it advisable to tell her to tell the matter to her husband.i dont think he can afford it.she is as if she has lost her after hearing all these from her ex love.before that she was about to adjust with the life.what should i tell her

2007-12-16 22:52:59 · 4 answers · asked by meera menon 1 in Marriage & Divorce

there are four of us. there is kayla, jasmine (who are best friends) and bethany and me. kayla and jasmine are the supposed leaders of the group and they always get pissed off at me and bethany. they like having us as a group but they get angry very easily. for example, i couldnt go to jasmine's dance concert because we couldnt sleepover afterwards and my mum didnt want me going home so late from the theatre. i also had work that night. i explained that too them the day before and they started swearing and screaming at me. i couldnt understand why they couldnt understand that it was my safety that was the concern. now they are fighting with me again over a stupid reason. should i stay with my friends or not?

2007-12-16 22:52:24 · 15 answers · asked by My Name Is Trip 4 in Friends

I just brike up with my exboyfriend couple days ago, I really feel so horrible like nothing could cheer me up. It's just the thought that i can't share my life with him anymore in the future. But we decide to be just friend. What do u do to lift yourself up again?I just feel i need someone as soon as posible to replace him but i know iam not ready for any relationship. Please help , iam so lonely...

2007-12-16 22:50:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im going on a date tomorrow, and on past dates it been really awquard. How do i avoid it? and if we do have a awquard time how do i stop it?

2007-12-16 22:46:28 · 16 answers · asked by Gracie S 1 in Singles & Dating

I'd love to! And you?

2007-12-16 22:43:55 · 9 answers · asked by nomorecapri 5 in Friends