Family & Relationships - 16 December 2007

i am 16 year old boy..... ok here is the DL

i have always been too caught up in school, to ever even consider dating, but i met the perfect girl. And she asked me if i wanted to go to the movies with her... duh, of course i said yes.

here is the complicated part, my parents are protective.... very protective. i need your help. tell me how to tell them i am going to go on a date (without them FLIPPING OUT) or being to nosey.... also im worried that they will tease me to no end... i hate that.........HELP

2007-12-16 18:37:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why? You can't live without sex for one night? Or checking out stripper in the stripper club? Comon... Think about the children and what example your giving them! If you want to be a pervert make sure you don't let your close family members find out. And if you want satisfy yourself on the internet, do it privately!
I remember one time when I was walking down the street
(In long pants) I was honked at 3 times and I'm only 13! What are you thinking? Don't do it to kids or young teenagers. Do it to adults who like that stuff! I feel very uncomfortable socializing with people now! I don't like shopping anymore or meeting my friends somewhere! Cause I'm scared of perverted men (Also women) with their pervertedness…

2007-12-16 18:33:57 · 24 answers · asked by *BlueWolf* 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

could u sub conciously be scared of commitment?

2007-12-16 18:33:34 · 2 answers · asked by Shorin_ninpo 1 in Singles & Dating

ok, im 14 and a freshman in high school, and this year ALL OF A SUDDEN, it seems like everyone has boyfriend. me? NO. this may sound pathetic, but i've never been asked out, never had a boyfriend, and never been kissed. i dont think im hideously ugly, and im nice, funny, and smart. guys flirt with me...but thats all that happens.
its not like i only want a boyfriend because everyone else has one....its just i want to feel loved, and be held, and kissed. has anyone else felt this way? or am i alone?
and the WORST part is, that guys my age or in my school just dont seem that into me. BUT, when i go out, i get hit on my guys at least 4-5 years older than me. but i dont reciprocate those feelings, because thats kinda creepy lol.
and i know you guys will say "focus on school" and i am, i have straight A's....
i just feel like i'll never meet someone whom i can just talk to about anything, or just hold, you know?
am i completely pathetic for feeling this way?

2007-12-16 18:21:31 · 6 answers · asked by . 1 in Singles & Dating

Comon Lady's.... Do you think your a bit too choosy to find the right man? Not everybody's perfect be happy of what you got now! + It's very hard to find a Prince Charming...

2007-12-16 18:16:10 · 6 answers · asked by *BlueWolf* 1 in Singles & Dating

My sister in law knows all my bedroom secrets and i mean all.

2007-12-16 18:13:00 · 19 answers · asked by Billy Hughes 1 in Marriage & Divorce

she always wants her way and so do i, but she is so stubborn!

2007-12-16 18:12:20 · 25 answers · asked by sahuayo20 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-16 18:07:00 · 7 answers · asked by zeeke a 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I were talking about a certain situation or more like massacre that happened to a certain country in 99 and many people were dead, and anyway, as the conversation went through I just wanted to test and see what he would say so I said, "They deserved it all,." but I actually didn't mean it, now he's looking at me in a different way, and I feel HORRIBLE but it was only a joke to start with, I couldn't wish anything like that to happen to even a fly, yet alone people. I'm trying to get over this and I cant...

No stupid answers please! I posted it here for a good enough reason!

2007-12-16 18:03:52 · 11 answers · asked by NY0120 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I know red is for love but that's about it. And how many stalks should I give her? Dont wanna give a whole bouquet tho, i do have a steady girlfriend.

2007-12-16 18:03:26 · 20 answers · asked by livingdead 1 in Friends

I have been trying to look away from this guy angrily telling him I am BACKING OFF as he has wished after he has snapped at me once. However, he still looks at me when I happen to see him. He is pissed off when I look away angrily. The other reason why I look away angrily is becos I am trying tell him to stop looking at me as it disturbs me. Haven't I fulfilled what he wanted?

2007-12-16 18:03:02 · 4 answers · asked by Playful 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 23 years old and lately I have been very depressed. I feel like no one understand me. My problems start with my boyfriend whom I share an appartment with, and have been dating for almost 4 years. Sometimes he does things to upset me and it feels intentional. He will accuse me of stealing from him and cheating on him and when his favorite sports teams lose, he will punch the wall and scream. I rely on him financially because I am in school, so I guess that makes him feel as though he has power over me.

I have finally decided to leave him, but it is becomming harder than I thought. Walking away from someone I have been with so long seems impossible. I am also worried about where I am going to go. I wanted to move home with my mom, but I am getting the impression she doesn't want me there because she seems to think I will cause problems with my brother who at 18 is using drugs and can not be stoped.

More details to come....

2007-12-16 18:02:27 · 9 answers · asked by ? 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

So the usual philosophy is that a guy should have all these great ideas for a date in mind when he asks a girl out. He's pretty much expected to know a movie theater, have a back up plan in case that falls through, have a few good restaurant ideas, and maybe an idea for a follow up for dessert.

So that sounds good, but what if you aren't very familiar with the area where the girl lives.

I mean, girls always like it when the guy has a plan, and saying "Let's go out to dinner sometime, but I don't know where" sounds kind of pathetic, but if you don't know the area, how are you supposed to come up with an idea?

Just a thought I was wondering... how do you plan a date in an area you're unfamiliar with? Or do you bring her to your area(30 minute drive usually).

2007-12-16 17:57:40 · 3 answers · asked by Xeno 4 in Singles & Dating

As you may know from my previous questions, I am been dumpd by my husband who wants me out of the house when he comes back.
Im accused of adultery by his sisters who just hate me, and hes stupid enough to believe them, even though I have done everything for him for 7 years.

My dont have any clothes that fit me anymore, sad to say.
I always thought it better to spend on the house and him and our child now.

We have a shared account with about 35,000
If I went on a spending spree to buy the things I have gone without all these years, would it look bad to the judge when we finally get a divorce?

Im tempted to go out and buy a new wardrobe because Im going to have to start looking for a job.

And since we have 2 cars, one with a payment of $450 I know hes going to want to keep his precious truck and sttick me with the SUV payments.
So Im thinking of paying off the entire $12000 left on the SUV.

This way the judge wil se we have 2 cars and split them down the middle

2007-12-16 17:54:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Many people say that I am ugly and I think so too... do u think so also?
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2007-12-16 17:53:44 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-16 17:51:46 · 3 answers · asked by Sharon H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-16 17:50:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

love can be a hard experience to go through and i had this thought that for most of us, we seem to want what we cant get. But when it really comes down to it i believe that a lot of people are looking for someone they can really be with. So i ask YOU......do you believe it is hard to settle for less?

2007-12-16 17:49:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If your happy and you love your bf/gf, why cant you stop?

2007-12-16 17:49:12 · 14 answers · asked by Mimza 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok, bare with me here. I was seeing this girl, let's just call her Nina. Her and I went out several times and always had a good time. The problem is that she is married, but she always complained about her marriage to me. She kept telling me that she was going to leave her husband and that she was going to file for divorce. I kept waiting for that to happen, so I could take our relationship further. She finally said that she was going through with it, but she backed out from doing it. I was really getting fed up with this, but my feelings for her were stronger than they were before. I was actually in love with her. A few days later, we go to the office christmas party and I decide to tell her how I feel. I got shot down hard and she never really intended on getting divorced. Since we work together, I have to see her everyday and that makes me feel worse. I've been out with other girls since this has happened, but I cannot seem to get over this no matter what I do.

Thx

2007-12-16 17:48:37 · 7 answers · asked by R e a v e r 2 in Marriage & Divorce

This guy who I've liked for almost 4 months now is ignoring me. I didn't do anything but I'm afraid that someone could have made stuff up about me and told him something. We have a non-verbal relationship, meaning we only "communicate" through body language, I just read his body language and facial expressions. I love him so much and my entire day revolves around him and I only run into him once in a while. I tried to let go and forget about him despite the harsh things I heard him say about me but I can't. I'm so deeply in love with this guy I dont even know and the hard part is, I can't let him go because I don't know anything about him and I feel like I'm losing a really great guy. Please please, help me, I don't know what to do or how to read him anymore, I need some comfort.

2007-12-16 17:47:39 · 21 answers · asked by Behave 5 in Singles & Dating

What yall think?

2007-12-16 17:46:09 · 7 answers · asked by Antwuan (Giants Superbowl XLVI Champs!!!) 7 in Singles & Dating

What was the best meeting of a BF/GF? It doesn't have to be your current BF/GF. just a meeting that was funny. Mine is with my current GF

She was a cheerleader for her HS, and my school was versing hers in football. I intercepted the ball and while running it back got smothered out of bounds despite being 6' 1" 260lbs. I was tying to keep my balance while stumbling backwards and I hit something. I fell on the ground. I heard a female moaning and I had notice bowled over 2 girls, but fell on one. I apologized non-stop, and helped her up. She only suffered a minor ankle sprain. But it would turn out she lived 2 blocks away from me, because I would see her while I was doing a light run... and one thing lead to another after we recognized each other and now we have been going out for about 5 months.

Yup top that lol

=P

2007-12-16 17:41:07 · 4 answers · asked by Smooth Move EX-LAX 2 in Singles & Dating

my boyfiend glances at breast..and im on here looking around at questions and everyones like 'because hes a guy' and all of this stuff. but i dont think thats nessacarily why, and i dont think its nessacarily means they like larger breast. why? because I notice the larger breast...we all do. not just men. at times (usually when i am pmsing) and i notice some girl with large breast then look at him and i see his eyes go down for a quick second, i get antsy and want to say something dumb like okay...well im gonna get implants and maybe youll stare at mine more. and i get immature sometimes. i find myself juggling the idea of breast implants...but he says he would NEVER want me to and always tells me he loves my breast. do some of you agree? that its not because he likes them or because 'hes a guy' but just because their in OUR FACE!!! I mean ...cmon

2007-12-16 17:39:18 · 26 answers · asked by Bird Girl 2 in Singles & Dating

Of the tragic I've went through with him, I realize we were not meant to be.

2007-12-16 17:33:13 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

lets say you were out on a girls night without your husband and went back to your friends house and fooled around, would that be cheating or just some innocent girl on girl action?

2007-12-16 17:32:11 · 55 answers · asked by hilly 1 in Marriage & Divorce

should I wait until after christmas to break up with someone?

2007-12-16 17:31:18 · 61 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-16 17:28:30 · 20 answers · asked by precision 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok this girl im talking about is one of my good friends and I've finally decided to have the guts to tell her im starting to see her more than a friend. I know its not the best way but im gonna tell her over a text message when she's asleep so she'll read it in the morning.... main reason is if i do it at school in person every1 will know so I hope you ppl understand. So what do you think of this


(girls name) you are beautiful have a great personality and you are one of my closest friends. Im starting to see you more than just a friend...and i dont want this to affect our friendship in a bad way. So dont get freaked out by this message, its not the end of the world if u dont feel the same way... I just wanted to let you know how I feel.

So thats basically what I came up with so give your opinions or tips.... Also we're both 8th graders so think about that when you answer please. I'll pick the best answer it wont be by voting. Thanks

2007-12-16 17:23:45 · 7 answers · asked by Ya tu Sabes 3 in Singles & Dating

I really like this one girls but she always changes her mind if she likes me or not..i really like her but I don't know what to do?

2007-12-16 17:23:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating