first date.... help?

Question

i am 16 year old boy..... ok here is the DL

i have always been too caught up in school, to ever even consider dating, but i met the perfect girl. And she asked me if i wanted to go to the movies with her... duh, of course i said yes.

here is the complicated part, my parents are protective.... very protective. i need your help. tell me how to tell them i am going to go on a date (without them FLIPPING OUT) or being to nosey.... also im worried that they will tease me to no end... i hate that.........HELP

Answer 1

LET THEM TEASE....ITS ALL PART OF THEM BEING PARENTS AND YOU BEING A KID........THEY WILL PROBABLY BE THANKFULL YOUR GOING OUT WITH A GIRL......ESPECIALLY SINCE YOU SAID YOU HAVE" EVER EVEN CONSIDER DATING................IF MY SON CAME HOME AND TOLD ME THAT HE HAD A DATE..IT WOULD BE LIKE.....WWHHHHEEEEEWWW......WITH A GIRL EVEN....THATS EVEN BETTER...........

LET EM TEASE AND HAVE A LITTLE FUN WITH IT....

Answer 2

Ok, suggestion 1... give them minimal details.

Tell them you're going to see a movie with a friend. Don't tell them it's a girl. Don't lie, but at the same time, don't tell them anything more than necessary.

Suggestion 2... give them all details and make a stand

Tell them that you're going on a date with , that you'll be back around . If they give you a hard time, tell them that it's just a movie, that there's no reason for them to get involved. As for the teasing, just ask them to stop. Tell them it bothers you, you don't like it, and you think they should respect yoru wishes.

Suggestion 3... flat out lie...

Tell them you're going with some other friend they know. Let your friend in on the plan so he can cover for you. Make it a friend who's parents they won't call. Give him the movie time, and give him a heads up if you're staying out later so he knows to extend the cover story.

Those are pretty much your options... My advice is 2. You're parents may flip out, but it's going to happen at some point in your life, might as well get it over with now rather than when you're 22 and your mom is still controlling who you can date...

Answer 3

If you are very caught up in school, I'd write this answer from the point of view that you are a student with very good grades.

Explain to your parents that you are ready for a girlfriend and future lives, or at least an experience of it. Your grades can prove to them that you do not get distracted by relationships (if it starts to drop, then it's not good. You must then catch it up).

I am 16. I am very caught up in school. My parents are beyond protective. I'm in the same boat as you are, besides the fact that girls don't ask me and I don't have the guts to ask them, even though online I may post answers saying the guy should initiate... [Laugh if you need to.]

Anyway, if they tease you, tease them, their marriage, and see how they take that. Ha. I can almost guarentee that at least one of your parent liked girls in their teenage years. The only problem is that they may not (or may, depends) be fortunate enough to have a date. xD

Good luck with your girl. Best wishes from this Internet dude.

Answer 4

You need to tell them something. Tell them your going out with this girl tonight or tomorrow. Then they'll ask you who she is and stuff and tell them about her. Don't hide her. And if they tease you then they're just being like anyone else. Take the teasing and don't worry so much about the teasing. It's actually cool. Cause it's like your parents approve with what your doing and they're just joking around. Parents are less protective of boys. The girls have it harder. SO u got a break.

Answer 5

dude teasing is good, I had protective parents too, the important thing is to get them to tease you man!! If they are so protective yet u can get em to crack jokes on you, dude, you got yer parents in the bag bro. Tell em yer just going with a friend thats a girl, u dont have to tell them its a date. I used to do it that way till I was 18. Sure they might go , ooo yer friend thats a girl, more life girlfriend!! dude thats perfect bcuz if they are baggin on you now when you break the news youve been dating her(im assuming yer smooth enough to keep this chick) it will be welcomed not frowned on.

Answer 6

Say you are going to the movies with a friend who is a girl. Be sure to highlight that she is not yet officially your girlfriend. If they start to tease you just ignore them. Parents only tease their kids if they get a rise from them.

Tell them what movie, when, where and who. Say that is all they need to know.

And have a good time.

Answer 7

well im 16 also and my parents are very protective too. just talk to them. tell them u need their trust. ur a grown man and u should go out and do things u havent done before. just talk to the. thatswhat I did with my parents about dating girls

Answer 8

tell em the truth.. its the only way.. if u really like the girl then y wont u tell ur parents ur going to a date with her?..... if they tease u or be nosey tell em to stop.. u need to have ur own privacy

Answer 9

They won't tease you, being a guy they'II be proud probabIy. TeII them you're going with a group of friends.

Answer 10

just tell em ur going out with the guys