Family & Relationships - 14 December 2007

Hi everyone
My buddy at work has had this girl on the brain for months now
but she always flited with the other guys and avoided him etc etc,
Well anyway he got over it and moved on now she confesses that her best friend told her to flirt with other guys to get him wanting her even more but when he didn't bite she had to come clean. should i tell my buddy she actually got the thing for him or stay away

2007-12-14 23:58:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so here goes...
She knows I have a thing for her but we're not together. She went to her dad's place for the winter and we really have no method of communication for the time being except for e-mails and she only gets to do so every ever so often. Our conversations and e-mails our usually very casual..nothing attached, more on making each other laugh by telling each other what's been going on with our lives (I don't know if she can feel the tension coming from my part though).
Anyway, it takes her a week or a few days to read and reply to my email. After a few times of doing so, she sends me one that says i miss you. The email only bore those words but I felt a lot from that email, like she cant wait until we see each other again and stuff.
Is it just me or is she telling me she feels the same way i do?

2007-12-14 23:38:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

you slept with them, then you realise that you did not love them and you just liked them alot.and how can you ever trust you feelings again?

2007-12-14 23:37:41 · 13 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

There were 3 of us...We were good friends..One day he and that other person fought...so there's only two of us...he's always there for me, I'm always there for him...he always cares for me...We were bestfriends...but the day they started talking once again...I was always left out in the group...I was rarely invited ...They talk like they're the only people around...I was always alone...but I don't understand why they still want me to hang out with them....It's ALWAYS LIKE THAT RIGHT?? AM I JUST AN OPTION??!!! MAYBE I REALLY AM JUST BOUND 2 BE ALONE!! It's not the same as before T_T

He's my bestfriend....but why did he leave me???
I can't take it...I can't confront him coz I'm still not ready...

2007-12-14 23:36:07 · 11 answers · asked by acerbus18 1 in Friends

I ask because sometimes you see a person look really nice, then you see them with a new hairstyle or in a hat or a worse photo and they look terrible

So my question is, is it possible for a person to be both attractive and unattractive physically?

2007-12-14 23:25:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i went to place where me and my girls hang out a place near by my house then we some boys playing football then we decided to play wiht them but they wouldnt let us play so we sat on the bench just talking and there was this younger boy like 2 years younger than me he was flirting with me and i have a boyfreind and my boyfriend best mate is playing football den we were dancing with some of the boys then the girls left me and him toghether and i didnt know what to say he kisssed me but it was dark and no one saw us and we were kisssing and i told him that i have a boyfriend and he was like no one will know and then the proplem is i know his big brother and he is in year as me does that make me a pidophille
and should i tell my boyfriend or lie to him can you plese give me some advice
a.s.a.p

2007-12-14 23:25:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There's this gal that I like but we are just friends (i told her last year but some things might change now).
she always teases me. yesterday while i was playing something, she laughs along and is enjoying herself. but when i remember all the teases - the doodles on my paper (once she wrote a teasing YOU UGLY on my paper w/o my knowledge), the teasing smile, the helps she has given, the activities that we did together, the laughs, the remarks about me that she makes, i can't forget them! all the funny things that she did - like pointing out her tongues often and teased me even when i simply called her name.

but there's also this other boy who likes her too and they sometimes talk! this week i saw them talking about three times and a couple of times her friends tease her about him (although about me too). she doesnt make attempt to see him and in the past avoids him. they don't talk often though (a few months ago talked but reduced). she is nice to everyone, including him, but one exception is that sometimes she pretends to be 'mean' to me! when they talk she seems into the conversation but once he was asking her to play game with him but she just grinned and walked away. her interest in talking with him occasionally - it has been there for a year plus but they don't get together and she sometimes avoids him. and she doesn't joke and tease him -most convo are serious.

and cos of this i completely ignored her yesterday.

2007-12-14 23:24:33 · 4 answers · asked by unquenchablethirst 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-14 23:23:47 · 7 answers · asked by sexiilaylay 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-14 23:19:07 · 16 answers · asked by jhay 1 in Singles & Dating

I have my fiance's xmas party for his football team, and he is really looking forward to it.
I was until i realised that a girl who dosn't like me is goin, lets call her Amanda*.
I don't usually care what people think etc. just have a laugh and get on with it, but she's really got to me.
Now i'm really worried about going. I'm mates with a couple of other girls there and i know i'll have a good time but Amanda makes be feel so self concious.

I need to find some confidence - even if i could manage to put a nice smile on when i see her - Please Help - I don't want to say to much to my fiance becuase it will make tonight akward for him!

Was going to try to look amazing - but had to work and very skint - that plan out of the wiindow!!

2007-12-14 23:17:06 · 18 answers · asked by Wife2b 2 in Singles & Dating

A girl from work always asks me to join her and other friends for activities after work. I can never go because I have other commitments, but she continues to always ask me to go out and I feel bad because I always say no. I've said no the past 20 times she has asked. I used to go out with her and others from work but our schedules have changed which makes it difficult for me to go out with them. She called me lame last night because I said I couldn't go. I feel bad. When we do work together I never really talk with her, not because I don't like her but because I never have the time to, and yet she still always asks me to go. Is she just trying to be a good friend, or could she possibly like me

2007-12-14 23:17:04 · 13 answers · asked by mama a 1 in Singles & Dating

cant make me mind up since this is the part of remortgage
that me x left me in bank after she cleared off with spending
best part of £10000.00

2007-12-14 23:13:54 · 16 answers · asked by nigel 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Im 25 n av jus been told to stay out of the girl i loves life! I sent her a txt telling her i was unhappy that she told me she didnt want a boyf n she sent me a txt back saying im bitter n twisted n2 leave her alone 4ever. I av been friends wiv her for 18 months, shes beautiful. We'd cuddle, hold hands, kiss on the lips(just pecs). I realised i loved her after a year n a bit she has lots of attention from guys n she split her boyf7 months ago, he was a jerk. I had2tell her i loved her.. more than friends. I was scared as ive never had a girlfriend n when i told girls in the past i like them, they reject me. Im overweight but have personality. I plucked up courage to tell her and she returned my feelings, i was soo happy. We kissed ncuddled all night, when i touched her she told me 'no' so i stopped, i was happy to wait aslong as she's happy. We were2 meet the next day but she didnt turn up, didnt answer my calls, 3wks later she has a new guy ntxt me just friends. What did i do??

2007-12-14 23:08:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If I want to ask a classmate whose a girl to lunch or something, how do I ask so that it wouldn't seem creepy or as though I am asking her out on a date? Also I don't want some people to mistaken that I like them when I just wanna hang out. Sometimes people think the wrong way... So how can I do this without it being awkward?

Thanks

2007-12-14 23:08:27 · 11 answers · asked by Closed 5 in Singles & Dating

Some say its the best way of getting answers, others say because the white coats are coming to get you. Tell the truth

2007-12-14 23:03:53 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I hate that this sounds so cynical but in my experience with relationships there must be Givers and Takers.Givers are the one with a clean heart and good spirit....Takers are the cheaters who wants to let the givers swallow everything that i have to say so for you are under my cruel strength and nerves.We are all not born in yesterday with this type of relationships.With the invention of internet and cellfones busy day and age is no longer difficult to carry more than one relationship.Accessibility to willing partners has become easier than ever.How to be strong but firm to a cheater partner?Give chances to cheat you but list all the details that you know .

2007-12-14 23:03:52 · 4 answers · asked by BitchEmpress 1 in Singles & Dating

Theres this guy and we went out for about 7 months in total because he kept ending it and starting it again, and im still not over him properly, but ive told him how i feel and hes just said nothing, but he still seems to talk to me, and push and hit me and stuff on purpose but he says he likes someone else and im dead confused can someone help me please ?!

2007-12-14 23:03:34 · 12 answers · asked by Emma :) 2 in Singles & Dating

hav u ever caught your GF or BF cheating on u with a close friend
or relative???? if so what did u do bout it????

2007-12-14 23:03:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i need some ideas to spice up the routine between me and my bf. any ideas please? before this question gets removed. heehee. or any websites that may be useful to this question are welcomed. thanks all!

2007-12-14 23:02:58 · 2 answers · asked by thegangygirl 1 in Singles & Dating

there are alot of girls around me and they are with me either because i have a better educational understanding or they like me. it is in the school and a lot of girls are around me and also i am good on my education
what do u think?

2007-12-14 23:01:51 · 4 answers · asked by medajar 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you feel more free to write with computer to people than to talk to them?
What is the positive things it makes you feel?

2007-12-14 23:00:17 · 6 answers · asked by Positive P 6 in Family

Im 25 n av jus been told to stay out of the girl i loves life! I sent her a txt telling her i was unhappy that she told me she didnt want a boyf n she sent me a txt back saying im bitter n twisted n2 leave her alone 4ever. I av been friends wiv her for 18 months, shes beautiful. We'd cuddle, hold hands, kiss on the lips(just pecs). I realised i loved her after a year n a bit she has lots of attention from guys n she split her boyf7 months ago, he was a jerk. I had2tell her i loved her.. more than friends. I was scared as ive never had a girlfriend n when i told girls in the past i like them, they dont reject me. Im overweight but have personality. I plucked up courage to tell her and she returned my feelings, i was soo happy. We kissed ncuddled all night, when i touched her she told me 'no' so i stopped, i was happy to wait aslong as she's happy. We were2 meet the next day but she didnt turn up, didnt answer my calls, 3wks later she has a new guy ntxt me just friends. What did i do??

2007-12-14 22:59:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Husband died and soon i cant pay the mortgage. Have the house up for sale but no buyers. How long can i stay?? thanks

2007-12-14 22:55:49 · 3 answers · asked by oldbabe 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-14 22:54:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i cant go out because i am not allowed and i am 16 yeard OLD
i am a girl who has not had a boyfriend for 2 years
i want to have fun
i am a girl who has a mother who tells me wat 2 do
i am a girl who is getting mad
I AM A GIRL A YOUNG TEENAGER WHO NEEDS HEEEELPPPP

2007-12-14 22:50:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-14 22:49:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I lost touch with a good friend in Melbourne, Aus. I believe the suburb he lives in is called Southbank. Are there any sites asides whitepages.com.au to try to locate people on? I live in the United States, so its hard.

2007-12-14 22:44:34 · 3 answers · asked by Jackie _ 2 in Friends

Me and my bf broke up after 2 months and while i was going out with him my friends ( including my best friends ) made sooo much fun of him and called him gay. Well he wants me back but hes going out with a girl already. And he broke up with her for me and asked me out I said sure... but then i guess he doesn't know who to choose me or that other chick. and my best friend Lauryn told me that if this relationship lasts for more than a week she will never talk to me ever again. And this other dude Aaron told me that he can't talk to me anymor ebecause I like my ex again and Aaron says hes gay and stuff just cuz hes a male cheerleader, and at times he can totally be a jerk but thats just how guys are. So do you know what I should do because my list is family Boyfriends/best friends and then friends so i can't choose between my boyfriend and my best friend.

2007-12-14 22:44:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

First off, I know this question sounds a little juvenile, and for the record I don't consider myself a stud. But there are many very unattractive couples out there, and when I see them walking around the mall pushing their strollers, my mind can't help but envision the act required to conceive this child. And what I see troubles me.

I understand the "beauty is in the eyes of the beholder" answer, and the "sex is about love" answer. But sex IS undoubtably physical. You can't get around that. And for argument's sake, let's just assume that the partner is genuinely physically repulsed by his or her mate. How does the actual sex act take place without physical attraction, especially when making a baby isn't the goal?

2007-12-14 22:34:43 · 29 answers · asked by swollen_goat 2 in Singles & Dating

What is the best valentines gift to get a 14 yearold girl?

2007-12-14 22:33:06 · 2 answers · asked by spider.man123 2 in Other - Family & Relationships