you slept with them, then you realise that you did not love them and you just liked them alot.and how can you ever trust you feelings again?
2007-12-14 23:37:41 · 13 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its called lust, It tricks you into thinking you have strong feelings and then when you have satisfied your lust you realise thats all it was.
2007-12-14 23:41:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never had this happen. However, something must've lead you up to sleeping with that person. Therefore to continue the relationship, and find that love you need to research the thing that led you to this person. If you look into what started this 'love' than you will find out what you really thought you fell in love with in the first place and keep focus on that to continue... if you feel it is a lost cause than leave it.
2007-12-14 23:41:37 · answer #2 · answered by Living In Fast Forward 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't move so quickly. Having a compatible sex partner isn't the only factor that determines whether or not you're in love with them. My guess is that you were never truly in love to begin with.
2007-12-14 23:44:25 · answer #3 · answered by Dogchic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be cashing in the goodie chips if you don't respect your partner. Sounds trite, but now you're going to look like a guy who hits it and quits it to all her friends and a few of yours, while she's going to be hating your guts.
Best to find out you like her in many ways before finding out what she's like in bed.
2007-12-14 23:42:49 · answer #4 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just cause a person makes a mistak once it dosnt mean it will repet it self and the best thing to do is to keep the bedroom till you get to know that person becouse alot of us misunderstand our fellings this days when it cames to love. always think with your head first i know its hard but its for the best..
2007-12-14 23:44:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy question. Just sleep with anyone you like, even just a little bit. Eventually you'll find someone you love.
2007-12-14 23:43:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just did trust your feelings,it told you that you wheren't in love.Not all things we can see upfront.I married a women for 17yrs. and then found out she was cheating.For 17yrs. I thought I had my soulmate but soulmates don't cheat as my daughter would say.
2007-12-14 23:42:52 · answer #7 · answered by ath4554 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that a great many people have felt like that,
For me it was the moment I realized they made me complete.
Thanks :)
Sometimes we're in lust not love.
2007-12-15 00:08:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find the opposite actually. I've only ever had the one partner, but I often think that we are not meant to be together - that is until we have sex.....
2007-12-14 23:42:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep.... it was called "no chemistry in bed"...and I stopped the relationship right after that.
2007-12-14 23:41:48 · answer #10 · answered by Racer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋