Family & Relationships - 14 December 2007

Okay, so there's this girl named Hannah. I liked her for the better part of this year. simple, right? well, 4 weeks ago, I basically was really nice to her (you know complement wise, etc), cause I was gonna ask her out the following week, and that's just how it was. Then, that weekend, she told me she was going out with some guy named John. I was mildly heartbroken, but I was okay with it. One day tho, a guy told me that she made it up, lied to everyone so I wouldn't ask her out. When I told her exactly what I had heard, she folded,said that she was sorry, that she didn't want to reject me coz she thought it might hurt me, and she might have lost me as a friend. She wants to be "just friends, beause ur a great guy and all, but I don't like you in the same way," I told her I'd talk to her later...

What should I do? Ignore her forever, as she isn't a good friend if she does something that? Forget she lied, keep acting as tho everything is normal, but move on? I'm still attached but...

2007-12-14 20:04:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 18, I got in trouble. My dad grounds me and makes me start to pay rent. I don't mind that much. It gives me an extra incentive to move my bum *** out right? Anyway... He wants me to go on a family vacation later this month. I can't go because I need to pay the rent. But then he says he would pay for me to go. I'm really confused. Is he doing the right thing? I mean he wants me to pay rent and then he's gonna pay some of the rent for me if I go on the trip.... Is this confusing anybody else? I'm so confused. So my question is what should I do? Should I go on the trip or should I stay and work?

2007-12-14 20:02:53 · 7 answers · asked by andrewmikol 3 in Family

we where very much in love, however she all of a sudden fell out of love with me. started seeing other people, so did I, now we are both alone, and i know i still love her, and idont know why she doesnt feel the same

2007-12-14 20:02:49 · 9 answers · asked by Jiggy 1 in Singles & Dating

If she IS ready for sex with him. I would imagine that the boyfriend would want to know before being intimate with the girl.

2007-12-14 19:59:43 · 19 answers · asked by Mizzy Hunt 3 in Singles & Dating

This is the hardest thing I've ever had to do . Visits 1-2 times a month. Limited phone calls, letters make me sad and cry. I miss him terribly. Everyone tells me I need to let him go. We've been together almost 1 1/2 yr. We still love each other but it's unfair to either to be together if we can't have a normal relationship. His charge was against someone in my family. I can't be loyal to both. Opinions, please.

2007-12-14 19:58:16 · 14 answers · asked by Jasmine 1 in Singles & Dating

No, it is not me.

2007-12-14 19:57:27 · 35 answers · asked by Janina 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-14 19:55:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

honetly if you must ask me i think it does when the boy walks in wearing a bra and his boxers it really really turns me on.
is this wrong in any way?

2007-12-14 19:51:49 · 23 answers · asked by Sara J 1 in Singles & Dating

I don´t know if I just don´t want them or that I am not ready, however I´ll be 33 this month...
my situation:
*+long, stable and good relationship with husband
+3 bedroom flat
+husband is currently out of work, but is looking for a new job and never takes a long time to find another good hob
+I am at college, but will finsh in 1 year
+no family or friends nearby

so what do you think? what should definately improve/change or are they just excuses??

2007-12-14 19:49:10 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If the girl you like have a boyfriend and she likes you too
tell you that she is going to break up with her boyfriend coz she feels like he is not right for her and that s the reason why she can't kiss you coz she feel guilty.............

how would you feel ?

2007-12-14 19:43:03 · 5 answers · asked by LANNA 2 in Singles & Dating

its just I see alot of girls dating older guys. why is that. also im way mature for my age but Im not intrested in younger girls. talking about getting the short end of the stick lol

2007-12-14 19:42:23 · 28 answers · asked by Joho 7 in Singles & Dating

Granted this was long distance and we were both involved with other people...Got over it, moved on...Now he is back...But I say, you leave when things get complicated, don't bother coming back, life is complicated, and so is love...U don't have the balls for it, I don't want you for my man...who agrees? and who doesn't? No more chances...

2007-12-14 19:42:13 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband has been playing an online game with me for sometime now. He was flirting with this married woman (you'd think she would know better). I saw it with my own eyes but didn't see it as important and I thought I should stop him anyway, so I did and everything was fine except she use to send tell to him really late at night it was very annoying.... anyway I find out that he gave her his email at work or some other email for her to mail him and he says its nothing, its just about raiding. Do I really look that dumb? anyway I kind of knew he was talking to her another way but now am sure and it really ticked me off that he would deceive me for "nothing, just raid talk". I mean after confronting him he brought flowers to apologise but all they do is remind me of his deception and now he is still grouping with her online even after all I have been through and he calls me a ***** and a cow after I ask him about it again. I feel abused and disrespected.

2007-12-14 19:42:03 · 12 answers · asked by Sarah 4 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so today being the end of the semester i got a girls number from my class...it wasnt really anything serious between be n her but we sometimes talked b4 class about school and stuff..we got along with each other too but like i said nothing too serious...so i was wondering if i should call or txt..i mean i have tried txt girls instead of calling but it hast really worked out so i guess calling would be good...any girls wanna give me advice...i wont see her because the semester ended...but i am leaving for vacation for like 3 weeks...should i call b4 i leave or after i come back...thanx

2007-12-14 19:37:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do you stop loving someone after 16 years and 5 kids?? I am so mad at my ex for so many things, I just can't seem to stop loving him. How has he stopped loving me??

2007-12-14 19:36:50 · 10 answers · asked by bettys5incali 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm not in this situation, I've just known friends who have.

2007-12-14 19:34:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If you knew ahead of time your future in laws were not so nice would you still marry that person?

2007-12-14 19:29:52 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am currently with a guy who is really a loser. He leaves me at home with the kids while he goes out and parties, and he doesn't have a job. Is it wrong of me to be open to offers from other men, if I know that it is not going to work out with the one I am with. The only reason I haven't left yet is because we are living with my family right now and he has nowhere to go.

2007-12-14 19:28:37 · 14 answers · asked by Amber D 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife has never really enjoyed sex with me or anybody else. At the beginning of our relationship this was okay but now, years later it is very bothersome. She wants to have sex with me but I feel it is only because she feels it is her duty...she does not enjoy it. I do not enjoy having sex when she is not enjoying it. Would it be damaging to the relationship for me to just masturbate?

2007-12-14 19:21:21 · 28 answers · asked by nwcowgirl024 3 in Marriage & Divorce

expensive but I want it to be unique...any suggestions on what to get her? She is around 40 to 50 years old.

2007-12-14 19:19:11 · 9 answers · asked by LiFe is WONDERFUL 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-14 19:18:55 · 13 answers · asked by icy 1 in Weddings

the girl you date and love comes and says "i want a threesome with a man". would you do it?

2007-12-14 19:18:28 · 33 answers · asked by jaded girl 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-14 19:17:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She said i didnt meen to hurt you why do you girls say that when u know that you have hurt us. im really down many people say girls arent worth it but why do i feel this she's worth everything in the world and more?

2007-12-14 19:12:02 · 14 answers · asked by eclig777 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm lonely, and I'm afraid I might get desperate and get with this guy who is into me, who is also lonely and desperate and I think crazy. Like I think something might be mentally wrong with him.

So how do I stop being lonely and desperate? Before I get myself into a situation I don't want to be in.

2007-12-14 19:09:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been dating my guy about 3 months, I go to his often really no need to think there is another women, but after i spend the night he makes me leave with him in the morning, he dosent think enough of me to let me sleep and just lock up when he leaves..

2007-12-14 19:09:08 · 11 answers · asked by latora_king 1 in Singles & Dating

After all, I barely know the man. I have met him on Yahoo Answers. We speak on IM and he is really sweet. He now says he loves me and wants to send my visa and flight tickets over to me in Australia.

I said I have to meet him first before I can decide. I told him I am scared and he says people in the US and Los Angeles, where he is are cool.

I have only started to come into my own and become more independent. I am scared of travelling alone as I have never been overseas before and do not really know him.

I am also very close to my mum and help her out and she would miss me and be worried about me.

On the other hand, it sounds like an adventure and a new life. He is also very wealthy and I love him (as much as I can to someone I have never met)

I have until end of January to make my mind up. He wants me to have two kids and says I don't need to work. Just look after the kids and says I can send money to my family.
I have a good life here and am just starting to make it.

2007-12-14 19:05:03 · 10 answers · asked by Janina 1 in Singles & Dating

I was wondering what everyone thought about this question.

2007-12-14 18:58:09 · 31 answers · asked by xxeastbaycorexx 2 in Marriage & Divorce

At my school we have an index card that they give you and the put a check if you did something wrong. I drew on someone's homwork and was about to get a check until i i remebered that i left my card at home. If you leave it at home you would have to pay $25 dollers. Well, my friend let me borrow her card and the teacher didnt notice that it was hers so she checked it.At the end of the day, the teacher picked up the cards and my friend didnt have her card, i did. I turned it in and she had to go to the princable's office. I feel bad. What should i do?

2007-12-14 18:55:26 · 3 answers · asked by Mandy 1 in Friends

I had a crush on a guy for 6 years since I was 10.

I do have suitors during my secondary school (high school) days, but by then I've already developed philophobia, fear of falling in love. Thus, I always gave cold attitude towards guys who were trying to get close to me.

I was 16 when I finally got over my long term crush, because I decided to focus on my studies, and I told myself this, "Forget it, perhaps I am destined to be single."

Later, I went to a post-secondary institution for two years. I focused on my studies a lot, I completely ignored about getting into relationship till the point that some of my classmates thinks I'm gay because I seemed to lack of interest when they talked about guys. But anyway, I graduated with a GPA of 3.847 and got my *** into the best Art College in Asia.

Now here comes the problem,

2007-12-14 18:49:22 · 13 answers · asked by Sam 2 in Singles & Dating