I'm lonely, and I'm afraid I might get desperate and get with this guy who is into me, who is also lonely and desperate and I think crazy. Like I think something might be mentally wrong with him.
So how do I stop being lonely and desperate? Before I get myself into a situation I don't want to be in.
2007-12-14 19:09:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have tons of friends I hang out with, but I'm still lonely.
2007-12-14 19:16:42 · update #1
only thingi can do is give another hug ((hugs)) and u are welcome to send me a messege anytime.
2007-12-14 19:49:31 · answer #1 · answered by Aaron M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Realize you are your own best friend. There is nobody in the universe as unique and special as you. Own your magnificence. Start reading, take up a hobby or a sport that involves others. Look for those little successes that tell you how great you really are. Join a club. Go to church. There are many people who feel lonely, particularly at this time of the year. The truth is, you are never alone, you always have yourself as an excellent companion. Learn to love yourself, to accept yourself as you are and you will find others will be attracted to you.
2007-12-14 19:16:27 · answer #2 · answered by judgebill 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Why be lonely and desperate? I mean seriously, I was a loner until I was 16. I look back at those times, and sometimes I slightly miss it. Now is the time to enjoy life, and not worry about petty things. If you realize theirs a problem, then there might be.
2007-12-14 19:14:20 · answer #3 · answered by Living In Fast Forward 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Been there, done that. Find something, anything you are interested in. Do something to pamper yourself. Surround yourself with positive influences, people, music, movies. DO NOT be alone with this guy you think is crazy. He probably is. If you become physical with him you may encourage him and never get rid of him. Trust me on that.
2007-12-14 19:18:18 · answer #4 · answered by Jasmine 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think i am like that too.. cuz i get depressed & lonely and i need someone...friends, bf, best friend, etc..and when i meet a guy and hes sweet & nice even if he is a bad person i still talk to him cuz im alone.. but im not gonna settle for less anymore.....im gonna let a guy find me who RIGHT for me...and also meet some girl friends! :)
2007-12-14 19:15:47 · answer #5 · answered by babydollfacee 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hang out with your friends. Guy's aren't everything and if this particular guy might something mentally wrong with him than I advise you to not date him. I was reading this book and said that it was horrible if your life was only centered on one thing and one of them was bf/gf centered. I know everyone says this but "There's someone out there for everybody"
2007-12-14 19:14:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go to the sex-toy store and purchase the jack-rabbit. You will never feel lonely or desperate for awhile!!
2007-12-14 19:13:24 · answer #7 · answered by M76 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
ummm
i guess u can be frends with mee
im new to this yahoo thing
yup
so just hit me up
and we can talk
2007-12-14 19:12:58 · answer #8 · answered by shark 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
make some more friends and dont rush into a relationship you "shouldn't/don't want to" be in
2007-12-14 19:13:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
go to a party :
Find a boyfriend/girlfriend
2007-12-14 19:14:05 · answer #10 · answered by MetalFreak 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋