I am currently with a guy who is really a loser. He leaves me at home with the kids while he goes out and parties, and he doesn't have a job. Is it wrong of me to be open to offers from other men, if I know that it is not going to work out with the one I am with. The only reason I haven't left yet is because we are living with my family right now and he has nowhere to go.
2007-12-14 19:28:37 · 14 answers · asked by Amber D 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's wrong to cheat but I would say that it would be best if you divorced this loser. It seems that the parties are more important than his family. You are living with your family, maybe he needs to go live with his.
2007-12-14 21:39:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is never right to live with someone who is not good to you reguardless of the circumstances. Like a wife that wont leave a husband that beats her, her excuses is always I have no where to go.
Do yourself a favor as well as your kids. End that relationship and look for a Decent guy that loves kids and you and quit wasting your life and your childrens life with a loser, But under no circumstances should you bounce around between men if you are with one man. If you are living with your family, kick him out and forget him he will never change.
2007-12-15 01:58:58 · answer #2 · answered by john d 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-11-27 01:42:51 · answer #3 · answered by fiddler 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be true to yourself. You clearly know what makes you happy and it's not the current situation. Don't feel bad for him. Give him 30 days notice, that's a generous offer itself. Definitely keep yourself open. Put yourself and your kids first you obviously don't need a loser to bring you down but rather a man who can pick your life up.
2007-12-14 19:34:16 · answer #4 · answered by xyz 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
If you can't help him get a job, then you should get one yourself.
So you think he is a real loser, yet you are still with him. How come?
Perhaps you guys are just right for each other. That is why.
2007-12-14 19:39:09 · answer #5 · answered by Hani 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just because you don't like him is no reason to be unfaithful and break your promise to him (to be). Break up with him and give him a decent timeframe to find his own place no more than a month. You might want to wait till after the holidays so there isn't angry-awkwardness. If he has people to go out and party with, he can crash their couches.
2007-12-14 19:52:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would not cheat on him. I would tell him that he things are not working and that he needs to get a job so he can move out. Where does he get the money to go out? If it is from you, stop right now.
2007-12-14 19:34:30 · answer #7 · answered by kim h 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Let the loser go so he can find a job!
2007-12-14 19:37:47 · answer #8 · answered by lekeshia s 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
stop supporting him! tell him he needs to get a job,and find a place to go with a friend or other faimly,as long as you are doing what you are doin he will never get a job, and he will not leave! he has it made, whats he doin at the parties? he might be with someone else, so put your foot down and tell him he needs to go its not working!
2007-12-14 23:12:33 · answer #9 · answered by allan l 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think it's wrong to cheat on a person no matter what the circumstance. you should tell him that you are unhappy and that you want to see other people. maybe just hearing that will make him want to change and be a better man. if not, it's his loss. just be upfront and honest about everything you do.
2007-12-14 19:32:23 · answer #10 · answered by Ex-Blondie 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋