Family & Relationships - 14 December 2007

I have bean having problems with my husband for a while now, and am tired of him getting home at midnight and for me to know that he gets out of work around 6pm. I got ready for a divorce am ready for it as well. By the difference of Religion he dosen't belive on fixing things because of a Child together, but in my principals I do. But am tired and don't want to go further with this person, am ready to move on. He is agressive and am affraid of his reaccion, How Do I tell him I want the Divorce?
Thanks For ur help.
An unhappy Wife, soon to be single mom...

2007-12-14 01:31:40 · 21 answers · asked by Iveth 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i had a baby boy when i was eighteen and as a result ,me and my ex where always fighting.we broke up and i was told to keep away from her but i still paided her csa money.i done my best too give her a new home and stuff,but i was young and brought up with drink ,of which i thought was the norm and now i regret all the drinking i done then,i was too inature.anyway the child is 8 now and i sent another card to her address and she phoned me and says dont bother anymore ,i also said too her have you told our son that im his real dad?she went no im not telling him till he is mature enough and why should i.things were getting brought up about the past and i said we were too young and hated each other and i was just concerned about seeing my son.she told me too keep away at eighteen and she sent me solicerters letters which scared me as i was still young and shocked at the age i was so i kept away she never phoned or replied to cards nothing.so now i want to see my son as he is biologiacally.

2007-12-14 01:30:50 · 4 answers · asked by mark g 2 in Singles & Dating

ok well i havn't talk to this kid like in 7 months and i was looking at myspace and saw his page. so i wanna send him a message to see hows he doing but i don't know what to say!! can ya'll help me out a little. god bless you all

2007-12-14 01:20:32 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-12-14 01:17:53 · 4 answers · asked by sharmaz_translator 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't mind sleeping in the buff, I pretty much do anyway( I only normally wear boxers to bed).
So now I figure whats the point? problem being though is I share a room with my older brother. We've both seen eachothers equipment on dozens of occasions, and I know for a fact he sleeps naked all the time. We're comfortable enough to walk naked around each other. Like I said he sleeps naked, and we share a room, but for some reason I feel slightly a little bit funny (tiniest little niggling feeling in the very back of my head)about sleeping naked around him, for such an extended period of time(round 8-10 hours a night). Then theres the other feeling that says don't be stupid and do it.
We're like the best mates ever, and neither of us has anything the other hasn't seen, so I don't think he'd mind to much.
What do y'all reckon?
Have you ever been naked around a brother/sister/friend before? and did you /would you be comfortable with it?

2007-12-14 01:11:18 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I live in NY and I have to have papers served to someone in Florida. How would I go about this?

2007-12-14 01:07:34 · 10 answers · asked by afuller454 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 20 years old. My mom was married 2 years ago to a man that she has been with for 14 years. Our family tends to be very traditional with events such as weddings. To be honest? My moms wedding was BORING! There were about 300 people invited, and my mom didnt even get to dance becuase my grandma told her she "HAD TO" go around to all of the tables and visit with the guests.
NOT my kid of wedding.

I dont dance! but I dont want to spend my wedding walking around saying hello to people who i havnt seen since i was in diapers. My fiance and I have not set a date yet (I'd like to finish college, i have 2 more years) but we have a binder and notebook that we're putting some ideas into.

I dont want to go TOO overboard, and I wont have a lot of money (not near as much as my mom) for the wedding. My fiance and I will have to pay out of our own pockets (My father passed away, and my step father wont help)

(More details coming...)

2007-12-14 01:06:59 · 12 answers · asked by ? 4 in Weddings

how can you get some annoying girl in your class from school to shut the F*C* up?!?1 need some advice before I punch her in the damn face...!!

2007-12-14 01:00:27 · 30 answers · asked by lil_ms_attitude122 2 in Friends

Now, don't say for us to just say no.
It's my inlaws retarded trim a tree party that they have every yr. It is so lame. I've gotten out of it for about 6yrs, because of work, but now they "know" that I will be home in time for the party this year. My children don't even want to go. We are not close with them. Though, it is my husband's family. My children have been put on the back burner with them, and the other grandchildren have all the attention. My children call to come visit, and time and time again, they turn them down. My husband and boys probably will go, but I don't want to.
That side of the family has REALLY neglected our children.

2007-12-14 01:00:10 · 6 answers · asked by Mom of 2 great boys 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

I luv a girl since we were in grade 4 ... I was 9 yro ....
In Grade 7 ... we were best frndz for about 1 1/2 years ..
@ the beginning of Grade 8 ... I told her that I love her
Some weeks later .. She said that she luvs me
But Last Thurs. She said that we cant love each other ... She said i was playin wiz ur heart .. And we r too young 2 love " we r 13 "
I CRIED .. I remember the last time i cried 4 yrs ago .. when my grandma died .... I cried heavily ... But i still luv her .. What shall i do ??

2007-12-14 00:59:07 · 20 answers · asked by .. LeVampire .. 1 in Friends

Someone told me that if you get married in a pure white dress that it means you are a virgin and if you get married in a ivory dress that means you were previously married and you are getting married for your second time and that if you wear a colorful dress that means you have kids and/or this is your thrid or fourth and so on wedding.

2007-12-14 00:58:09 · 28 answers · asked by Tiffany 3 in Weddings

2007-12-14 00:57:58 · 26 answers · asked by bluemancity 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay, here's some details: he waltzed in one Fri night and announced he was "leaving the relationship." After I picked my jaw up off the floor, he left and started moving his stuff out of the house that weekend. That was March 2004. Oct would've been our 19th anniversary. I'll call him "Glen."

Now it's almost 2008 and I still miss him. I'm in another relationship with an incredible man, James. He and I are really more compatable than Glen and I were. I'm happy and doing well except that I'm very in touch with a part of me that still misses Glen.

Of course I would never go back to Glen, not even if he asked me. But I some days I miss him all day long, and have these stinkin sweet dreams about him at night.

I'm afraid I'm not being "really present" to my current relationship because this part of me can't let go of my ex. Should I be completely over him by now, i.e. no poignant dreams at night and no achy feeling in my heart when I think about him?

2007-12-14 00:55:28 · 17 answers · asked by Acorn 7 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I was broke up for 3 months..he started talking to some other girl but nothing ever happened between them.We have been back together for almost 3 months(been together almost 6yrs) I cant stop thinking about him and this girl. It runs though my head all the time. What if's..Does he think about her?. Why do I keep doing this? I'm driving myself crazy please help

2007-12-14 00:54:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Every morning for the past 2 years my wife runs down to log onto her work computer as SOON as i get up to get into the shower. She comes running up when i get out. She says she is woring , yes she does work from home in the mornning but at 5:00 ?? iF I HAPPEN TO WALK IN ON HER WHILE SHE IS STILL ON THE SCREEN IN THE MORNING, SHE WILL CLICK IT TO ANOTHER PAGE. I beleive that she is readding personal e mails i am not to see. She did have an affair about 6 years ago.........

2007-12-14 00:54:15 · 13 answers · asked by danomanfishing 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was looking on my boyfriends computer to see if he had been looking at wedding rings. Instead I found out that he had been looking at w4m personals on craiglist. Is there any chance that he is doing this for a cheap thrill? When I ask I know that he will just blow this off and be upset that I looked at his history on the computer.

2007-12-14 00:52:19 · 16 answers · asked by kind 2 in Singles & Dating

when a friend of yours, that you know can't stand children, starts complimenting and praising your child in front of you because they think that's the way to butter you up because they want something from you?

May I add that I didn't choose to be her friend; she declared herself my friend when she had noone else.

2007-12-14 00:49:57 · 12 answers · asked by GirlUK07 3 in Friends

help!

2007-12-14 00:39:30 · 10 answers · asked by cheer4byrd 1 in Friends

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Should i feel offended as i work with a very outragous flirt and ever since shes seen me going to lunch with my male friend shes been flirting with him constantly and everytime he comes down they flirt like mad ( hes a big flirt) and when i try to talk to him i get the impression hed rather talk to her hes got a gf. I dont know if its me or her as she seems to hog the attention of every guy and to be honest i find it not nice. She doesnt even like him its just cause he knows me

2007-12-14 00:39:19 · 5 answers · asked by Jo S 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

What does he mean by this?
My boyfriend and I made the rule of *No sex till we're at least 16 (I'm 15) months ago(his idea). The other day we got very into making out and it was extremely heated. I think he had an orgasm. Wait, what am I saying, he had an orgasm.
I was teasing him in school, asking if he would sleep with me tonight à la "voulez vous coucher avec moi..." At first he was laughing with me, then he just kissed me very pasionately and asked me whether I was kidding or not, "because by now you could probably make me beg...I still have my rules, and I don't want to any sooner...I want time, but...god..." this was followed by another passionate kiss.
I asked him if I could seduce him if I wanted to, he said, "Apsolutely."

When I asked him how he knew, he just said, "I could tell that you could..." I told him that I don't think that I have that much power over him, he replied with, "But, you do!"

What exactly did he mean?

2007-12-14 00:33:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well to start I'm 25 and my fiance is 25. Our sex life is good 75% of the time. The 25% is when she is on her period. During that 7 days my sexual hunger grows and grows. Am I in the wrong for asking for one oral experence during that 7 day period? When we were dating she had no problem doing that once a week but ever since we got engaged oral has not happened but maybe once per month. Last night we got into a verbal fight and I asked if she would help me out orally and she said no she didnt want to. So I said thats fine dont expect me to go down on you then. Am I asking for to much? We have had talks before and both have agreed to compermize I would not ask for sex as much and she would be more sexual. I think I have kept up on my deal but in my eyes she hasnt. I dont know what to do. I am willing to try anything. What works to keep both people happy?

2007-12-14 00:23:35 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im 45. As far back as I can remember I never knew what I wanted to be, I never was great at anyone thing except a witty comeback. I've never felt I belong or had a calling or inspiration really. My kids are what I have done right. They will be gone to college in a few weeks on their own, and I have yet to get a life and don't know how to find one. I was widowed when I was 29, never had a healthy relationship since might not even recognize one if I saw it. Have worked many jobs but just for the paychecks really. What do I do now?

2007-12-14 00:17:11 · 4 answers · asked by deubee 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

you should act your age not your shoesize


and my age is same as my shoesize... size 18 hzhhaaahahhah

2007-12-14 00:16:52 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Concerned about her relationship, a woman approaches her doctor and says, "Doc, I'm getting married this weekend and my fiance thinks I'm a virgin & I'm not! Is there anything you can do to help me?"

The doctor says, "Medically, no, but here's something you can try. On the wedding night, when you're getting ready for bed, take an elastic band and slide it to your upper thigh. When your husband puts it in, snap the elastic band and tell him it's your virginity snapping."

The woman loves this idea and knows her hubby will fall for this. They have a beautiful wedding and retire to the honeymoon suite. The wife gets ready for bed in the bathroom, slips the elastic band up her leg, finishes preparing and climbs into bed with her man.

Things begin to progress - her hubby "slips it in" and just then she snaps the elastic band. The hubby asks, "What the heck was that?"

The wife explains, "Oh nothing honey, that was just my virginity snapping."

The husband cries out, "Well snap it again, it's got my balls!"

2007-12-14 00:06:46 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

We used to be the best of friends.
Go out everyday
Hold hands.
And somehow,One day...She began ignoring me
She hated me
I had no idea what I had done...
I was her good friend... The best actually
She didnt tell me the reason..
She just walked out of my life
Did she know I began to like her?
Did she know I actually loved her.
What was my fault?
What had I done?
When I began to have feelings for her she just walked outta my life
Life had shattered for me
Some part of me had died.
However, I still love her
Its been 3 months.
Im a girl too.
She kinda accepts the gay/lesbian community
But she ran away just like that...
I definitely didnt tell her abt my orientation

2007-12-14 00:06:19 · 6 answers · asked by Samantha G 1 in Friends

So I have a female friend; we're very close, I love her to bits and she knows it. Problem is this, she has a bf, but some days she'll appear to be hinting towards more - she put her legs in my lap for a friendly fondle while chatting, rest her head on my shoulder, hold hands, subtely invite me to play with her hair, etc. Other days she'll come and go without coming anywhere near me and look almost horrified if I attempt to instigate any contact all. I don't want to proactively come between them, but on the other hand if she wants to drift my way I'd be a very happy bunny. But what's with the hot and cold thing?

2007-12-14 00:03:40 · 5 answers · asked by SITSC 1 in Singles & Dating

This friend has hurt me lately because of the way theyv been acting but I havent had enough money or enough time to get them a pressie or card and Im seeing them tonight and have nothing to present them for their bday lol what dya think i shud do lolol

2007-12-14 00:00:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends