Family & Relationships - 14 December 2007

Because I told him she was to old for him. He is 25
and she is 40. She says I am in the apartment too much and that he does not feel comfortable having sex with me there. What should I do? I also told him he should have not discussed my private comments with her. Do you agree?

2007-12-14 04:34:29 · 37 answers · asked by Michael 1 in Singles & Dating

I believe everyone is "addicted" to something. Work, church, sports, men. What do you dream about. What do you think of 1st thing in the morning? What thought or habit helps you through life and makes everyday worth living?

2007-12-14 04:31:08 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I don't have any friends and there is only me (and my parents who've gone off for the day to Cardiff), so any realistic suggestions would be helpful,i'm 25 and finding birthdays these days a grim prospect as I never do anything special, thanks!

2007-12-14 04:29:48 · 12 answers · asked by Rainbowz 6 in Friends

I bought this girl from work that I like a coffee and she wrote to me: "I don't drink coffee but since you were the one to get it for me I had to drink the entire cup.." what should be my response?

2007-12-14 04:27:04 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-14 04:26:43 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok - I'd really like some input/perspective from a few non-drinkers on this one. A good friend I've known since childhood is a Christian minister. I'm not religious, but I do my best to respect others' beliefs - especially friends and family - even if I don't share those beliefs. However, I'm having a hard time respecting the rationale behind my friend's decision not to attend my wedding. He's opposed to drinking alcohol under any circumstances, so he refuses to attend an event that serves alcohol.

Why can he not attend and drink some of the many non-alcoholic drinks available? His decision not to come hurts my feelings, and it reeks of "My beliefs are superior, and I'm better than you".

I have (religious) non-drinkers in my family. They're all happy to come to the wedding and drink water, coffee, sodas, and punch. Am I over-reacting, or is my friend's behavior as rude and arrogant as I think it is? I think that his snub looks far worse than being seen near alcohol.

2007-12-14 04:21:15 · 31 answers · asked by SE 5 in Weddings

Do any of you agree with her belief?

2007-12-14 04:20:49 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This christmas is gonna be crap. My family doesnt talk to each other and this christmas for my christmas dinner, there will be three of us, me, my dad, and my mum i have an older brother but hes going to go out with his mates
What do i do???
How do i get through it???????

2007-12-14 04:20:17 · 11 answers · asked by BB 2 in Family

Oh, and what does it mean for you?
For example: crankiness, unsightly red stains on the sofa, etc.

2007-12-14 04:19:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

In adult movies it always appears white. Is this normal?

2007-12-14 04:18:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband has never been the emotional type. However, lately, I have been going through a rough period in my life and when I talk to him about it I get absolutely no comfort. He just gets angry at me at says I am overemotional. What can I do to get him to try and sympathize with me and just lend me a shoulder to cry on?

2007-12-14 04:15:00 · 17 answers · asked by Beana 2 in Marriage & Divorce

when i cry or say what he is doin hurts me, he doesn't care and just tells me to go with someone else and say he told me he is not right for me. but i love him but he treats me like this and i tell him he is wrong but he doesn't listen.

what do i do? will ignoring him show if he loves me by callin me. how can i see if he loves me, cos i truely love him but i want to get married, and i can wait to marry him as long as at the end we do get married but if he doesn't love me and is just using me, then i don't want him and need to find a new partner.

what to do, i cry every night. i just want to have somone who loves me for once

2007-12-14 04:12:30 · 11 answers · asked by LALITA 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-14 03:54:43 · 58 answers · asked by stephanie m 1 in Singles & Dating

Why is divorce so hard? Why can't one just accept the fact the other wants out? Why would u wanna be w/ someone that doesn't wanna continue being w/ u? I understand that person may love u, but obviously the feeling is not mutual so why torture urself?

2007-12-14 03:54:16 · 17 answers · asked by ♥Gotta Luv Pure Evil ♥ 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Im a 28 year old man and havent had a proper relationship for 8 years! Ive also smoked weed daily for that long since i split with my first love at 20, actually she wasnt my girlfriend and we just slept together and were best friends for ages! She broke my heart and didnt give a damn! The woman i thought was my soulmate turned out to be the devil! I vowed i wouldnt get hurt again(id been rejected a few times before her-im overweight) and wanted to wait until i found someone truly special! It didnt happen whenever id find someone i like i wouldnt try coz i could tell they werent interested 'like that'! One girl i did like, a friend in uni, i told, she kissed me at first then stood me up the next day! It was then i turned my back on love at 23. Since then the only 'action' ive had is one night stands when im drunk and some fat birds throw themselves on me! Lately i dont believe in love and am starting to loathe my friends to, they discuss me, i know, gossip coz i aint had a relationship

2007-12-14 03:53:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-14 03:47:44 · 11 answers · asked by Snowflake 2 in Family

Her father found out and said he is going to press rape charges.

2007-12-14 03:47:14 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my husband says yes but i say no way.

sallie

2007-12-14 03:47:13 · 30 answers · asked by sallienjim 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i was on the bus the other day and these girls behind me were saying how they hope no "short boys" would come to thier party, after hearing that i was scared that i might fall into the catogory of being "short and ugly boys". This is where i need your help, how short do you girls out there consider to be short? im 5' 6" btw is that considered short to you girls?

2007-12-14 03:46:03 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My brother shares joint custody of his daugter with the mother. My brother gets his daughter every other week Thursday-Monday and every Thursday -Friday.That is the court order. Recently, the mother was kicked out of her home and has been living in different places from friends houses, to mens house etc. My niece is very confused, she has been sleeping on peoples floors, she has bags under her eyes, she is sad and cries a lot. She doesn't know where her home is, she is 6 years old and now her schooling is beginning to suffer too. She is missing after school activities and is having problems with her grades. The teacher has offered to tutor her after school but the mother says she has no time. My brother can't get a hold of the mother and has to return my niece tonight. He doesn't want to b/c the mother has no residence or place to live. What does he do?

2007-12-14 03:43:46 · 3 answers · asked by BUFFCHICK25 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was standing with a group of girls and one of my guy friends walked right through the circle of girls and finally by me, pretending like he wasn't going to even say anything cuz he wasn't looking at me... but he wrapped his arm around mine and kept on walking so I had to go with him until I pulled away.

Later he came up behind me and teasingly pushed me and walked away without saying anything.

Another thing, do guys usually compliment your hair to be nice? This guy has done it 3 times recently, and I'm not sure if he's just being nice or if he's trying to hint that he's intersted in me. He's single and not a player. He can be a flirt, but he's never really flirted with me. Especially in such an obvious way. Although we've been friends a while he's never given me that type of attention. I told him a while ago that I had a crush on him and things were awkward for a bit since we're friends, but now it feels like he changed his mind. What do you guys think? Is he interested in me?

2007-12-14 03:43:34 · 18 answers · asked by iloveyou♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

dose anyone know of anyone by the name of george Hemmings in his late 50s or early 60s they came from liverpool harris drive bootel i woud be so happy if they did to let me know . havent seen them for about 40 years & would like to get intuch

2007-12-14 03:43:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

womans feminine and submissive side! The men get to enjoy seeing their gal in heels, stockings, ruffled undies, and an apron and women love to wear all that frilly stuff. Its a win win for both!
You should be willing and happy to model anything your significant other desires- right!

2007-12-14 03:38:40 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, what would you do if you and your husband could not have children there was nothing that you could do. But want one really bad, A friend offers to have sex with you to get you pregnant and the husband agees to this. No strings attached and the husband would be the father. What effects do you think that this would have in the long run????

2007-12-14 03:36:21 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-14 03:35:24 · 6 answers · asked by kia 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-14 03:32:07 · 18 answers · asked by Supadan 2 in Singles & Dating

So in a recent conversation with family about weddings, I commented that one biggest pet peeve about weddings are the "simon says" songs that everyone seems to play. Ex: the electric slide, the humpy-hump song, the chicken dance, etc. I can't STAND these songs, they annoy me tremendously and have vowed that I dont want the dj to play them at our wedding (even if someone requests them).
I'm not much of a rowdy partier, and I want my wedding to be more casual and classy. I would prefer to have a majority of songs be classics like Sinatra, 40's, 50's and 60's music. A little more love and less rock'n'roll.
Some people think its rude to restrict song play?
What do you think?

I know ultimately its our wedding and my fiance and I will do whatever we want, but I am just curious to see how others feel about it.

2007-12-14 03:31:42 · 36 answers · asked by Mrs. Bethy O. 4 in Weddings

cause when you are kissing your girl outsite all people staring looking you.
What's wrong with that.

2007-12-14 03:31:09 · 2 answers · asked by sonyfan_456 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-14 03:28:38 · 35 answers · asked by Ivory33 6 in Family

There is nothing my our divorce decree stating I can't move.

2007-12-14 03:27:37 · 34 answers · asked by Secret 1 in Marriage & Divorce