Family & Relationships - 14 December 2007

HELP!!! so they have been calling my husband private for 5 years!!! yes..pathetic...its gotten to the point that either we find out who it is or we will end up divorced...i called the service provider and they said i needed to get a (apenant..dont know how to spell it) which i believe is a court order...how do i do this??

2007-12-14 02:30:07 · 36 answers · asked by LyNn 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-14 02:29:40 · 16 answers · asked by michele 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend has been working a lot of overtime this week so he has been coming home way later at night than me when I get off work, well last night I stayed at work about an hour after I got off talking to my cousin because she needed someone to talk to, he tried calling (which he hasn't done all week) I didn't answer because my phone was in my purse in the car, he tried calling for like 30 min then when I was leaving I answered and he asked what I was doing and I said leaving work now, he said why and I told him that I was talking to my cousin he yelled you ******* liar and hung up, when I got home he didn't say a word so I took a shower, when I got out of the shower he was asleep on the couch, he didn't even come to bed he stayed on the couch all night. Then he didn't even wake me and hug and kiss me goodbye before he left for work like usual. I texted him a little while later cause I couldn't get back to sleep and I said I love you, he never texted back. see more details

2007-12-14 02:29:09 · 6 answers · asked by coronaqt2004 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, so me and my gf were at the movies with some friends, and about 20 minutes through we got a lot closer and started cudling...my arm around her, and we were holding hands...but her other hand was on my leg and that was fine..however as i was sort of rubbing her arm like in a romantic way she was doing the same with my leg....but reeeealy slowly...and yeh i'm not sure if she was just in a romantic mood or if she meant something else by it? what you think?

2007-12-14 02:25:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Q i am a young women and my best friend
happends to a be a man which is gr8
we have known each other a year and i love spending time with him obv or he wuld't b my friend
but when were drunk we allways kiss and grope each other
and recently now when were sober we have noticed sexual tension between us and so have our friends by makeing jokes like
when are u gonna get down to it
and will u 2 just admit u want him her ect
but am scared to take it further incase i ruin our friendship
and i think hes the same
but we have no problem snogging each other
has anyone been in this situation
what did u do

2007-12-14 02:24:43 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, I will give you the reader's digest edition of my story. I will be 30 years old next month. I moved back home with my mother 2 years ago when my father passed away to help emotionally as well as financially. I gave up my apartment and placed all of my things in her basement(which flooded so I pretty much lost everything. My brother went off to the military shortly after my father died so I knew she really needed me.

I just recently had a baby (he is 13 weeks old) and my mother has volunteered to watch him on her days off (mon & tue) and pick him up from the sitter on wed & thurs (he is with his dad on fri and me on the weekend(I do not leave my son to go anywhere but work by the way)! Anyway, lately she has been throwing in my face the things she does for me and my son. I have never asked her for anything by the way, she just loves to spend money even though my son doesn't want or need for anything. We have been fighting on a regular basis over the smallest of things.

2007-12-14 02:20:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

And, when you confronted them on it, they lied even more?

2007-12-14 02:19:42 · 9 answers · asked by Rogue 5 in Singles & Dating

i want to invite my friend over during christmas holidays or just before but don't know what to write. any help appreciated.
something like i firmly believe our love is true. i hope to see you one day soon.i'm happy to announce that i have fallen for you.
what do ya think.?

2007-12-14 02:16:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-14 02:15:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm an older brother to a 15-nearly 16 year old male.
We've shared a room for a long time, but several days ago, I was only kind of half asleep and noticed him masturbating by torchlight, In our room. I didn't say anything and just rolled over and went back to sleep, I think he must have stopped because he asked if I was awake when I rolled over, whether or not he kept going I don't know.
I've been doing it since I was 13, no doubt he's been doing it just as long, He's walked in on me doing it a few times by accident, And we've both seen each other naked on a few occasions,
He's also told me he does it, and I've never really batted an eye to any of it, but for some reason, this really gave me a smack in the face.
I still don't know whether to say anything in case I embarress the little bloke, or myself. I know there's nothing wrong with it but this has me well gobsmacked 4 some reason.
What du reckon?
Have u ever caught som1 close 2 u like this?
What did u both do?

2007-12-14 02:15:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a Police Officer and I love to work on cars but I can't find a guy who meets my interests or intimidates me. The last boyfriend I had only dated me cause his friends thought it was cool that I was a COP and he hated that I knew more about cars than he did. Do I have to be a blonde ditzy airhead to get a decent guy?

2007-12-14 02:15:03 · 2 answers · asked by Roadrage96 2 in Singles & Dating

If so how did thre handled it?

2007-12-14 02:13:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my husband was helping her come up the stairs and she acted like she was going to fall but when her other son came to pick her up she used her walker and walked all the way to the car in a hurry. why would she act one way with one and another way with mine

2007-12-14 02:13:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

If a man has just recently ended a long-term relationship & gets involved with someone else is this still considered a rebound relationship & does the man at the time realize that this is what is going on. Also, if a man is seeing a married woman who still is living with her husband can this prolong the honeymoon phase of the relationship because they have to sneak around & do not get to see each other all the time? Can a man continue seeing a married woman for a long period of time without expecting her to choose them over the husband if their goal is to have a monogomous relationship with this person?

2007-12-14 02:11:31 · 4 answers · asked by Mary B 4 in Singles & Dating

i was riased in childrens home .i never had anyone to teach me how to make a turkey dinner .my husband and i have been married 6 yrs .3 of those years he was deployeed ,2 of those went to his family (verrrrrrrry far away ) last yr we had chineese .this yr i really wanna try and do a christmas dinner .i am not the best cook .anaidn ..noone taught me so yr by yr i get better .lol
i have 3 kids ages 8 ,4 and 4.i got a 13 1/2 lbs turkey .good size ?too big?
ok keres my questions ..
how long to defrost ?what temp to cook ?when do i take the insides out ? my husband loves giblet gravy .is everything inside the bird the"giblet "?my friend said to stick an apple inside the bird .(sounded gross ) normal ?
i need the EASIEST fool proof turkey recipet.pls help ty .and
Merry Christmas!

2007-12-14 02:11:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

so here is what i can remember from the poem i wrote:

Hair of gold, Eyes of blue
Please forgive me cuz i love you

Sorry I hurt you, it hurt me too
Please love me cuz i love you

the end

That is part of the poem i wrote. she said she was interested in someone else which i doubt. and i told her i was interested in her awhile ago and told her i didn't like her like dat anymore...she got upset cuz i said in the poem it said love...she e-mailed me saying the following:

J----
you should never say you love someone....especially someone like me...don't ever say you love someone unless ur for sure. u can't be going around telling ppl you love them


So please tell me what i should do???? ladies any ideas

2007-12-14 02:10:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am five months pregnant and seperated from my live in boyfriend.He treats me badly like unplugging the fridge,removing the lights,removing the toilet seat,barricading the living room,spreading stuff in the other room I am using which would affect my health.Its inhumane and do not understand why he is doing this.We even had an altercation where the cops got involve.

2007-12-14 02:08:38 · 29 answers · asked by L A 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we hangout every weekend and we have been talking for a month and a half... i am too scared to ask him if we are dating and i kno he will never ask me..what should i do?

2007-12-14 02:04:34 · 4 answers · asked by jacee 1 in Singles & Dating

Who? ;))

2007-12-14 02:03:33 · 23 answers · asked by Dacy 2 in Friends

Well in school, i like two girls, girl a likes someone else who is friends with me and girl b, i don't know who she likes but there is a rumour that she likes me, me and girl a talk to eachother and joke around but girl b, i knew her since our first year in high school, we got along very well but since we don't see eachother that often, only in science and geography and girl a I see her in most of my classes and her friends get along with me aswell but some of b's friends don't.

What should I do?

2007-12-14 02:01:52 · 8 answers · asked by ? 3 in Friends

ive just been dumped by the perfect girl, and we talked and she said its her not me, she even called me perfect but all im askin is when does my heart start to not hurt anymore

2007-12-14 02:00:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I divorced my ex-husband 5 1/2 years. My kids lived with him 10 month with him in that time I met my boyfriend and moved together (at this point I didn't have the kids); we had great times together we barely had disagreements. Then my ex-husband couldn't handle the kids and they moved with us. My boyfriend doesn't have any children and it has been very difficult to transition from single to have an instant family. He is helping me a lot and he had taken the father part very serious, to the point that I feel that we live only by his rules. I love him and love my kids; I feel I'm in the middle of this. My kids are in their teen age and I heard most of the parents goes through difficult times at this age. My boyfriend wants me to be more like him; I tried to support his rules but sometimes I think he over reacts for small things. I don't know what to do at this point? I know my boyfriend cares for me but I don't feel he cares for my kids, what should you suggest I do?

2007-12-14 01:58:47 · 10 answers · asked by Dulce C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 28 years old. My 79 year old Grandmother who raised me has two sisters who have both said nasty things about me. One repeatedly told her and me that I was being dishonest about my work activities, etc (even after I provided proof that I wasn't). the other sent me a nasty email and the ip address was traced back to her. My grandmother continues to converse with them without addressing the issue and says it is not her place to have asked them to stop gossiping about me. In short, she claims they can say anything they'd like about me, but it's not appropriate for her to politely ask them to stop. I'm not asking her to cut communicaiton with them, simply asking her to defend me, but she claims that christian people don't do that. Am I out of line?

2007-12-14 01:56:15 · 4 answers · asked by Miagirl33 1 in Family

i was i a relationship for five years..... lots of ups ddown i finally decided to let it go.. i started workig new place.. was havin fun bein alone.. im gettin attracted to my boss // bachelor but recently he got engaged ... i seriously didot know but when i heard he got engaged i felt really bad... i m not that sorts who falls for each and every guy.. its just that i vibe well with him.. he also speaks tome for hors at work.. my friends say he treats me just like nay of his juniors..
i thought it was enough.. i just took break for ten days
...help if u can
is it normal or im just hungry for someone

2007-12-14 01:55:35 · 5 answers · asked by ladybird 2 in Singles & Dating

In example we have adopted 3 boys whos parents gave them up over 10 years ago, one of the children was 3 months old the others were 4 and 5. Thru myspace the birth mother found them and contacted them behind our backs. Thier myspace was deleted but they go to yahoo, aim , inbox etc and just keep making new myspace accounts. We have parental controls set at home but they go to friends homes or library and just make new ones. Thier Birth mother was a horrible person who had every chance in the world to keep her kids, she only wanted 2 of them , she didn't want the brown child , just the 2 blondes. I know they are just curious, but they went too far and gave out thier real names, our address, and thier birth mother posted pictures of our adopted children on her myspace. The children knew they were adopted. Do you think to have a myspace page a parent should have to actually sign something saying it;s ok to have a page or should children be able to continue endangering themselves?

2007-12-14 01:51:01 · 12 answers · asked by nonya b 3 in Family

I became a gf of Mr.A for 7 years up to now. His family used to ask him to get married to a rich girl but he refused because he loved me. He is a quiet person, he never liked romatic feeling but he is faithful. Since i've known him, i can't do many things that i want like singing, dancing, wearing sexy dress because he dislikes...so i have to follow him. He often easy to get angry if i did s.th wrong but he is easy to compose. Last year, i came to study in another country while he was continueing his work at our country. He came to visit me twice a month. However, while i was in another country alone i knew Mr. B. W first talked as friends but i found out we had many things the sames then we decided to be bf and gf (i told him that i already broked up with Mr. A but in fact not yet). what should i do? Mr A has built loving with me 7 years and people know about us and he is still faithful to me even he is so sensitive (angry) , while Mr.B even i just know him but we have the same hobbie

2007-12-14 01:50:33 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok.. so there is this girl who i became friend with. We hang out couple of times and then i asked her out on a date... she said no. but everytime i see her she wants me to attend this painting class with her.....

She is ok and will be 18 soon. since then this is all she wants...and she does not want to hang out anymore..... should i go to the class?

Here is the problem... class is in church.. and on the day we have class, there are a lot of activities going on... too many people....Plus the only students in the class is me and her....


should i attend this class? do you see this thing going anywhere? Plus i know she has a lot guy friends... why does she need my attention in church?

2007-12-14 01:41:47 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there kinda hard too come by .

2007-12-14 01:34:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex husband's girlfriend will not leave me alone. She calls, leaves messages, and text messages me all day. She had my youngest son's medication transferred from the pharmacy by my house to the one by her house. She calls in and picks up his prescriptions before I get a chance to. She registers them into after school sports, when practices are before I get off work. She makes dentist and doctor's appointments for them, then calls me and tells me when they are. She tells my kids that I am not a good mom unless I buy them this and that or enroll them in sports etc. She sends emails to my youngest son's teacher, pretending to be me to get information. She called the glasses place, saying she was me, to see how I paid for the glasses. Every time I talk to him about it, we have a decent conversation and then within a hour she is calling being rude and demainding. I am so tired of all the drama. I want her to just leave me and my kids alone. I didn't marry or divorce her. HELP!!!

2007-12-14 01:33:16 · 23 answers · asked by cyn s 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-14 01:31:54 · 26 answers · asked by Nanami 3 in Singles & Dating