I am five months pregnant and seperated from my live in boyfriend.He treats me badly like unplugging the fridge,removing the lights,removing the toilet seat,barricading the living room,spreading stuff in the other room I am using which would affect my health.Its inhumane and do not understand why he is doing this.We even had an altercation where the cops got involve.
2007-12-14 02:08:38 · 29 answers · asked by L A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not only is he nutty, he's got MAJOR control issues.
Get as far from him as fast as you can.
2007-12-14 02:15:48 · answer #1 · answered by LB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH MY GOD! He is an abussive heartless person. I do not know what kind of help or support you have or can get from friends and family but you do not need that stress or lack of respect. No one needs to be in that type of environment. The things you describe are beyond unstable and I bet you are not the only person he had inflicted his abussive wrath upon. He will not stop and could seriously hurt you and eventually your child. Talk to your parents or friends and get them to help you. Meaning, letting you stay with them or help you simply get out. I know that is easier said than done and I assume that since you are with this *** that you have or have had feelings for him but he is gutless and a bully. There are a lot of jerks in the world but also some really great guys too! Life is too short to put up with this. Everyone has the right to be happy and enjoy everyday like it is your last. It probably will not get better so you have to make a decision very soon. If you need to simply talk to someone you can email me.I wish you all the best!!
2007-12-14 02:29:55 · answer #2 · answered by Chef Shine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on and get away from him!! easier said then done"right" i know.Because u are carring his child it is hard to just move on even though he is being a freak!Hope u have family that is there to support u cause that helps lots.Dont know if he has always been like this or how long u 2 have been together but it just wont change and NO not even when ur baby is born...trust me i know... sorry ur going through this it sucks,,just remember that u are a parent know and have to put ur child first.I know that he is going to sweet talk u back and even promise u alot of things will change but they will only change until he freaks out again.Be strong girl!!
2007-12-14 02:21:27 · answer #3 · answered by smile 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you go to a safe place and tell any mutual friends not to let him know exactly where it is.
If he fights to see the child let it go through the courts, if possiblekeep any kind of evidence regarding this abuse.
Get a restaining order and do not let this man crawl back into your life. He sounds like he needs to see a mental health expert and you could possibly put yourself in a dangerous situation living with him.
Be careful, be safe, be strong.
2007-12-14 02:16:47 · answer #4 · answered by kirstnkyz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was you i would move out of the house maybe go stay with a family member or friend but don't let him know where your going ! Just when the child is Born don't put his name as the father and DON'T let him see the child!!
2007-12-14 02:14:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously, this guy is a wack-job. Get him out of your life asap. Go live with your mom or something until you feel you're able to live with your baby peacefully....unless you are as crazy as him in which case you should just stay with him and live hapily and crazily ever after.
2007-12-14 02:13:50 · answer #6 · answered by g24rayer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend is not looking out for your best interests, or the interests of your unborn child. If he is acting this way towards you, he will also treat the child poorly when he/she is born.
You should end things with him altogether. If he has violent tendencies, I would seek a restraining order against him. It's time to look out for your child and yourself.
2007-12-14 02:12:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
oh wooow like that's the worst thing a person can suffer... like he's "removing the toilet seat" boohoo.. there are way worse guys that beat up their wives on a daily basis. so think about that. as long as he doesn't harm YOU then i wouldnt complain that much about it and those things you listed arent even that bad..
2007-12-14 02:16:38 · answer #8 · answered by Angel Of Darkness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he going to cut off the heat during the winter and steal the diapers? Get out now.
2007-12-14 02:14:09 · answer #9 · answered by Rhyann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pack your stuff and get the hell out of there. Why would you want your kid to grow up in a situation like that!?
2007-12-14 02:15:55 · answer #10 · answered by Katy B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋