Family & Relationships - 14 December 2007

My mother tells me of for makeing my own food she took my tv from my room and gave it to her partners sons because theres did'nt work. and when I used my playstation 2 down stairs she went mad. I live In the house on my own most of the time because shes at her partners house down the road alot. When she whent on holiday with her partner she took his to sons and there sons friend and she took his girl who lives a long way off and did'nt invite me. I work and have to give her 100£ boad a week. she Never gets me a christmas present or birthday presents and If I ask for any she tells me to get lost. and at christmas they have a christmas dinner dont invite me and Im not allowed to make my own tea. once I got her a mothers day card and some flowers and she said you should'nt of botherd. and I whent to work on my bike and got hit by a car and when my mother saw me she said you will do anything to get out of work. what shall I do?

2007-12-14 05:32:44 · 5 answers · asked by Phillip K 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

or massages?

My husband is always trying to make me go and do these things but I just can't bring myself to pay for things like that? There have been times where he's dropeed me off at a spa and told the receptionist to have someone give me a massage and manicure!! I feel it's a waste of money. Do you think it's a waste of money or should I be taking advantage of the opportunity?

2007-12-14 05:32:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-14 05:32:39 · 41 answers · asked by AlphaFeGreatWhite 3 in Singles & Dating

we all hang out normaly exept this last time, he was alone. I guess they had been fighting and he showed @ my door. So we just hung out for a few hours, then she shows up poundingon my door, i let her in, and she's trippin. BIG TIME. I understand her side, but i don't want to stop talking to either one of them. We weren't doing anythin wrong. What should i do?

2007-12-14 05:32:32 · 31 answers · asked by Rickie R 1 in Friends

My wife, after seven years of on and off the bottle, cheating, drug abuse, hospitalizations for everything under the sun, and knowing she had nothing to offer me, gave me a green light to have sex outside of the marriage. Late this past summer, she got clean and began doing very well, and she asked me at that time to forego the green light and to give her another chance. (I gave her a last chance last year/we are only together for the kids and finances) Well, I reluctantly gave in, but as far as I am concerned, since then, she has shown me nothing. She never initiates affection, refuses sex, and is still on an emotional roller coaster, and still plays the victim whenever I give the slightest criticizm. I aam about to tell her just forget the whole thinga nd be friends and turn the green light back on. Don't you agree that if she wants more that its her who has to make the effort? (Believe me, my efforts have been endless)

2007-12-14 05:31:25 · 30 answers · asked by lillegman46 1 in Marriage & Divorce

he tells all of his mates what you said then it spreads around??
i HATE that!

2007-12-14 05:29:30 · 6 answers · asked by Toothepaste Kisses-* 3 in Singles & Dating

I have a gf for almost a year now. We know each other since `94 and are extremely happy together. One thought bothers me very much though and does not allow me to focus on other things. It is concerning my gf's other boyfriends before we were together.We lived in different countries for few years and lead separate ways of living. Now I can't get picture and thought out of my head that she'd been with some other guys in bed. The picture makes me feel just so bad.I feel anger,sadness,sickness in my stomach at the same time.I can't stop thinking about it. I know it's crazy,but the image of her in bed with some other guys make me feel so, that I want to cry. I haven't talked to her about it,as I guess I could upset her. I have no right to be angry at her nor blame her in any way,but I can't stop this horrible feeling coming back every few hours I have some spare time. I want it to go away and don't know why it doesn't.I need help, how to cope with that. I can't change the past, do I ?!

2007-12-14 05:28:12 · 17 answers · asked by surcharge 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay well his birthday is on the 28th of this month and he's turning 20. It's also our first Christmas physically together because I was in California last year. Well, I'm stuck at home so I have to get it online or get an idea of what to make or do. He's picky with food so that's why I barely cook for him. The food I make that he really likes is pasta, but I made that like how many times already. He doesn't want anything and even if he does, he won't say. He's really upset because of what had happened at work and I'm having a hard time cheering him up. Does anyone have any real ideas on gifts or ways of us celebrating together? Thank you! I hope no one gives any stupid answers just for points...

2007-12-14 05:27:45 · 2 answers · asked by pinaysunrise 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I met me fiance online, she messaged me one day, and although we live in different states, we long distanced it for & after just under a year, we moved in and got engaged.

Our culture, needs us to be engaged b4 we can live together.

We've been living together ~6mons, and since after the first month i've come to feel/realize that she's not the one. She's absolutely great in every respect, family, friends, etc, etc..but i don't feel it for her at all anymore. I feel we are intrinsically different, i want different things. I just graduated from professional school a year ago, this is my first time 'out' and i feel as if i just want to be on my own. Its my mistake, i proposed, but i am so unhappy in this arrangement i don't know what to do. I've told her how i feel, 3 months in, she told me to give her time, but i just want out..i feel i'm wasting each others time.. We live together in a condo i purchased for us to live in, i'm so unsettled, i don't feel right at all.

2007-12-14 05:27:11 · 18 answers · asked by R T 1 in Weddings

stupid questions

2007-12-14 05:26:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been together for 6 months now when sex if usually very active but its not with us. He knew from the beginning that I am very sexual so I'm not sure if he has ed or if he feels inadequate. Everything else is our relationship is wonderful and he says that he is totally inlove with me. I have tried to spice things up by wearing sexy clothes or planning intimate evenings but he usually has an "excuse" that he either feels sick or is tired when I'm thinking he should be aroused. When I try to discuss it he says I'm too insecure in the relationship and just shuts it down. I'm trying to figure out if he has a problem or maybe sexually just not interested in me. I have even tried being less aggressive but if I don't initiate it we would never have sex which is ruinng my self esteem. I Love him but where do I go from here? He is 52 yrs old but I've been with older men and they didn't have this problem. Help me please. I'm frustrated and don't want to go on like this.

2007-12-14 05:26:01 · 5 answers · asked by Dana B 2 in Singles & Dating

i know guys do it too so dont send me 5000 answers of ya'll do it too i've never been that way and i asking about women right now

2007-12-14 05:25:08 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I get jealous every time i see him flirting with a customer at work.

2007-12-14 05:24:18 · 13 answers · asked by babygurlmami 1 in Singles & Dating

most men are always__________? or most women are always__________? be nice.lol

2007-12-14 05:22:30 · 19 answers · asked by WonderWoman 5 in Singles & Dating

i am slim and work out a lot but i still am not totally happy with my legs and it seems no matter how much i run, and use weights they just arent what i would like them to look like ideally. im also only a 34B chest size and wouldnt mind upgrading to a C. my husband goes ballistic any time i suggest some minor surgery that would make me feel so much better about myself. he insists that he would not be attracted to me if i was "fake" but i think thats bs since half the women i've found in his porn file on the computer look fake and he obviously likes them very much? what should i do? should i get the surgery anyway or respect his opinion. btw: i would not use his money for the surgery..only money i've saved from my own job.

2007-12-14 05:21:51 · 29 answers · asked by Heather 3 in Marriage & Divorce

any one there wherein your hubby walks nude in the house before and after shower,even in the presence of his 65 old mother and even just a few time can talk to mother naked while the mother looking away?What u will think about this, am from usa...i confronted hubby if there is incest going on he says its gross and sick...because i felt like he is seducing his mother. hubby is changing his bad habits whenever i tried opening it up, after i ask him about incest thing, he does not act now so physically close to his mother. Is this an indication that he is just overcomfortable with his mom that he can walk nude in front of her....

thank you for your advice and time

2007-12-14 05:21:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

before i met him i used to have lots of guy friends
i used have more guy friends then girls
Now that i have been 2 yrs with him i lost contact with all my friends...i found few and i want to go out with them and hang out but i know my bf is too jealous he wont let me and i understand him..but there is lots guys here in yahoo say that they arent jealous if there gf have guy friends....I dont think its true...What do you girls think?

2007-12-14 05:21:12 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

help

2007-12-14 05:20:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-14 05:19:28 · 10 answers · asked by may 1 in Family

just being curious and the fact that my gf just dumped me, i was wondering do i look ok?

http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cf...

in case your were wondering, the one to the left, lol

2007-12-14 05:16:28 · 1 answers · asked by captain amazing 2 in Singles & Dating

what things put you off that make you want to leave them...is it something that some ones does and you just think OH i gotta run....lol

2007-12-14 05:16:11 · 12 answers · asked by london-fem 3 in Singles & Dating

Where should I go to get marriage licence? will they open during the Christmastime?

2007-12-14 05:16:06 · 7 answers · asked by tu h 1 in Marriage & Divorce

she is not really my "friend" her brother are y firneds, but she likes to tag along. she is only 11 or 12yrs old! how can i help her get through this? she is very dramatic and emotional about this kind of stuff, and to top it off- she lives in a not to good area- i don't want to to start doing drugs or something she will regret!

2007-12-14 05:15:05 · 6 answers · asked by what i'd do 4 u 2 love me 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i already took the act and dont plan on taking it again. im just curious if if is possible to cheat or if anyone has successfully cheated cuz it seems pretty rigid and hard to cheat.

2007-12-14 05:14:26 · 1 answers · asked by Ryan M 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-14 05:13:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Each time I try to buy a present for a female is the most difficult shopping experience in my life. I am sick and tired of buying candles, soaps baskets, flowers, sexy lingerie, toys fragrances and all that beauty stuff they put it on to feel better about them selfs. In my opinion present should always represent something meaningful, interpersonal well though out and here comes my problem; I don’t have difficulties getting something cool for my guy friends but when it comes to woman I tend to struggle in agony. True my relational background none of my girlfriends had real interests or hobbies. Their world tend to turn around their beauty, relationship, chatting with friend, clubbing and hmm…, that’s it for what I can think of right now. I know that by now many female readers are about to choke me, but that’s how most man feel when it comes to buying you a gift. I am not trying to generalize or offend anybody, there are many beautiful qualities in woman but when it comes to buying you

2007-12-14 05:13:31 · 11 answers · asked by CarpeDiem 1 in Singles & Dating

I hate saying im seperated.....i would rather say single,

2007-12-14 05:12:22 · 33 answers · asked by Reta 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-14 05:12:20 · 20 answers · asked by Brittany 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

good looking and sexy just so you can get them into bed, or would you not say that if you didn't mean it?

2007-12-14 05:11:38 · 10 answers · asked by coz_6 1 in Singles & Dating

Im a really private person but recently i told two friends some of the secrets that have been building up for the last couple of years. I just did it one evening, but since then i am constantly worried and fell exposed. I hate it and find myself trying to distance myself from them now and i don't know why. Whats wrong with me? Why cant i tell people things?

2007-12-14 05:11:27 · 18 answers · asked by des 1 in Friends