i know guys do it too so dont send me 5000 answers of ya'll do it too i've never been that way and i asking about women right now
2007-12-14 05:25:08 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dawn u didnt read the question i said men do it too but im not asking about that im asking about women
2007-12-14 06:12:42 · update #1
this is why i dont like kids answering questions
2007-12-14 06:17:44 · update #2
how bout if a bish is gonna ufck a dude cause how he look she just a h*o*e ne ways, a real azz bish gonna chil wit some one, be friends with some one, and fall for some one. So all the h*o*e azz bishes that said yes, they dont really matter any ways. All they good for is a nut any ways, aint no dude gonna be with a h*o*e fo life, but a bish like me! lol be for real bishes
2007-12-14 12:33:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It mattered somewhat when I was younger but not so much now that I'm over 30. I'm surprised that older people 35+ are still that shallow. I went out with a friend from work who is over 40 and said every man in the bar was ugly. How can every man be ugly? Needless to say she didn't talk to anyone I talked with whoever I wanted. I think some people need to take a look in the mirror and see that they are no longer teens.
2007-12-14 05:29:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know what? The first time you see someone, you don't know diddly squat about their personality or who they are. All you know is what they look like, and whether you find them attractive or not. That isn't wrong, it is reality. It is only shallow when you base a relationship on physical attraction, or when you have a one-night stand with a guy because he's a hunk and you want him, or when you don't ever bother to get to know him as a person solely based on the fact that you don't find him handsome. That is shallow. But noticing first of all that he is handsome is not shallow. It's a first impression.
2007-12-14 05:30:31 · answer #3 · answered by Blue Eyed Christian 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not all women are that shallow. I rather have someone who is sweet with a great personality and a great sense of humor. I'm a sucker for funny guys. Plus, most guys that are good looking know it and they are full of themselves. That’s a REAL TURNOFF. So, if you don't have the looks, make sure to make it up somewhere else by being really funny or by being a romantic. Good Luck!
2007-12-14 05:35:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion it depends... By this I mean it's all about the vibe that's given off at the time. Yeah some of us go strictly off the physical aspect of men and some us will take a chance choosing personality over physical, like I said it depends on the guy and the vibe.
2007-12-14 05:32:51 · answer #5 · answered by faithfully_true2u 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I look at it like this, LOOKS are the first thing you notice in a person.....if not then your blind! Does it make me shallow, sure maybe in some sense...But come on now, even the finest guy is the ugliest cause he has a $h*tty personality. And the ugliest guy can be handsome....but if I'm not physically attractive to a man, his personality isn't gonna make that attraction stronger. It helps him, but I couldn't just base it off of that.
2007-12-14 06:57:30 · answer #6 · answered by Rican Princess 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Always, you have to like the way the guy looks before you even talk to him, but i found that i stopped doing that i i found a wonderful man, i think that just how everyone is made, men do it too as you know
2007-12-14 05:29:02 · answer #7 · answered by #4 due may 29th 2009 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, some women are just like some men are. Just try to find the ones who are not, they are out there. Better to judge someone initially on how attracted you are to them than how much money they have or what car they drive.
2007-12-14 05:28:56 · answer #8 · answered by Snarf 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We all do it, on some base biological level. But to be really honest, I think that men are allowed to be more judgemental with looks than women are. (And to be really honest, MONEY can sometimes make a man sooo hot---to some women). So many women can say they don't do it, but they do.......Like I said, we all do.
2007-12-14 05:42:40 · answer #9 · answered by blanquita 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
...everyone judges people based on first appearances. it IS only human. how can you NOT look at the physical? are you going to walk up to a person blindfolded to figure out their personality first? no.
however, some people do stick with their initial judgement based on appearances but, just like you say you don't, not all women do.
it's not shallow, it's human nature. it is only shallow if you refuse to associate with someone based on their appearance. you can't tell me you don't base things on physical appearance, but you may look beyond them.
2007-12-14 05:30:34 · answer #10 · answered by :-) 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋