I get jealous every time i see him flirting with a customer at work.
2007-12-14 05:24:18 · 13 answers · asked by babygurlmami 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Blackmail him for a promotion and boill a bunny at his house.
2007-12-14 05:28:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well my dear this is somthing you will have to live with how you live with it is the tricky part. For every action there is a reaction. I am not sure why you or your boss allow this to happen the fact is it already did and you need to know how to deal with it. In your question you said you had an "affiar" big word affairs or never good wether they are in the work place or outside of the work place. When you have a sexual relationship with someone you share apart of your soul that is sacred, that is why God would prefer if we get marride before we have sex, of any form.
The result of going againt this is negative as we are seeing now. You gave a special part of you to someone other than your husband and now he is not handling it with care. I want to advise you to talk with him ask him how he feels about you ask him if he wants more or just an affair then tell hm what it is that you want see if he can offer you that if he cant i advise that you choose what is best for you and what God want to see you do. Forgive him for his actions that hurt you forgive yourself for putting yourself in a situation like this, focus on things that makes you happy walk away if from the negative aspects of your pass relationship. Where you job is concerned if you cant work and feel free around him while he flirts apply to work somewhere else, but most importantly learn from your experience, be good to your self and not allow this to append again.
love you
2007-12-14 05:43:54 · answer #2 · answered by Faith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Babygirl there is no reason for your jealousy as you two had an affair and not a relationship. Perhaps you need to sit down and iron things out with him before things get too far out of hand.
2007-12-14 05:28:10 · answer #3 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What should you do? You should have learned a valuable lesson about dating coworkers, but you didn't. Don't worry, the problem will solve itself; you won't be working there much longer!
2007-12-14 05:27:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry...there are consequences to the decisions that we make...just like he flirted with you he is flirting with others...u knew how he was...so basically how can u get mad?
2007-12-14 05:28:23 · answer #5 · answered by Overflow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look for a new job and stop sleeping with your managers.
2007-12-14 05:26:31 · answer #6 · answered by Casie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you truely care about him...( like in love with him) get another job, working together and being jealous can be so unhealthy for you. Think about where y'all stand with each other, and if thats what you want.( its doesn't matter what he wats, its wat you want)
2007-12-14 05:31:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
either get a raise for your "xtra effort" or get a new job..
2007-12-14 05:27:55 · answer #8 · answered by Frances 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you already did what you should not have done, not you are stuck with the results. live with it.
2007-12-14 05:26:44 · answer #9 · answered by mark019 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you over extended your fringe benefits or did he...ooops
2007-12-14 05:33:56 · answer #10 · answered by rogue 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋