2007-12-14 05:32:39 · 41 answers · asked by AlphaFeGreatWhite 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you keep thinking they will change you are the stupid one for not taking the hint and moving on with your life.
There are people who lie and cheat all the time but there are alot that don't.
If they cheat on you, then they don't have much feelings for you because they don't care if you get hurt or not.
2007-12-14 05:37:28 · answer #1 · answered by Sapphire 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It most definitely does NOT make you stupid. That's almost like someone getting murdered and then coming back and asking if they were stupid. NO! There are evil people all around and unfortunately, cheating is becoming okay. Guys don't seem to have a heart any longer. They'll do whatever makes them feel good and don't care what it does to those around them. Thus the high divorce rate. It has nothing to do with you and everything to do with the lack of moral values that particular person -- the cheater -- seems to have. I'd say his parents must have been baboons, otherwise he'd have learned better from them.
2007-12-14 05:36:18 · answer #2 · answered by Sassie 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, because you should have learned, um, say by the 3rd time, but will allow for a 4th. Yeah there are real big liars out there but then, there seems to be a lot more suckers out there that constantly, continuously believe the big liars. Wising up, it doesn't hurt as bad as being lied to. God Bless.
2007-12-14 05:37:34 · answer #3 · answered by Bethy4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cheated on my girlfriend three times and now i feel so bad for taking her for granted. We loved each other and i made a stupid mistake. I only wish i can tell her how i truly feel but she wont let me in and im scaired. If you are repeatedly getting cheated on by the same person, it means that yall might found true love.
2007-12-17 14:33:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, if you love a person and really want to be with them you will be with them whatever they do. Ive been cheated on over and over but I'm still with him. Yeah i think about it but i cant keep dwelling in the past because I took him back every time he messed around. You have to remember to always follow your heart and not your mind. Just try to put trust and things will get better . I know
2007-12-14 05:47:45 · answer #5 · answered by Jess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't make you stupid. However, if you know this person is cheating on you over and over again , I would question why you chose to stay in this relationship ? This kind of behavior will never end. I would find a new girl/boy friend if I were you. Good Luck ! :)
2007-12-14 05:36:46 · answer #6 · answered by tysavage2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stupid may be kind of harsh, but true. What do you call someone that continuously does not learn from the mistakes they make? Dumb perhaps. Old people would say they are silly, which is a synonym for stupid.
2007-12-14 05:57:26 · answer #7 · answered by Solomon Grundy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Yes it does, because I'm a doctor." That's going to make me laugh all freaking day.
It doesn't make you stupid, it makes you naive and clueless. Or paranoid. It isn't your fault they cheated I suppose, except if there is a pattern maybe you need to look to yourself in the relationships too. Can't blame everything on the other person. And I'm not saying blame yourself... but it woudln't hurt to investigate why they leave or stray.
2007-12-14 05:40:32 · answer #8 · answered by Jimmy K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you've gotten cheated on more then once doesn't make you stupid. Anyone can fall for the game. I know i did a few times. Even once in high school this really "sweet guy" near the ending of my grade 12 year convinced me to sleep with him. He didn't say i want to bang you, but he mad it feel so right at the time. He'd stop off at my place and bring me flower& he even took me to meet his mom. All of it was a hoax. He just wanted the sex and nothing else. After we hooked up he started treating me like crap. One day after school some girl called my cell phone & ididn't even know who she was, but she sounded really sad. She told me she knew my bff and got my number off her. This girl knew i was seeing that "sweet" guy, She told me they usto go out and once he started getting into her bed he got worse and worse each time. She told me about these strange episodes of rage he had. He even smacked her once. I broke it off with him right away and he feaked out, There are so many creepos and retards out there that you just gotta whatch it. My advice to you is to be friends with them for a while before you get into any relationships.
2007-12-14 05:39:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means your not stupid at all, you just got very bad luck and/or are attracted to the wrong type of person. make sure you get to know them properly and truly trust them b4 u get involved. dnt b down on yourself, its nothing you have done, i really do feel for you coz being cheated on is really a awful feeling. but its them, not you, they just cant keep there underwear on and will get what they deserve in the end, what goes around comes around. they didnt deserve you
2007-12-14 05:37:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋